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ORIGINAL: Mistressmsonline
LOL; No. I am not a sub looking to get an easy one. I hide the profile to avoid all the emails i get.
My feelings are that I have no interest in a Sub that would immediately kneel, beg, masturbate or do anything like that on order from what amounts to a stranger. I am picky about Subs and don't want just any and all of them, and would hope a Sub wouldn't want to submit to just anyone either. I want a pretty vanilla first meet, unless there was lengthy phone and online communication. I consider it a process really over a period of time and meets.
Was wondering if I was odd in this.

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Would you engage in sexual play (or any Domination play) with a sub on a first meeting?

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL... I remember the day... way back when... when most were having sex on first dates. Hell sometimes they didn't even know the persons name.  I took my share of what I wanted.  If you liked the look or sound of someone or you simply wanted to do it, you did.  Oh... some thought to hide what they were doing, but they always got caught.  We were shocked when we met a virgin and felt sorry for them and might have tried to hook them up.  The sexual movement moved into orgy's and swinger's.  Not everyone was doing it all but no one was shocked by it.  There were paper stands, mulitple news paper stands on street corners where people advertised for partners.  The mags of Playboy and Hustler were left on coffee tables or next to a toilet quite often.

Not everyone was doing anyone who asked, but they did have the freedom to say yes without a lot of social stigma. Some held out to some degree, but most were out there in some way, at some point.  California was rocking and rolling and I am not talking about just earthquakes.

All this is what brought about free clinic's in nearly every city, condom's being passed out, birth control being handed out and abortion clinic's everywhere.  No one can say it wasn't happening because of these things.  Aids changed things.  Age changed things.  Raising um's that no one knew who the daddy was changed things.  Condoms broke at a high percentage and paternity testing wised up a few hard core men who didn't want to give up the freedom, but didn't want to get caught with their pants down and the need for providing um bottles and diapers.

I am glad we had the freedom, but many took things to an extreme and I think many started wising up and seeing the pitfalls of that freedom.  I also think it had some lasting effects.

So while I know I have and could, I most likely will not.  Been there, done that and didn't like the results past that high or party or party boy.  I want more.  I enjoy sex far more now.  The quicky mad rabbit dash is not for me.  But having done it, I cannot say I never did or would.  But when doing something that most consider unlawful... you bet I am going to make sure I know who I am playing with so I am not introduced to someone with a badge wanting to take me to a cage.

One thing we learned back in the day... you give it up, they are looking for the next one.  You don't give it up, they are begging for your attention.  That is when I learned the art of denial and no longer was I shouting, burn the bra... peace, not war... make love not war... flower power... love the one you're with... but wait, no and power to the pussy!  While some of it was fun and I can't deny it... I like the here and now far better!