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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 12:32:56 AM

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Love, and participation in the flow of energy. Love makes me submit to the will of my Goddess, love makes my boys do what I tell them. This is just a different shape of love than tender kissing, and just as valid.

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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 1:31:50 AM

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why do we obey? - well, i dont always, lol - but thats another topic for another time i guess.

largely i do and its because i want to but also because if i dont or didnt, what on earth would be the point. i might just as well find myself a 'nilla bloke who doesnt expect it from me.

the entire premis of this type of relationship is that you (we) the subs, fulfill that part of us that wants to please and give all that we are to the person we are with. they do the same in their own way and both are satisfied and happy and that, basically, is what we do. is who we are and why we're here. from that basis everything else swings.

if you start saying no, or refusing or failing to do as is expected of you it starts to become less than it was intended to be, it starts to become a power struggle rather than a power exchange. it stops being D/s or Ms and starts to become something else.

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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 9:22:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: triskelia

why do we obey?

"we" obey for god knows what various reasons. In Carol's case, she obeys for the following reasons, roughly in descending priority order:

a) She likes how it improves our marriage.
b) She likes how it makes me happy
c) She likes not having to decide herself.

But don't you think the real question is why do YOU obey triskelia?

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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 11:19:58 AM

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You touched a sore spot - still trying to work it out

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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 5:21:13 PM

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why do we obey?

Power may define authority but it is obedience that allows it to exist. You obey because without that there is nothing, and there is something that you need.

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RE: why?? - 7/1/2009 11:34:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: triskelia

why do we obey?

because to do other is to lose everything that zaphira has worked for in the past three years

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RE: why?? - 7/2/2009 12:44:20 AM

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Because it is in our nature.

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RE: why?? - 7/2/2009 6:25:11 AM

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for every action there is and equal and opposite reaction. that being said behaving my self gets me warm fuzzies and approving looks and to disobey it gets my ass red. but then I might and do like that

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RE: why?? - 7/2/2009 6:51:17 AM

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It is my nature and my reason to seek submission...... being obedient is being true to myself.

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