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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 1:09:52 PM   
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What is the basis for gender-specific dominance?


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I think that Norman's central thesis in his books is that nearly everyone in modern day North America is unhappy, unhealthy, and unfulfilled because they try to live their lives in accordance with (IAW) politically correct fictions about how human beings are, rather that IAW with the truth of our nature. Norman presents the Free Gorean, in several different Gorean cultures, as the epitome of humans who do live IAW the way people actually are.

One of the "truth's" that Gorean's embrace is what John Norman calls "the order of nature". Here is a summary of my understanding of what Norman means by "the order of nature":
- Humans are part of nature.
- They have been shaped by evolution, just like any other animal, with adaptations to help them better survive as a species.
- Some animal species have been shaped by evolution to be male dominant, like chimpanzees; and some to be female dominant, like bonobos.
- Humans are a male dominant species.

Therefore, when a human male acts dominantly towards a human female, he is not being "kinky", he is acting in accordance with how evolution has shaped his species. Similarly, when a human female behaves submissively towards a human male, she is acting in accordance with the "order of nature."

Norman does not say that women should submit to men. He does not say that men should not submit to women. He says that evolution has predisposed men towards dominance and women towards submission, and that most people will probably be happiest, healthiest and most fulfilled if they live "in the order of nature."

There is another "truth" that Gorean's embrace that Norman calls "The Gorean Morality". I am not going to go into all of it here, although if you would like to read it, it is most succinctly discussed in chapter 1 of Marauders of Gor. One aspect of the Gorean Morality is the idea that if you want to do something and you are strong enough to do that thing, then you should. Therefore, if a woman wants to dominate a man, and she has the strength to do so, she should. If a man wants to submit to a woman, he should. There are several examples in the books where men do submit to women and other examples of women who do not submit to men.

Does this answer your question?

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 1:23:55 PM   
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Yes I will say, go read the books for yourself, learn the information for yourself;  The reason?  Why would you take MY word for what's in the books, why wouldn't you read them...IF you want to know.   And if you don't, why ask the question?
What other philosophical school needs that much background reading to summarise?   (I'm hardpressed to think of one that can't be summarised in a paragraph).  That's the thing.  It is a common claim that Goreanism is a philosophy first and foremost.  If that's the case, I think it's reasonable to apply the same principles I'd apply to any other philosophy.

Which would include not taking it seriously until its actually faced hostile intellectual inquiry, which I'm highly unconvinced is the case with Gor currently.



Apocalypso,

Here is a basically one paragraph summary that I posted in another thread earlier this month:

I think that Norman's central thesis in his books is that nearly everyone in modern day North America is unhappy, unhealthy, and unfulfilled because they try to live their lives in accordance with (IAW) politically correct fictions about how human beings are, rather that IAW with the truth of our nature. Norman presents the Free Gorean, in several different Gorean cultures, as the epitome of humans who do live IAW the way people actually are.

What are the characteristics of a free Gorean:
- They are sovereign in their personal territory
- They identify with, love and are allegiant to their community
- They identify with and take pride in the work that they do, and perform that work eithically and excellently.
- They subscribe to a particular notion of right and wrong:
* they assume that people are not equal, not the same, but quite different in many ways.
* they are bent toward conquest and defiance
* they strive to exhibit honor, courage, hardness and strength
* they agree with the statement "We are not equal; we are not the same; become equal to me; then we will be the same."
* they also agree with the statement "Be strong, and do as you will. The swords of others will set your limits."

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 4:46:43 PM   
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I honestly find it amusing how age, once again, has slipped its way into a valid argument.
Can't the oldies get over it? Honestly. And no worries on the "you look stupid" thing, stupid seems to be the only language that the senile speak now-a-days.



& your submissive's contributions:

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http://www.flayme.com/troll/newsgroups.shtml

My favorite quote here is that an internet troll is an asshole looking for a body to attach itself to.

Oh, yeah.  And... trolls tend to be pedantic, unable to admit they are wrong, and sexually immature.

Has anyone else noticed that... or is it just me?

To be fair, we're not talking about a particuarly competent pair of trolls here.  Too obvious, apart from anything else.

I'd hazard a guess that we're dealing with a couple of Something Awful rejects.



Surely we would be more correct in referring to the terrible two as an inept troll and trollop?


