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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

You either stay and suck it up or you leave. Simple really.

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Drakontos he said to me like you said, no right to demand,expect or assume do or not do anything, BUT, he never told me in that area with seeing others, anything about it, he only told me that I was not allowed to. See, first now he tells me,when I ask. otherwise he would never told me.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: monaslave
the guy even wants to do a bonding ritual, that would permanently bind us! for eternity!

Mona, if you have studied the spiritual, you must know what happens if you cast a binding spell on someone innocent, who does not want to be bound.  Do good things happen to the person who casts that spell, or bad things?

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

I need your advice, I know I written about this before but now I have talked to the Dom, and heres his answers,
hes telling me... 
youre a slave and youre owned, and its without limits, you cant make any demands. You dont own your Dom.
slaves don't have as many "rights" as subs, this is true so far as i can tell, which is why i would never be a slave.
if I have any deseases you might get you have to accept it. if I have countless others you have to accept it.
He obviously does not give a rat's ass about your  health to be so nonchalant about passing you diseases.  What kind of Master doesn't care about the health of His slave/doesn't care for His property?
faithfulness for a slave is to be obedient and sincere.faithfulness for a Dom is to still be Master for his slave and to be serious about his role.
If He were really serious about His role, He would not be so careless and without responsibility  as to be willing to knowingly pass on diseases to you and not care.
yes he sees once in a while others and so it will be in the future as well.(what the --does he mean by that?)
It means He is, and will continue to be, fucking other people, or at the very least being intimate in some way with them.
hes got no deseases since hes got tested since last time,but hey cant we all just say.
Maybe right now He's got no diseases, but for how long will that last if He's fucking other people?  Whenever He fucks someone, He is fucking their entire sexual history, and shit rolls downhill and guess what?  YOU'RE on the BOTTOM.
there is more but this is the replies I got. what do you think.
i think he is fucking other people and is going to continue doing so, and does not care if he gives you STDs.
I mean, he has forbidden me to have others,but we have never talked about it,and now hes telling me hes seeing others once in a while.  have to ask what that means. but as you read at first, he mean I have to accept as many he is doing,sort of. That would be fine,if we had talked about it,but we have not!
Again, this means you are not to "have others" but He can fuck whoever He wants to.  Like it or leave, it's your choice.  Slaves do have the right to un-choose their Masters & ultimately walk.  It also means you should have discussed this before you agreed to be His slave, but refer to the preceding sentence for my opinion on this.
so,what is your suggestions to how I handle this?
and dont mock me,this is a serious problem now.
i am not mocking you.  i am dead serious.

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

it was indian ink colors. and it wasnt even hard. its there.like a burn,whatever  I do. how would you get that away? I mean,if I was that allergic I would had got reactions on my skin like red,yes? I didnt.at all. it was there out of thin air.
i don't know how that happened, but i don't think that's what should be telling you whether to stay with this guy or not.  It should be your own common sense telling you that one way or the other.  i think the whole situation is a little whacky, but that's just me.
I know slaves as usual has no rights yadda-yadda, but, they do use to know what is expected also about fucking around.
Well, now you do know what is expected.  i say "Deal with it, one way or the other."
He says to me ´once in a while´seeing others,I dont know what the fuck that means.
Again, it means HE IS FUCKING OTHER PEOPLE.
you know in our culture it could be all from multiple slaves to fuckbuddies to just a fuck. you dont know before you ask.
So ask.
youre right about deseases your damn right.  I wonder if he ever thought of he might get deseases from his "fuck buddies".
but hey,if I try talk this out with him he will only state "youre a slave no rights" talk with me,when its not what I am talking about.
or shall I just say to him,hey,you lied to me?
He knows He withheld the full truth.  i'm sure He intended to.  But then from His point of view, you never asked.  Plus, now you do know what His intentions are.  The way i see it, you have some decisions to make and you still do have the last word.  You can stay or walk.....your choice.
I dont know what the fuck to say.
He obviously does not care about your health & not giving you STDs, was not straight-up with you from the start.  i would say "F*ck off.....SIR," and don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

