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ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily

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"I wasn't aware, in all My yrs in the lifestyle, that submissives were so chosey, till the newer, less respectful generation came along"....This is a part of an e-mail i received today. I am so confused. Is it not up to me be picky in choosing the One i submit to?

This is manipulative man crap. This person is a dick, plain and simple. This is the reply of someone who's been constantly turned down. A question you might want to ask him is "Why do you find yourself rejected so much?" I'm sure he'd come back with some equally dickheaded response to try to make you feel like there is something wrong with you. C'est la vie....

Of COURSE it's up to you. Hon, if you are ready, then by all means find your local organization, get in touch with them, go to their munch and meet folks real time. It will do two things for you in my opinion:

A) It will get you out of the fantasy ideals that a lot of female subs come to this with and get you to realize that Kinky folks really aren't that differant from vanilla folks. We just have better toy boxes

B) Will put you in an environment where you can meet other real time folks who are practicing BDSM, and allow you to make some friends so that you can actually form a relationship with people who care about you and will give you opportunities to ask questions and dispel myths that Mr. Dickhead would like to continue to reinforce.

Kassie

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn
It's really sad that anyone would feel this way ... that participation in the healthy give and take that makes a relationship fun, is a form of male supplication.

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One can only imagine the aweful relationship events that led to such feelings of complete and total anguish. For those men that have suffered so much ... please accept my my heart felt sympathy.[/color]

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

all the whining about the suffering of the poor, poor pitiful men.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
Well, to just be little be serious, for the briefest of moments, if the thrill is in the chase and the romantic theater, what's that leave for the end, other wise known as the ever after?

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

all the whining about the suffering of the poor, poor pitiful men.

Amayos and I might respond to this if we weren't so busy answering the 250 unsolicited emails we received this week. O, and BTW, he and I are tired of being viewed nothing more than boy toys, sex objects, and rent-a-dicks.

AND JUST SO YOU KNOW it takes more than a clit shot to get our attention.

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
Well, to just be little be serious, for the briefest of moments, if the thrill is in the chase and the romantic theater, what's that leave for the end, other wise known as the ever after?

It's not that the thrill is in the chase and romantic theater, just that the chase and romantic theater is thrilling.

To use a very simple analogy ... when I go to a movie I like to watch the previews. The previews are not the feature attraction which was really the reason I came in the first place. I would never watch the previews and then leave ... but, I still want to watch them because I enjoy them.

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ORIGINAL: amayos
What about the people who come in 15 minutes late?

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy


I think she just asked you out to the movies!! In the greater continuum, I will be the second preview, you and she will be viewers, and a bi-switch will be the projectionist. Subs always work the concession stands and Doms always take your ticket. No spanking during the movie and remember speech restrictions apply at all times during the main attraction.

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Those darn kids.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

mmmmmmm didn't know the newer generation was less respectful! Is this suppose to be common knowledge? Am I that far out of the loop that I don't know these things?

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There was an all-hands meeting about it

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They're only there to make out anyway ..