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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 4:58:04 PM   
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Trolloops and Trollopp?

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 5:03:04 PM   
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Aye it would seem to be appropriate - male and female trolls... 

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 5:27:08 PM   
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http://www.flayme.com/troll/newsgroups.shtml

My favorite quote here is that an internet troll is an asshole looking for a body to attach itself to.

Oh, yeah.  And... trolls tend to be pedantic, unable to admit they are wrong, and sexually immature.

Has anyone else noticed that... or is it just me?



I noticed it too.  Some people, er trolls, just won't admit when they're wrong.  Foolish trolls!

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 5:28:39 PM   
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Aye it would seem to be appropriate - male and female trolls... 


Is that why they keep multiplying?  Oh for crying out loud, those trolls need to use birth control!!!

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 5:49:10 PM   
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Castration lass, I suggest public castration for the male and for the female a good fucking via a fucking machine loaded with a barbed wire penis.. A proven birth control method I can assure you. 

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 6:22:55 PM   
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Trolls, Trollops...  nice to see someone else reads Robert Asprin's "Myth" books.

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 8:11:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: YoungLust
What is the basis for gender-specific dominance?

I think that Norman's central thesis in his books is that nearly everyone in modern day North America is unhappy, unhealthy, and unfulfilled because they try to live their lives in accordance with (IAW) politically correct fictions about how human beings are, rather that IAW with the truth of our nature. Norman presents the Free Gorean, in several different Gorean cultures, as the epitome of humans who do live IAW the way people actually are.

One of the "truth's" that Gorean's embrace is what John Norman calls "the order of nature". Here is a summary of my understanding of what Norman means by "the order of nature":
- Humans are part of nature. 
- They have been shaped by evolution, just like any other animal, with adaptations to help them better survive as a species.
- Some animal species have been shaped by evolution to be male dominant, like chimpanzees; and some to be female dominant, like bonobos.
- Humans are a male dominant species.


Woah, woha, there Tex..er.. Treveylan,
While the first three contentions you list are obvious, the forth is not necessarily so.  What is the basis for this idea that Humanity is male dominated as the result of our species' genetic inheritance?  Why limit our thinking simply because this is how it is depicted in our surviving recorded history?  That is a small portion of Humanitys actual history, isn't it?  What about before history was recorded?  We can make a wide array of educated guesses as to that period, but that is all they will be.  Guesses.  And we have not taken our own evloution into account on many levels.  One things we do know is that our species has spent much of recorded history taking practiced and calculated steps to keep women out of power.  Our society has had to work at it to remain patriarchal.

In fact, when Darwin wrote his Origin if the Species, he ushered in a new age for humanity.  An age where we were aware of the process that is evloution, and could begin to study it and observe the way it works.. We are aware that we evolve and we are intelligent enough to attempt to influence the process of our own evolution in many ways, from genetically to the evloution of our social structures.  Whether it is wise of us at this point in our growth to attempt to do this, or not, you can be certain it is going to happen.  On many levels it is happening already.  This fact chages the playing field considerably. 

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Therefore, when a human male acts dominantly towards a human female, he is not being "kinky", he is acting in accordance with how evolution has shaped his species. Similarly, when a human female behaves submissively towards a human male, she is acting in accordance with the "order of nature."

Norman does not say that women should submit to men. He does not say that men should not submit to women. He says that evolution has predisposed men towards dominance and women towards submission, and that most people will probably be happiest, healthiest and most fulfilled if they live "in the order of nature."


Based upon my previous statements, it should come as no surprise that I believe Norman is just plain wrong.

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There is another "truth" that Gorean's embrace that Norman calls "The Gorean Morality". I am not going to go into all of it here, although if you would like to read it, it is most succinctly discussed in chapter 1 of Marauders of Gor. One aspect of the Gorean Morality is the idea that if you want to do something and you are strong enough to do that thing, then you should. Therefore, if a woman wants to dominate a man, and she has the strength to do so, she should. If a man wants to submit to a woman, he should. There are several examples in the books where men do submit to women and other examples of women who do not submit to men.

We do not have to live in a world where might makes right anymore and where freedom is the privledge of the powerful.  We have grown beyond that, and no amount of yearning for those good old days is going to bring them back. It is nearly universally acknowledged that one of the great goals which we as a speicies have set for ourselves is, in fact, the eradication of this very kind of "Morality."