for those of you,that are spiritually interested it might be interesting last time we were together he wanted me to paint a mark on my leg with crayons,I did,the mark came and went,and when he contacted me again,it blossom,but looked like a burn instead,and its no way I can get that mark off my leg! yes,it looks like a burn. he says its because its meant to be. the guy even wants to do a bonding ritual, that would permanently bind us! for eternity! it might sound strange to some,but for those spiritual minded we know it works. so,he says its a sign,that its meant to be,and he also talks all time how fond and happy he is about me. it is me thats taken it slow,asked him too,as well,just because I dont know the guy properly yet. but this is bad.

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if I have any deseases you might get you have to accept it.

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

He has never told me this before now,I asked, Im just wondering what that seeing others once in a while means. it could have several meanings,and not the "worst" one.
I hook myself more in that he didnt told me before I ask, because I want to make a descision on full information not half.

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ORIGINAL: oceanwinds

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

for those of you,that are spiritually interested it might be interesting last time we were together he wanted me to paint a mark on my leg with crayons,I did,the mark came and went,and when he contacted me again,it blossom,but looked like a burn instead,and its no way I can get that mark off my leg! yes,it looks like a burn. he says its because its meant to be. the guy even wants to do a bonding ritual, that would permanently bind us! for eternity! it might sound strange to some,but for those spiritual minded we know it works. so,he says its a sign,that its meant to be,and he also talks all time how fond and happy he is about me. it is me thats taken it slow,asked him too,as well,just because I dont know the guy properly yet. but this is bad.

You have totally confused me. In your last thread you mentioned never meeting him, and now you add this? I think you are addicted to drama and thrive on it. I not going to tell you he did wrong. I am not going to feed your drama. You do it very well yourself.

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

well I know that if you do magick etc with bad intent or intend to bind a person to you, I know that rule ´what you do comes back to you three times doubled´ 

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

I need your advice, I know I written about this before but now I have talked to the Dom, and heres his answers,
hes telling me... 
youre a slave and youre owned, and its without limits, you cant make any demands. You dont own your Dom.
if I have any deseases you might get you have to accept it. if I have countless others you have to accept it.
faithfulness for a slave is to be obedient and sincere.faithfulness for a Dom is to still be Master for his slave and to be serious about his role.
yes he sees once in a while others and so it will be in the future as well.(what the --does he mean by that?)
hes got no deseases since hes got tested since last time,but hey cant we all just say.
there is more but this is the replies I got. what do you think.
I mean, he has forbidden me to have others,but we have never talked about it,and now hes telling me hes seeing others once in a while. have to ask what that means. but as you read at first, he mean I have to accept as many he is doing,sort of. That would be fine,if we had talked about it,but we have not!
so,what is your suggestions to how I handle this?
and dont mock me,this is a serious problem now.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

well I understand how you mean, Drakontos, he never told me that was the conditions. I am sure you did with your slave. I have to ask,to get to know,and thats bad,technically speaking,because it is his responsibility to tell me.

Bullshit.  

It is YOUR responsibility as  A PERSON to ask questions BEFORE you get involved.  What? because he is a dom/master/uber-bitchin dick swinger you no longer have any responsibility for YOURSELF?

srsly.

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

it was indian ink colors. and it wasnt even hard. its there.like a burn,whatever  I do. how would you get that away? I mean,if I was that allergic I would had got reactions on my skin like red,yes? I didnt.at all. it was there out of thin air.
I know slaves as usual has no rights yadda-yadda, but, they do use to know what is expected also about fucking around.
He says to me ´once in a while´seeing others,I dont know what the fuck that means.
you know in our culture it could be all from multiple slaves to fuckbuddies to just a fuck. you dont know before you ask.
youre right about deseases your damn right.  I wonder if he ever thought of he might get deseases from his "fuck buddies".
but hey,if I try talk this out with him he will only state "youre a slave no rights" talk with me,when its not what I am talking about.
or shall I just say to him,hey,you lied to me?
I dont know what the fuck to say.