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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 9:41:37 AM

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Fun is great for those of us who know where the boundaries are... Kevin has some issues in that regard.

I dress according to the occasion. My clothing does not make me dominant. If it did, wouldn't I stop being dominant when I was naked?

By Kevin, I assume you mean the OP? Sorry, I am not familiar with him or his history, and did not mean to offend anyone or push their boundaries. And I have to laugh about losing your dominance if you're naked.....maybe that's why they keep the thigh-high boots on in the cheap tacky BDSM movies....

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 9:50:13 AM

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kevin (the op) is a chronic whiner and fantasy player. See the thread about purposely spilling drinks, for instance.

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 9:53:56 AM

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I've only met with 2 people here. I meet most of the subs I play with while shopping or at places like Bondage-a-Go-Go and other fetish clubs.

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 10:17:52 AM

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I will answer the title question to this thread only.

Yes. I have.

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 10:57:23 AM

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Yes I have met plenty of BDSMers who are not members of CM. I have met tham at munches, parties, clubs and from other BDSM sites.
I don't believe I have ever met any BDSMers by accident within the vanilla world but then why should I? I may look at a guy and think 'hmmm he looks and behaves very submissively' or I may get chatting to a guy that seems very dominant but I would never be so presumptuous as to believe I am right.
As a woman I am confident and assertive and I certainly attract a certain type of guy (perhaps submissive but then again perhaps just someone who prefers confident assertive women!!). Sexually I am very dominant but then I don't go to bed with vanilla men so I don't know if I could convert any of them.
I know some dominant women/men that believe every person attracted to them are submissive and I know submissive guys that see a woman in leather boots or jods and chaps and believe she must be a dominant. All I can say is wake up and take a sensible pill.

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/1/2009 11:09:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I know some dominant women/men that believe every person attracted to them are submissive and I know submissive guys that see a woman in leather boots or jods and chaps and believe she must be a dominant. All I can say is wake up and take a sensible pill.

What a great thing it would be if we could prescribe these pills to the poor souls who need them!

I go for presentable comfort when meeting someone. If people find that "unclear" then its their own problem. As I say in my profile...I dress for comfort not fetish.
Have I met people from outside CollarMe? Yes...'nuff said!

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RE: Have You ever met people from outside Collarme - 6/2/2009 2:18:04 AM

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Chronic whiner? Hmm. let me see its definitely an irish trait. You see the irish moan about everything. its so funny, people were complaining hugely about the weather a couple of weeks which was very wet windy cool, a typical miserable irish summer. You would think then that they would be grateful for the outbreak of sunshine in the last week. But oh no its like we are going to have to endure this blooming heat for the next five days. its like do we really get sunshine that often and then if anyone dares rain on our parade, its like , we are getting such lousy weather will it ever stop raining. Yeah its definitely an obsession in Dublin, i was in a taxi the other day and the fare came to €9.40, i gave the taxi driver €10 and he says to me have you anything smaller than that, it s like is he taking me for a ride or what, well taxis do take people for a ride but there is taking for a ride and taking for a ride if you know what i mean. So yeah if there was a world championship for moaners the irish would be in the final every time. So yeah im defintely representative of my country- a chronic whiner laughs- winks to Greedy Top, your bang on the whinge line
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