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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/6/2009 6:22:52 PM

LadyPact

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Thank you, Davan. I appreciate the compliment.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/6/2009 6:24:23 PM

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I think 'strapon' sex -- woman to man - WILL become "in" with the vanilla/edge crowd in the next 5 - 10 years. One hot sex tape leaked from a celeb or some famous couple admitting they dabble with the strap on will lead to it. I know quite a few "open minded" vanilla girlfriends who'd give it a try if they - and their homophobic boyfriends - could get past some of their issues. Once they tried it, they'd integrate it regularly in their bedroom activities.

My sister's best friend owns an adult store and their sales on strap-ons as well as basic bdsm gear are quite substantial; I think both things have already reached the mainstream if their sales are any indication.
Also, in mainstream/white-bread sex toy catalogues like Adam and Eve, one sees frequency and prominence given to the same.
Davan

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/6/2009 6:34:56 PM

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I have this urge to give in to an evil laugh and rub my hands together. Strap-on play is hot - and just one more very effective way to play with a boy's mind. Sweet jeebus - the absolutely feral LUST - okay and the calmer moments when its a quiet takeover ;)

In truth, I dont emit a very convincing growl (I lack the necessary bass in my voice LOL) but mentally its a low rumble and I'm licking my chops. Its also fun to imagine that a blushing boy is pulling the covers over his head later and remembering what She did to him...and that he liked it... and that he will be ordered to do it again.

A man on his knees compelled by excitement/fear/authority to first service then be conquered by a symbol attached to my harness - what a sweet thing to see ;)

(thanks Calla.. now I'll NEVER get to sleep tonite LOL)

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/6/2009 6:36:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

This may be a bit much for certain readers. The faint of heart should turn away now.

Something you may be able to identify with, Calla. Think of the feeling you get as a top watching a good piercing scene where your hand guides an implement under the bottom's skin. It is an extension of you. In a spiritual sense, you are literally *inside* the flesh of the bottom you are playing with. When the bevel of the needle punctures the skin and you watch it go through the tissue. Done correctly, you can see the body accept the foreign object, dancing lightly under the skin. You are the guide. You are what is within. You bring forth something that touches places where some might otherwise not go. In the sensation, there is beauty. In the beauty, there is pleasure.

I never said it was purely sexual.

Oh. and if you read the post and it was too much for you, I did tell you to look away.

Ah.. now THIS I grasp, in ways that grab me down deep in the middle. That little bit of escaping life-force, crimson on the skin, and looking like maple syrup leaking from a tap... Maybe that's why I don't have an interest in the strap-on... I concentrate all of mine in the miniature phallus of the needle...

See, I -did- learn something new... a whole new perspective on my precious piercing!

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/6/2009 7:35:02 PM

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My Mistress and I absolutely love strap-on play. She actually achieves orgasm with it sometimes. It helps us complete the role reversal and there's something undeniably powerful about being the penetrator.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/7/2009 12:38:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: DavanKael
[ Freud would aptly say I have penis envy. :>

Me too! I really dislike the whole inconvenient rigmarole of having to strap one on. How convenient it would be to just whip it out and go! Of course, my partner also goes through quite a lot of rigmarole to have breasts at playtime. So I guess it kind of evens out.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/7/2009 8:05:32 PM

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I just like it. It's a toy and a tool and fun. We can get all political about it. Or we can just like what we like, and not like what we don't like.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/7/2009 8:26:19 PM

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Ok, so I'm here seeking a little enlightenment. I've been on both the wearing end and the receiving end of the strap-on a few times in my life, inside and outside of BDSM related stuff, and you know... I still don't get the point. I am probably seriously biased because they've never done a thing for me, either way... but... maybe that's the thing. They've never done a thing for me (or, apparently, for my companion, either), and I'm still not sure why they're so avidly promoted (at least in the circles we've run in).

Why -do- dominant females like strapped-on fake penii again?

Dame Calla

Yeah really- what's up with that?

I want my fingers, my hands, inside him. To touch him, to feel him inside. To stroke his prostate until he is milked dry. To have him suffer the sweet humiliation of that even his asshole, his most private place, is mine and must obey me... To require him to squeeze me and hold me tight, until I say to relax... To have him open up wide for me while I plunge in deeper.... MMMmmmmm...

*creams*

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 3:42:02 AM

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FR,

Er . . . has Mal died?

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 7:05:53 AM

MsValentine

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Not all of us femdoms do love the old strap on.

I hate them and feel stupid and unfeminine wearing one, it transmits no pleasurable physical feeling to me and so, well, I don't do it.

< Message edited by MsValentine -- 7/8/2009 7:07:17 AM >

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 8:38:07 AM

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FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men. That might be worth a try.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 10:29:14 AM

dreamerdreaming

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FR,

Er . . . has Mal died?

Not by my hand...

I'm just pinch hitting for him.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 11:39:24 AM

DemonKia

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men. That might be worth a try.

All guys come equipped with a mangina, lol . . . . That's what the strap-on's for . . . . .

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 11:52:34 AM

dreamerdreaming

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FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men. That might be worth a try.

All guys come equipped with a mangina, lol . . . . That's what the strap-on's for . . . . .

LOL, DemonKia!

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 1:04:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

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FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men. That might be worth a try.

All guys come equipped with a mangina, lol . . . . That's what the strap-on's for . . . . .

I should have said 'apart from his jacksie'. You're being rather silly tonight, Kia - please don't think that this has escaped my attention.

I was just thinking, if a woman had a strap-on whanger and her man a strap on growler, they could both leave the strap-ons jiggy-jigging with each other and have nice cup of tea instead.

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 2:05:45 PM

MsFlutter

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

All guys come equipped with a mangina, lol . . . . That's what the strap-on's for . . . . .

Kia !! LMAO !! You're just too outrageous ! Now I have to clean soda off my screen LOLOL

Peon... growler? LOL - I've not heard that one before!

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 2:32:58 PM

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I'm not dominant but I love the idea of strap-ons. Most people here have spoken about how they love penetrating a man with them. What about a woman? Wearing one and using it on another girl or having her do so to me....whew! That's so hot. It's just one of the many fun things we bi girls can enjoy with each other

...............luci

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 9:09:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

quote:

ORIGINAL: DemonKia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR

Shame there's no such thing as a strap-on vagina for men. That might be worth a try.

All guys come equipped with a mangina, lol . . . . That's what the strap-on's for . . . . .

LOL, DemonKia!

Kia, I think you're my new hero!!!!!!! :>
Davan

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/8/2009 9:11:19 PM

DavanKael

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

FR,

Er . . . has Mal died?

That is a good question; this post is soooooo (omg, I almost said 'up Mal's alley') a post in which Mal generally would take an interest. Here's hoping all's well in Mal's Universe.
Davan

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RE: The Dominant Female and the Strap-on - 7/9/2009 3:17:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

I'm not dominant but I love the idea of strap-ons. Most people here have spoken about how they love penetrating a man with them. What about a woman? Wearing one and using it on another girl or having her do so to me....whew! That's so hot. It's just one of the many fun things we bi girls can enjoy with each other...............luci

I agree! While reading all the posts I wondered when someone would mention the other wonderful uses for a strap-on. Definately girl on girl fun. I am in a relationship with a man now and I must say; perhaps due to the size difference as he is over 6' tall, it is a little difficult getting used to. The hand held tools are much easier to negotiate.

I really enjoy it when I tell him to back up on it. Then I can just stand and let him do what feels good and watch. Hands-free is the way to go when using multiple tools for additional sensations. Love it.

Island

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