People who deny this truth are going to find themselves tragically (and I mean that literally) disapointed.  No matter how strong, capable or intelligent, a person is, they cannot halt the inevitable.  From the best vantage point to this spectacle, their hubris will perhaps provide humanity with yet one more really good story, but even that will be only a rehash of the same old thing warmed over, from the worst POV, their worst dreams will be realized: they will be pittied.


< Message edited by Maxwell67 -- 6/28/2009 8:14:33 PM >


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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 10:00:01 PM   
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greetings Maxwell

perhaps this article might be helpful in answering some of your questions

http://www.pantheus.com/TGV/archive122002/TGV/philosophy.shtml

well wishes

tazzy

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/28/2009 11:35:03 PM   
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Castration lass, I suggest public castration for the male and for the female a good fucking via a fucking machine loaded with a barbed wire penis.. A proven birth control method I can assure you. 

Now that's just vulgar.

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 12:42:26 AM   
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Personally I find the idea that a group of "adults" base their lives on badly written sci-fi hilarious. Shame they don't have the mental capacity to live their lives based on their own morality and code. I mean come on folks do you really need a set of stupid books to show you the way. Grow up and use your brains.

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 5:24:17 AM   
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Personally I find ignorance one of the most unattractive qualities anyone can possess.

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 6:00:37 AM   
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New to all this but eager to learn.


from your profile. shame you didnt mean what you said.

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 6:03:41 AM   
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The goreans in the way they present themself online doing that in the way of a sect, insofar the analogy is right, as far as i know, the analog is wrong insofar that they are not amassing economical power or that that is even one of their first directives. So i would not make such a half right, half wrong comparison.

The resemblance i see is the religious/churchlike character.

IronBear belongs to a lot of male dominated circles, so belonging to the goreans is a logic step in my view, but having had personal contact via messages with him, he never treated me with anything else than respect.
That differentiates him in my experience from the vast majority of gorean folk i met online.

Furthermore i would say that only goreans who had real internal problems with their selfworth management are
hostile. It surely is a very seductive concept for men who are unsure in modern society.






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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 7:37:16 AM   
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Castration lass, I suggest public castration for the male and for the female a good fucking via a fucking machine loaded with a barbed wire penis.. A proven birth control method I can assure you. 

Now that's just vulgar.



Indeed not. I simply suggested desexing methods which I know from personally witnessing their use are effective, albeit the female is unlikely to live too long but never the less my comment is not vulgar.the couple referred to as Troll and Trollop are guilty of vulgarity as is evident in every post they made.


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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 7:56:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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ORIGINAL: ChasingOblivion

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Castration lass, I suggest public castration for the male and for the female a good fucking via a fucking machine loaded with a barbed wire penis.. A proven birth control method I can assure you. 

Now that's just vulgar.



Indeed not. I simply suggested desexing methods which I know from personally witnessing their use are effective, albeit the female is unlikely to live too long but never the less my comment is not vulgar.the couple referred to as Troll and Trollop are guilty of vulgarity as is evident in every post they made.



No, not vulgar.  Vulgarity is a matter of perspective.. it is relative.  However your suggestion is certainly inhumane, definitely not SSC and I am pretty sure it is illegal in every civilized nation.  But at least it has a certain flair and to those of us with darker sadistic tastes, it is even hot.

But let me get this straight.. You are saying that you have personally witnessed a woman being fucked by a machine loaded with a barbed wire penis?  Really??  And you are and advocate of such?  And you are still walking around free in the world?  Must be nice.


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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 8:24:21 AM   
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Not to contradict or question any previous posts but I will say this about the goreans, even though I don't get into their style of bdsm. . .

A. They have huge flying chickens they ride and that is just kinda cool

B. The good Gorean masters I have met have a certain pagentry to their style. They got the ritual and protocol down to a science and like in any other styles, there are good and bad ones. The good ones though, they and their Kajira can be quite elequent to watch. May not be my cup of tea but I see them draw from all sorta different sources for their rituals and the end result can be very impressive. For many slaves the ritual is so important that i can see why they are drawn to Gorean style.

C. Did I mention the huge chickens? BBQs must be very impressive. . .

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RE: Now... is it just me...? - 6/29/2009 8:29:58 AM   
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