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PeonForHer -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 3:28:35 PM)
You're not a true femdom, Kia. You frequently write posts that hint suspiciously at your being in a good mood and have never said the word "fucking". Your nose isn't all that long either.

MmeGigs -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:15:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth how about the misconception that every female has this "real female doiminant" SIDE to them...and it only needs to be coaxed out...or inspired...or given enough tribute...to perform to the fantastic expectations of the "submissive" male? Ooh, that's a really good one. I think it's one of my least-favorites.

LadyPact -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:22:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha * Pursues men indiscriminately. The only requirement is his availability and willingness to submit. * Is attracted to a man who has nothing to offer other than his slavery (which is conditional) * Expects no effort from the man at all Actually in follow up to my original post, have any femdoms reading here ever dominated a man based on the above criteria? Just because of an urge, a momentary lust, or for fun - have you cherry picked and then dominated a sub you were not attracted to and didn't really know, just for the sheer sport of it, for amusement, or because it satisfied some lust inside of you? Akasha Absolutely I have. I make no bones about the fact that I have sadistic needs and they absolutely have to be met. Something that can be hard to accomplish when one's sub is deployed to the desert. There are a number of bottoms that I play with. Some of them are bottoms that started out as friends and others became friends after they started out bottoming. Still, I have no problem going to the club and finding just some random bottom to beat on. It gets My needs met and I don't hear any complaining from the other side.

MmeGigs -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:25:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BailyBoo I am sad to say that I am fake as well. Me, too. My preferred party attire is jeans and a hawaiian print shirt (more festive and easier to remove than a t-shirt), and my subby-hubby calls me "Sweetie-pie", not "Mistress" or "Godess".

DarkSteven -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:45:25 PM)
Great post, Aakasha, However, you left off the one that still amazes me... A real Domina will carry out any submissive fantasies that a sub male has - ball busting, cuckolding, sissification - because it's all about him and his fantasies.

LovingMistress45 -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:53:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha * Pursues men indiscriminately. The only requirement is his availability and willingness to submit. * Is attracted to a man who has nothing to offer other than his slavery (which is conditional) * Expects no effort from the man at all Actually in follow up to my original post, have any femdoms reading here ever dominated a man based on the above criteria? Just because of an urge, a momentary lust, or for fun - have you cherry picked and then dominated a sub you were not attracted to and didn't really know, just for the sheer sport of it, for amusement, or because it satisfied some lust inside of you? Akasha Yes, I have. But it is not what I am here looking for. If I want that I can have it any day. When I need to release my sadistic cravings I can finding a willing partner for that. However, I guess where I become a fake is that is not all I want. Also, I don't own/wear leather, 5 inch stilettos, corsets and I am not 5'10", 125lbs with DDD boobs. Oh, well hopefully I will eventually find a male sub that is interested in an old fake like me.

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:54:01 PM)
i keep getting this image of where the wild things are shrugs any how good post it rocks :)

variation30 -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 4:59:52 PM)
you are all fakes. there has been one, and only one true Domme: Nurse Diesel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-u1jtxkgEdQ

slavekal -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:03:35 PM)
When I read the headline, I thought you had gone crazy. Good points. I have often commented on how ridiculous some of my brothers act sometimes. But when I do, I get accused of being sanctimonious.

Venatrix -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:04:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LovingMistress45 Oh, well hopefully I will eventually find a male sub that is interested in an old fake like me. That should be quite easy. All you need to do is find a fake sub.

slavekal -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:09:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: variation30 you are all fakes. there has been one, and only one true Domme: Nurse Diesel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-u1jtxkgEdQ LIAR! Tanya the lotus eater is the one true dominatrix! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGSsvUNVKOI

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:23:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BailyBoo quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia You are in bad as shape as I am. {I only own a paltry few corsets}. We are both damned wannabe's! Next you will tell me you don't spend half your life in your local dungeon, you don't even DO sessions or cam with submissive males on webcam! Leave this website immediately! I am revoking your Female Domination card. You can't revoke my card! I'm revoking your card! Hush... I'm revoking BOTH your cards... but if you're real nice, I'll let ManlyManDomTopBoss know where you are so he can come pick you up and show you how a WEAL woman lives! [;)][sm=paddle.gif] [sm=preen.gif] DC

LotusSong -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:34:27 PM)
Yepo.. guilty as I stated in my journal of 4/29/2009 8:32:13 AM : I must have been a terrible Domme. I’m not a Sadist. I’m not into humiliation. I think Cross dressing is silly. I preferred to go barefoot instead of wearing boots. I wanted my slave to look me in the eye. I never required him to speak in the 3rd person nor drink piss, eat shit or humiliate himself. I respected his opinions. The one time I made him cry, it broke my heart. I had never been without a slave unless I chose to. Yet, my slave and I kept the collar for 11 years. (We agreed to un-collar due to age and health issues) We are still wonderful friends. Go figure J

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:44:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Great post, Aakasha, However, you left off the one that still amazes me... A real Domina will carry out any submissive fantasies that a sub male has - ball busting, cuckolding, sissification - because it's all about him and his fantasies. DarkSteven, You are too funny. And really, when it's all about the sub who is really the Dominant? It's like they don't really want Dommes, they want service Tops. That just blows me away. Some of these do-me subs are kind of like Doms in subs' clothing. Sir & i just had a talk the other day about do-me subs and how silly that is. hahahaha

ShaharThorne -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 5:59:13 PM)
WHAT?!?!!? I am not in line for a femdom label? That I am fake? Where are my ball busting steel-toes boots and my cane? Better yet a switch from the peach tree... Just because I am a switch does not mean I can't ignore my Domme side...growls As if the subs are allowed to kiss my arse until the cows come home...

PeonForHer -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 6:05:18 PM)
Yet, my slave and I kept the collar for 11 years. (We agreed to un-collar due to age and health issues) You made it, then kept it, real. That's why it lasted.

Andalusite -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 6:10:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha The perception of the "dominant female" in the submissive mind, if he has learned of female domination via fantasy and/or badly produced porn, is that a dominant woman: * Pursues men indiscriminately. The only requirement is his availability and willingness to submit. * Is attracted to a man who has nothing to offer other than his slavery (which is conditional) * Expects no effort from the man at all This is why there is TRUTH to the assessment that "real femdoms do not exist." This is what these men seek. Back when I was still looking, I had a guy offer to come to my house, get naked, and cook dinner for me, when we hadn't even talked on the phone or met yet! When I told him that I want to get to know a guy as a person before I see him naked, he said that I belong on Match.com instead of here, and to let him know once I'd decided if I was into D/s. [:'(] I haven't had a vanilla relationship since I was 20. I have topped men and women who I wasn't romantically interested in before, but I can't dominate someone casually. Even so, I wanted to have dinner and talk with them outside of the dungeon and get to know each other a bit before playing.

stella41b -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 6:35:59 PM)
Sorry, but none of you are real femdoms not least until you've made a pilgrimage to The Munch in Dublin to be baptized.... in your boots of course.

auburnvixen -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 6:49:06 PM)
Best. Thread. Evah.

PeonForHer -> RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. (6/22/2009 6:57:50 PM)
. . . . And raincoats. Does it ever stop raining in that blasted place? And is it possible to go anywhere in Dublin to buy a pint of milk without it taking an exchange of at least 5,000 words each side? Jesus, can they talk in Dublin.

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