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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 9:56:35 PM   
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Well, aren't we the little attention whore tonight?  Though perhaps that's a bit rude.  Maybe "attention courtesan" would be a bit nicer.


I'm lonely. My stuffed animals got shipped home by slow boat from Korea, meaning they didn't come home with me, leaving me all by myself. sniffle


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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:03:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		littlesarbonn... would that mean you are vulnerable and we could take advantage by offering you a stuffed lil treat...ur.. I do mean animal?

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:04:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		it sounds as though if a man seeks to be a cuckold, it is similar to bottoming from the top from your perspective?

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:07:11 PM   
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littlesarbonn... would that mean you are vulnerable and we could take advantage by offering you a stuffed lil treat...ur.. I do mean animal?


It would take so MUCH less than that.


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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:08:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, you haven't and won't hear my perspective.  I just gave you a couple reasons off the top of my head, from threads and postings from the guy that posed the question before you.  I won't share my story with you because I doubt you would respectfully receive it.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:09:56 PM   
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littlesarbonn... would that mean you are vulnerable and we could take advantage by offering you a stuffed lil treat...ur.. I do mean animal?


It would take so MUCH less than that.



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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:10:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Well, aren't we the little attention whore tonight?  Though perhaps that's a bit rude.  Maybe "attention courtesan" would be a bit nicer.


I'm lonely. My stuffed animals got shipped home by slow boat from Korea, meaning they didn't come home with me, leaving me all by myself. sniffle



Well, what kind of stuffed owner are you?  They should have travelled with you in the cabin.  I'm going to report you to the SPCSA:  the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Stuffed Animals.  Ladies, don't feel sorry for him.  It's his own damned fault! 

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:11:08 PM   
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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:12:47 PM   
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Consider this getting internet cuckolded. You want attention/information and the dommes are off doing girly things... like talking about stuffed animals/fucking more competent men.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:13:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you're looking for a blanket explanation of why women aren't interested much in cuckoldry, and I don't think there is one.  I'm finding men to be such a pain in the bum lately, that I don't even want to deal with one of them, let alone more of them.  Paige's Law (that's me, by the way) states that the amount of trouble in a woman's life is directly proportional to the number of men she has to deal with on a regular basis.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:14:32 PM   
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Well, aren't we the little attention whore tonight?  Though perhaps that's a bit rude.  Maybe "attention courtesan" would be a bit nicer.


I'm lonely. My stuffed animals got shipped home by slow boat from Korea, meaning they didn't come home with me, leaving me all by myself. sniffle



Well, what kind of stuffed owner are you?  They should have travelled with you in the cabin.  I'm going to report you to the SPCSA:  the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Stuffed Animals.  Ladies, don't feel sorry for him.  It's his own damned fault! 


I feel horrible. I was planning to take them all with me and then my large suitcase broke, so my friend started packing them into a box that she took to the post office instead. She kept saying "you have no more room in the bag you have" and I fell for it. I can't believe I fell for it. This is the first time my stuffed frog has been apart from me in over 30 years (yeah, that's truly sad on so many levels).


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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:17:26 PM   
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I feel horrible. I was planning to take them all with me and then my large suitcase broke, so my friend started packing them into a box that she took to the post office instead. She kept saying "you have no more room in the bag you have" and I fell for it. I can't believe I fell for it. This is the first time my stuffed frog has been apart from me in over 30 years (yeah, that's truly sad on so many levels).



Just for you, littlesarbonn, just for you:  http://www.wwnorton.com/college/music/enj9/lessons/glossary/violin.htm

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 10:19:09 PM   
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WHY is it so difficult? COULD be many reasons..
How long have you been looking? where?
What is your purpose? HOW have you been looking?

IN the cuckold fantasy there are 2 other ppl involved here as well as you..
the man and the woman..a couple...
 
so the cuck addition is about matching up to a couple..
and the DRIVE behind the cuck fantasy they play out...

It may be for arousal..humiliation..pleasure thru seeing the wife satisfied..a variabiliity in lbido..the man wanting to be mono( but not her)..or celibate..the man liking the clean up aspect after..or being made to interact with the "bull" as well...

therefore  there are many factors to be considered by that couple.
uncluding personality and very often...cock size  yep

If you have approached some women or couples perhaps some of these things did not match...up

It is not always a matter of "hay we want to cuck and you go over and do her.."

I think you realize you meet..build a realtionship  and map out boundries and limits..from a simple
" OK we match..a you will come over and it will be like this then BYE"..
ot perhaps they want to develop a supportive realtionship where the man supports his wife and lover..and they even go out together

IT IS DIFFICULT as is any relationship...and takes time..
depending on what you SEEK also..wheather you seek several one time things or to be a bull to a woman over a period of time...why you seek it...

IF you are specific as possible while HSHOWING you wish to know them as WHOLE ppl it can be..easier

craigslist actaully has couples looking for bulls..
and there is
takemywife.com
I have seen couples looking on PLENTY OF FISH and men such as you under
names like Iama3rd  or loverforwife

cuckboy.com   or cuckyboy.com has forums where you can get more info and talk to other cucks

ALso there are some good sites that are not porn that offer INSIGHT into this very interesting fetish and if you read up on it and research you will get INTO it more and see how the couple operates and thus perhaps give you more info to discuss or dif ways to present yourself..as someone who would enhance their life...

GQ

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 11:04:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a very easy solution to this: go find a vanilla girl who is none too faithful. There's zillions of chicks out there who will screw other guys, treat you like crap, and still come home to you.

The term cuckhold is pretty skewed these days, but a cuckhold is basically the old word for the husband of a cheating wife.

