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RE: cuckoldress - 6/11/2009 11:08:13 AM

slavekal

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Right. There are some seriously hard emotions to deal with. But if a man is able, he can turn that intensity into passion. It's not easy, but it can work out very well if handled correctly.

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/11/2009 2:57:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

my perception of cuckoldry in the BDSM sense is that it specifically involves humiliation play (you aren't good enough/big enough/can't fulfil my needs).

My cubby DOES enjoy the humiliation aspect of it... and I find that I get off on HIS enjoyment (even if deep down I truly find him more than adequate). What I was taking issue with was the idea that people who enjoy cuckolding can't have a genuinely loving, caring, sharing deep relationship - that it HAS to be a sign of disrespect or lack of connection for your cuckolding partner.

As it happens, I once knew a man who was into being cuckolded and only discovered his enjoyment after he was made impotent after a car accident. It was wonderful to see that he and his wife could still remain close as ever while she found her satisfaction with others...

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RE: cuckoldress - 6/11/2009 2:58:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
My opinion is as valid as any other. If you find an opinion contrary to yours upsetting.. you need to search your own heart to find out why. If one is secure in their beliefs, nothing bothers them.

What I find upsetting is your judgementalism and rudeness... Otherwise, it's all good darlin'

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