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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 2:23:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Intelligent or not, it is not for my property to determine what is or is not a bad order. The exception being the "pit of spikes" exception I have given her. This means an obvious and direct threat to someone's safety.

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Except when they don't want you to do that. Since they chose you for your intelligence and your ability to help them avoid bad decisions by not obeying bad orders.

Well and good, for you. But The Man, like leadership knows he is fallible and told me first off to not obey mindlessly but to bring up possible pitfalls. He'd rather discover he was missing some important information before making a decision that turns out badly and not have to deal with damage control afterwards. YMMV.

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 4:09:41 PM

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I think this is an exercise to force me to evaluate myself, to make sure that I really want what I have told her I want. I didn't ask to get a list of generic answers, if you look at my original post I did say that I know this varies by individual. However seeing what someone else thinks is an answer helps stimulate my imagination and can help me to see some things I may see as undesirable may possibly be a desirable trait to a Domme. As for research, the time frame involved and my schedule does not permit extensive research. I appreciate everyone taking the time to reply. This has been very helpful.

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 5:13:12 PM

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i stand corrected by more than one. i now know that one can, in fact, be collared to more than one Dominant at the same time. Please accept my sincere, humble apologies. :)

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 5:19:08 PM

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i stand corrected by more than one. i now know that one can, in fact, be collared to more than one Dominant at the same time. Please accept my sincere, humble apologies. :)

Yeah cool, huh? Sounds yummy...

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 5:21:43 PM

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...a nice neck?

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 5:26:02 PM

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Well she has to be between 5'5" and 5'7" depending on the store
Blonde or black hair, real slaves dont have that in-between stuffs
she must be no older than 55.
She must have at least 3 instances of the letter "s" in her name, middle name can be included, but only one middle name

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/17/2009 6:04:06 PM

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I have the opportunity to spend some time with a Mistress. She wants me to explain to her why I am worthy to wear Her collar. I know this will vary based on the individual, but what can make someone worthy. Any suggestions will be helpful.

The vanilla equivalent of this is a woman demanding to know what kind of a husband you'd make before the first date. Either she's playing some mind game with you or else she has no clue what it means to collar.

The correct answer actually depends on TWO individuals. It's a question of her desires and how close you come to them. The obvious answer is that you two need to spend time together to see how you mesh.

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RE: What makes someone worthy to be collared - 6/18/2009 1:40:51 AM

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I would crawl, bark and wag my tail and see where that would get me...

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