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Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:34:41 AM

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Curious if anyone has ever had this happen from face slapping. If so, did it result from force or from repetition? And, perhaps more importantly, how did it make you or your partner feel afterward?

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:36:22 AM

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I had a bruised cheek once (from one slap) I was worried that people would comment on it but they didnt so it was fine. How it affected me? if didnt we both just laughed.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:38:41 AM

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Yes...it happened from a rather mild backhand. He used his palm repeatedly in the past with no bruising at all but for some reason that time he used the reverse.

As to the bruising...it was mostly covered with makeup. If anyone noticed they had no comment.

He felt awful and never did it again. It did not bother me at all.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:42:34 AM

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...He felt awful and never did it again. It did not bother me at all.

Yeah, that's sort of my boat as well. I've never been bruised, per se, but maybe a small blood vessel here and there. I wear foundation when out of the house, so.... No biggie. But something about one's face often becomes very taboo... even when the rest of their body is completely jacked. :D

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:42:37 AM

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I get slapped frequently as part of our play, but so far, there have been no lingering marks from it. Slap marks on the face are pretty distinctive and I don't really want to be put in the position of explaining that to my co-workers, or even thinking they'd be wondering about it. I love bruises in general, but I'd rather them be in places where I can control who sees them and who doesn't.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:51:09 AM

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I bruise quite easily so yeah slapping often results in bruising for me. I rarely wear make up and don't bother when i have a bruise. To me it's just another bruise that i can admire

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 9:52:55 AM

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...I love bruises in general, but I'd rather them be in places where I can control who sees them and who doesn't.

Agreed! But certain activities can have unintended consequences. It doesn't get me off to think about going out in public with a bruise on my face, but it doesn't worry me too much either if that type of play inadvertently resulted in a few marks.

I would hate to have said slapper get freaked as in sirsholly's case and have such play cease altogether!

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 10:18:08 AM

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Face slapping is never part of my retinue of things to do to anyone. That is reserved for serious, not fun, no play situations and not on any female belonging to me, I prefer them to look beautiful not like they've gone three five minute rounds in the octagon in a UF match. I've seen the result of an unpleasant female who has had her hair grabbed, twisted and received a continual backhand/forehand face slapping, called I'm told "Bitch Slapping" as often used by male brothel owners to kepp a girl in line. The result wasn't pretty and she was unconscious as a result of it.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 10:21:32 AM

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Face slapping is never part of my retinue of things to do to anyone. That is reserved for serious, not fun, no play situations and not on any female belonging to me, I prefer them to look beautiful not like they've gone three five minute rounds in the octagon in a UF match. I've seen the result of an unpleasant female who has had her hair grabbed, twisted and received a continual backhand/forehand face slapping, called I'm told "Bitch Slapping" as often used by male brothel owners to kepp a girl in line. The result wasn't pretty and she was unconscious as a result of it.

Are you telling me no one stepped in to help this "unpleasant female" from being beaten unconscious?

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 10:30:52 AM

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I bruise quite easily so yeah slapping often results in bruising for me. I rarely wear make up and don't bother when i have a bruise. To me it's just another bruise that i can admire

ohhh isnt that possibly offensive to others :P

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 10:53:15 AM

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No, I haven't..but it wouldn't bother me in the least. I like to be marked though, so for me it's just the same as any other bruise. I could always cover it up with make-up if I needed to, and it would sure be a lot easier for me to admire than a bruise on my ass.

Alas, I am harder than heck to bruise..so I doubt this will ever happen.

BTW, for those that are against face slapping, that is your prerogative and my kink doesn't have to be yours. There is a huge difference between a man beating a woman in the face, and the slapping that is done by my Master. My only complaint is I don't get slapped enough

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 11:46:31 AM

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I've never left bruises from slapping per se. Have left bruises from punching though. She didn't mind. In fact I think we both got off on people seeing her like that the next day.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 1:03:12 PM

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Face slapping is never part of my retinue of things to do to anyone. That is reserved for serious, not fun, no play situations and not on any female belonging to me, I prefer them to look beautiful not like they've gone three five minute rounds in the octagon in a UF match. I've seen the result of an unpleasant female who has had her hair grabbed, twisted and received a continual backhand/forehand face slapping, called I'm told "Bitch Slapping" as often used by male brothel owners to kepp a girl in line. The result wasn't pretty and she was unconscious as a result of it.

Are you telling me no one stepped in to help this "unpleasant female" from being beaten unconscious?

No. Didn't happen either here or in the US and not for me to intervene with interrogations.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 3:53:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddystouch

I've never left bruises from slapping per se. Have left bruises from punching though. She didn't mind. In fact I think we both got off on people seeing her like that the next day.

More info on this punching, please!

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 4:10:17 PM

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I got a black eye one time from face slapping and it was most likely one slap that did it.
He was very apologetic and felt very bad as he does not like his girl marked.
Arnica cream helps and covered with make up. Hasn't happened again..thank goodness.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 4:20:28 PM

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It's happened. He felt a little bad at first but I shrugged if off and then so did he.

Accidents happen. Bruises happen. They heal and it's no big deal.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 4:27:22 PM

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Face slapping is never part of my retinue of things to do to anyone. That is reserved for serious, not fun, no play situations and not on any female belonging to me, I prefer them to look beautiful not like they've gone three five minute rounds in the octagon in a UF match. I've seen the result of an unpleasant female who has had her hair grabbed, twisted and received a continual backhand/forehand face slapping, called I'm told "Bitch Slapping" as often used by male brothel owners to kepp a girl in line. The result wasn't pretty and she was unconscious as a result of it.

Are you telling me no one stepped in to help this "unpleasant female" from being beaten unconscious?

No. Didn't happen either here or in the US and not for me to intervene with interrogations.

i don't care if it happened in Timbuktu, its sad that no one intervened. i can ASSURE you i would have, i probably would have been beaten too but at least i would have done something. Perhaps chivalry isn't dead, us women just have to have it for each other now.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 5:10:42 PM

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I get slapped hard and often on the face. I've never been bruised, but that doesn't mean it can't happen.
Personally it wouldn't bother me in the least to have a bruise from that, in fact it would most likely turn me on, but I have little ones and wouldn't want to have to come up with a story to explain it.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 5:18:35 PM

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A few things.

I love a woman with a good black eye. Maybe a even a bloodied lip.

e.g. http://www.isecuretrac.com/AppThemesCommon/domestic_abuse.jpg

but I don't engage in any activities that would bring about those injuries. We're talking about bursting capillaries...and there is a thin line between giving someone a black eye and doing some serious damage. I like my possessions and don't want to risk breaking them.

I've given a woman small bruises from slapping (barely yellow, not black and blue) and it was easily concealable with makeup. She had two concerns, both of which I share. A) As of right now, she has a career. Showing up to work with marks is unprofessional. B) she is older and is worried about any damage of that sort having lasting effects on her complexion. If she were younger and unemployed, she'd wear her marks with pride.

If/When I have a younger pet around the house, and she had no qualms about the act, I'd mark her up something pretty and show her off.

On the other hand, if my woman did not like facial bruises and I gave her one, I would feel quite guilty. She's my responsibility and if I am acting irresponsibly - then that is something that would shame me.

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RE: Facial Bruising? - 5/31/2009 5:33:07 PM

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