In these modern times, I guess you just have to let your cheating partner know that you'll be around no matter who she fucks and continue to support her as usual...She'll be having her cake and eating it too. Just you watch!

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/9/2009 11:29:30 PM   
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I have a very easy solution to this: go find a vanilla girl who is none too faithful. There's zillions of chicks out there who will screw other guys, treat you like crap, and still come home to you.

The term cuckhold is pretty skewed these days, but a cuckhold is basically the old word for the husband of a cheating wife.

In these modern times, I guess you just have to let your cheating partner know that you'll be around no matter who she fucks and continue to support her as usual...She'll be having her cake and eating it too. Just you watch!


BRILLIANT!


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RE: cuckoldress - 6/10/2009 5:56:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a dumb question to throw back at you:  Why is cuckoldry so important to some men?  It is all a matter of triggers.  The fact is that most women are attracted to the total dynamic of a relationship, including a lifestyle.  Casual sex is not as important to most women as it is to most men.  Furthermore, most women like to be focused on the man she is with, so long as he is meeting her needs.  Cuckolding complicates such a thing.


One of the responses on this forum implied that cuckolding is often a matter of a woman satisfying a man by taking on lovers just to excite him.  This is absolutely contrary to any concept of his surrendering himself to her authority.  He simply makes a whore of her and then strokes his own ego by showing what a whore she is.  It is a way of reducing women to the level of men.  At least that is my perspective on the thing.

On the other hand, if your attraction to cuckolding is simply to illustrate that the woman has the "right" to cuckold the man, at her discretion, then she needn't have any such desire, your recognition of her right to do it is sufficient to underscore her freedom and authority in the relationship. 

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/10/2009 7:34:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		  Waaaburck cuckoldry is not a fantasy of mine [though I can understand the attractions of it] but I think i can hazard a guess as to why it is harder to find what you are looking for.  If I want to havecasual sex with a partner or casual kink it irelatively easy to do so [providing one is not a complete buffoon] Casual cuckoldy on the other hand seems to be something of an oxymoron, unless you are in a song emotional relationaship with someone it will just be you watching a stranger having sex with another stranger whih is not cuckoldry but voyeurism. Therefore you are inherently searching for a long term relationship into which cuckoldry can be introduced which is obviousy much harder to find than a casual fling. Also you need to fin two pople who are interested n fulfilling your fantasy so it is automatically twice as hard to put together.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/10/2009 8:28:59 AM   
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The term cuckhold is pretty skewed these days, but a cuckhold is basically the old word for the husband of a cheating wife.

In these modern times, I guess you just have to let your cheating partner know that you'll be around no matter who she fucks and continue to support her as usual...


IN these "modern" BDSM "times" cuckolding is recognized as a fantasy/fetish/lifestyle..and usually NOT taken in the context of the OLD MEANING...which then has attached to it "I am above such things" morality or holier than though attitudes...( as we see here)
or perhaps..."I am into BDSM but not all this sex shit."

Well some are!

... and incorperate..it in their lives..for their reasons.
 
Cuckold relationships in the BDSM world are CONSENSUAL
are therefore  NOT cheating...( and coudl be acting  as if..or with all present)//

IT is an agreement for many many reasons  and actually far more mature than fucking around...because it takes communication..
and active attention to feelings etc.

I have seen many SOLID cuck relationships based on mutual trust  where the 3 entered into to this with conscious awareness of what they needed and wanted and had lasting and harmonious interactions for the higher good of all.

AS well many couples in  "modern times"  fuck /love many ppl and many have MULTIPLE partners and do indeed continue to SUPPORT EACH OTHER!!
 
Because you cannot comprehend it or it is NOT your way does not mean it is wrong . 
 
GQ

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/10/2009 9:42:39 AM   
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hey old man river, i wasnt asking in a specefic sense like "why cant i meet some hot cuckoldress..." hence me adding that obviously with a blank profile im not going to meet anyone interested in cuckolding me ("'you dont have a pic in your profile..." ), it was more of a general question as to why it is a less popular kink and a question as to whether anyone else knows of any other sites. as for the no personal information, i dont have a pic for fear of being fired from work, we dont all collect a pension dickwad. and when did i ever say, or even imply all dommes were into cuckoldry. i believe i was asserting just the oposite. go put your trifocals on douche bag.

I'd take an "old man river" over a punk 20-something whose only skill is typing with one hand.  He gave you good advice.  Here it is again in case you missed it:
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I would expect the supply/demand scale for cuckoldry to be skewed. Men are whores, and the idea of sleeping around all one pleases is exciting. Women like relationships
  You see, women have to CARE even a little bit to be involved with you. Cuckholdery takes  a lack of detachment to "enjoy" it.  You either have to be an emotionaly immature turd or a cold-hearted bitch that could care less about her/your "needs" and feelings.  And you want a long term relationship of just being denied and having to watch? It's fun the first time. Do you really feel you can quell your male ego enough to enjoy watching another man  have what you can't?  Know what you are going to get?  Most times it's a woman who has been shafted by a guy and she is spending the rest of her life "getting even".  And she gets a guy who's sole focus is to get his rocks off at her expense.  Talk about a vicious circle. 

Get out of the "lifestyle" while you emotionally mature.. rent a vid and cool your jets before you drag someone else down with you.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/10/2009 9:47:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		 Lotus my experience of cuckoldry is nil but I think you are being unfairly harsh towards those that enjoy it. There are those in the vanilla world who see dominant women as nothing more than girls who must have been abused and now take their invective out on men. Obviosly that is not only untrue but deeply offensive and I suspect to those that enjoy cuckoldry your post will be interpreted as equally so.

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