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Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 9:35:12 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		I was recently kicked out of chat for speaking my point of view. its seems like i run into a lot of people who harp about of the first admendment but its only when it supports their cause. and we that backwards that one can not voice what he or she says with out booting or banning someone. even at events people can not keep an open mind about debating. if your dom or domme or even sub you should have reserve to be a person look at things with a open thought. If you do not like something just ignore it. Heres the point of my Post ( should we be allowed to speak as a sub or dom domme in any form or fashion we see fit even if it dose not agree with the masses. and how would you handle something if someone upset you with what they posted or type.....
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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 9:40:04 AM   
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Heres the point of my Post ( should we be allowed to speak as a sub or dom domme in any form or fashion we see fit even if it dose not agree with the masses.


I think everyone should be allowed to speak their mind...let's face it, I am not shy about doing so...no matter their orientation. Personally, if you were kicked out of a chat room because you disagreed with the majority, I would be thanking my lucky stars that they kicked you out. Obviously you have more class then they do.

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how would you handle something if someone upset you with what they posted or type.....


It depends. Most of the time I just shrug it off and respond flippantly or rudely ( which is more often the case ),or, if it is something that is really personal with me, I stay away from it.

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 9:50:16 AM   
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how would you handle something if someone upset you with what they posted or type.....


It depends. Most of the time I just shrug it off and respond flippantly or rudely ( which is more often the case ),or, if it is something that is really personal with me, I stay away from it.


Point in case... MHOO has a post on thread now about death of a M/mate... tried 3 times to post... can't.. so staying away.... not only that.... already felt bad about posting in another thread about something really personal to me.. it made me look like I was ranting to the person who posted... when in actually.. I was ranting at the prey that made me a victim....

But in the mean time.. I agree... if you don't like the post... the reponse.. skip it.. other things to do... but you know.. sometimes.. we just need a get into a good debate.. let off on a good rant... it's fun to be able to things every now and then.... even when we know we shouldn't.... (Looks over at the cheescake by the coffee pot.... licking lips)... speaking of... (grinz)

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 9:50:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok I can field this one easily, as it is still fairly fresh in my mind.

I tried to exert my Dominance and I got verbal slapped out. I got shy real quick and hid (bear dragged me back kicking and screaming, but assured me all was well). I realized where I was wrong and I will move on from there. Ya sure the others involved know they were a bit wrong to, but I can only control myself and bear, so there.

You are respossible to one, you, and/or your owner, period.

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 10:08:23 AM   
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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:10:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
(Looks over at the cheescake by the coffee pot.... licking lips)... speaking of... (grinz)



You............have.................CHEESECAKE?????????????????????????????




<<Ambles aimless about circling closer to the cheesecake.....................>>>

< Message edited by IronBear -- 2/11/2006 11:11:44 AM >

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:11:59 AM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		Cheesecake?

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

I think I will grab some cinnamon bread instead

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:14:41 AM   
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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:15:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Again ambles aimless moving closer to the cinnamon bread too.... Thinking of the required and prescribed snacks for hibernating.......

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:15:54 AM   
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I was recently kicked out of chat for speaking my point of view.


LOL! Welcome to the wonderful, exciting world of Internet chat, where only the sheep may speak, and those with rational, considered opinions are ostracized because those who bleat cannot compete.

My advice to you? See your being booted as the joke that it is and find a more intelligent group of folks to chat with.

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:19:58 AM   
IrishMist


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Status: offline 		/grins and places cinnamon bread, apple turnovers and nutroll out for everyone

help yourself...I was in a baking mood last night



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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 11:32:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

I was recently kicked out of chat for speaking my point of view.


Usually, the person that owns, or opens a chat room makes the rules. If they feel you did not meet with what they envisioned for their room...they kick you out. Most online chatroom owner/moderators will warn someone prior to ejection though.

Why not just move to another chatroom.

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 12:38:52 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		this is true. but this has happend to real time people as well in clubs and organizations. so what standards should we set if we us the term i respect eveyones right to speak freely and openly whats that say about us as a comunity or individuals just curious

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 1:40:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

/grins and places cinnamon bread, apple turnovers and nutroll out for everyone

help yourself...I was in a baking mood last night




Again... makes a fresh pot of coffee.... mmmmmmmmm this is so nice...good coffee.. good food.. great freindly people... and nice discussions...

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 2:12:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

this is true. but this has happend to real time people as well in clubs and organizations. so what standards should we set if we us the term i respect eveyones right to speak freely and openly whats that say about us as a comunity or individuals just curious



No offence, but I can't help but to be reminded of a comment made to me by a judge one time, that may just shed some light on your problem.

" If one or two people have a problem with you, that's fine. If you have a problem with one or two people, that's fine too. But if you continuously have problems with everyone and everyone continuously has a problem with you. Then my son the problem is all yours. Perhaps six months to think about your actions would help you out, along with weekly visits to a therapist." oops, I shoulda stopped that thought a few words ago.

Does that shed a little light on your problem?

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 2:12:55 PM   
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respond flippantly or rude

IrishMist


You???? O, c'mon now.

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 4:05:28 PM   
jimej6


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Status: offline 		this is so true. too many people think freedom of speech is an ok process if it supports there views.. the constitution was designed to protect unpopular speech, since poppular speech needs no protection. if a speaker really upsets you, then it is importaint for us all to look at why? is it a common thing for us as humans to get upset at someone that outs our deepest fears so when a topic does upset us it is a perfect time to bring this demon out and overcome it. Yes freedom of speech for all and I for one would rather be incised by a speeker than placated. that is a major problem with our country we keep electing officals that tell us what we want to hear and so we vote for them except voteing on the best person for the job and the one that tells us the horrable truth is probly the best person.great thread.. thatks for the topic...

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 9:49:45 PM   
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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 10:05:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Speeking you mind and supporting your view is a basic human right. It oft isn't what is said, but rather the manner in which it is said. Chat rooms can be the biggest pain in the arse and once I left Gor RP I have returned to visit thrice and then only fo locate specific people and get their IM/YM to keep in touch. Yrats ago I attempted to enter Yahoo chats with no knowledge of the abreviations used. No I'm also a two finger typist and type rather slowely. I was asked to give ASL and by the time Neets had explained it to me and I started to respond I was booted after beig abused my a moderator and the room owner. I have found that in chats there are many who have no understanding or concept that some are not as proficient with the KB skills or general chat knowledge.. I have a list of chats I will never again enter due to rudeness to either myself or others close to me. One final thought ~ "Their loss is greater than yours... keep your head high and find those who are worthy of you."

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RE: Speaking a point of view - 2/11/2006 10:08:56 PM   
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A complete bunch of Mumbo-Jumbo bullshit!
I avoid them like I would a red corral snake!

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