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Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 7:38:21 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		What is it about submissive/bottoming males that doesn't connect in the brain to allow them to understand that this really isn't a big deal?  Why can't they seem to realize that the fact they are willing to bend over only lumps them in with a hundred others, willing to do the same?  Do they really think this makes them special in some way?  Are we supposed to be impressed somehow?

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 7:54:49 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What is it about submissive/bottoming males that doesn't connect in the brain to allow them to understand that this really isn't a big deal?


Brain? Did you say "brain?"


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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 8:04:27 PM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		Spankable behinds are a dime a dozen, or less. Someone who can serve and laugh and be my friend, AND has a spankable behind? Very rare.



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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 8:09:56 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What is it about submissive/bottoming males that doesn't connect in the brain to allow them to understand that this really isn't a big deal?


Brain? Did you say "brain?"

I may have, but those opportunities are rare.  Ergo, this post.


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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 8:10:39 PM   
LadySweetOrSour


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Status: offline 		I agree ladies. Spanking without something more? Very boring. I relate to a person, not a fetish, so if there is not much else, then I ain't interested.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 8:48:33 PM   
ShaharThorne


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Status: offline 		Guess all of that oxygen rich blood is fleeing the brain and residing in their buttocks.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 8:52:10 PM   
Venatrix


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Guess all of that oxygen rich blood is fleeing the brain and residing in their buttocks.


Oh, is that what it is?  And all this time I've been blaming it on flatulence.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 9:05:42 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		I also feel the same about the ones who mention in the first sentence how they will worship you orally and how talented they are with their tongue. What makes them think they stand out from the other subs/slaves that write?

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 9:16:39 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Perhaps they feel because they are big he-men that we dainty china doll ladies should be thrilled at the fact that they would allow us to spank them.

Personally I can spank mine anytime that I want, I just reach up and grab him by the hair and bend him over and whack his ass until I feel like stopping. But then again, he knows Im not a dainty china doll lady

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/20/2009 9:23:22 PM   
DrkJourney


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Status: offline 		LOL...that always get's me too....my first response is you "allow" me?

What even baffles me more....when you do spank them....they start to bitch and moan about how it hurts, and at this point I'm only using my hand.....LOL

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 3:03:15 AM   
DemonKia


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Status: offline 		FR, after read thru

lol

Yeah, as a top I like pain sluts, so 'tolerating pain' is a turn off for me . . . . . I want to play with bottoms that want the pain, those for whom a spanking is just warm up, that sorta thing . . . . One of my standard lines is, 'Yeah, I like to hurt people for fun, but only if they really beg for it . . . . '

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 3:26:34 AM   
TEMPERANCE


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Status: offline 		Im impressed if they're cute, otherwise they can go and get stuffed...

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 3:42:55 AM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		LP: thank you for the post! When written or stated as such...
 
I don't even consider it in the realm of service, submission, or even bottoming, to Me its a ploy to get the female in to the region where she will be able to see his "massive erection" and swoon with pleasure whereupon he can have what he ultimately wants anyway--attention to his whinkydink.
 


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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 6:49:02 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 7:55:07 AM   
Drifa


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Status: offline 		It really must be a slow summer on TV and outside entertainments. Seems like the wanker posts, here and in the Submissive forum, are running high this year.

What I don't get is that there is TONS of actual free text and photo-based wanking material out there.

I will say that the dominant side gets more, and worse.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 8:20:47 AM   
pyroaquatic


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Status: offline 		A nice little brain spank would be just as good if not better. Rattle them thoughts around and see what comes out. I do perfectly well hurting myself accidentally every day (it isn't the same though).
To me my winklydink is just that thing that dangles there and occasionally becomes a coat rack. Sometimes it steals my thoughts but I don't let it run the show.

I'm da boss of meh penis at least.

if i am capable of being dominant over anything... it better be over my own testosterone.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 8:28:25 AM   
MsValentine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What is it about submissive/bottoming males that doesn't connect in the brain to allow them to understand that this really isn't a big deal?  Why can't they seem to realize that the fact they are willing to bend over only lumps them in with a hundred others, willing to do the same?  Do they really think this makes them special in some way?  Are we supposed to be impressed somehow?


What amazes me about this as it makes the sub appear somehow a reluctant partner in this spanking event. As if.

Male subs are gagging to be spanked and have the audacity to try and use it as some kind of bargaining chip. This will always be marked down as a fail in my book.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 9:34:42 AM   
pyroaquatic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsValentine


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What is it about submissive/bottoming males that doesn't connect in the brain to allow them to understand that this really isn't a big deal?  Why can't they seem to realize that the fact they are willing to bend over only lumps them in with a hundred others, willing to do the same?  Do they really think this makes them special in some way?  Are we supposed to be impressed somehow?


What amazes me about this as it makes the sub appear somehow a reluctant partner in this spanking event. As if.

Male subs are gagging to be spanked and have the audacity to try and use it as some kind of bargaining chip. This will always be marked down as a fail in my book.


I agree. It should be an honor to even let a Domme look at me, let alone let Her hand caress my ass ever so violently.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 7:38:34 PM   
LyraLaLaurie


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Status: offline 		Submissive men are still men and still somehow think we couldn't get their magical powers from any other man. Oh well :(

I'm sick of wankers as well. Your ass is not a beautiful and unique snowflake. Srsly.

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RE: Oh, but I'll let you spank Me - 6/21/2009 8:50:16 PM   
CdnExplorer


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Status: offline 		Something that just struck me is that part of the problem here might be the language we use, in combination with the perceived "oversupply" of male subs and some effect from the whole pro-domme culture. The way male submission is represented makes a femdom relationship sound like an impossible fantasy. We're sold the idea that men pay for women to do things to them, and who want nothing to do with them beyond that. No intimacy...nothing. The reality of course is that bdsm is incredibly intimate, and for most people getting that intimacy requires some relationship building. When a new guy comes into the mix he gets asked, "What will you do for me?". I don't know about you, but taken by itself that sounds very transactional. My impression is that usually the question really means something along the lines of "What is interesting about you?". Put that together with the misconceptions about what a male sub is and what his social options are and it isn't a surprise that right out of the gate the two are failing to communicate. "I'll let you spank me" might just be a ham fisted way of saying he wants to have that intimacy with someone who really wants to do it with him, and not just because he paid for it in some way.

Maybe I give people too much credit, but I think there really are a lot of guys who are supposedly wankers that really just think they aren't allowed or to be anything more than a worthless piece of ass. Heck if I have any ideas about how to start changing that though.

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