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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/20/2009 12:25:01 AM

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Nothing will get a girl wetter faster than showing you care and paying attention to her.

... and then grabbing her by the throat and slamming her into the mattress.

fuck yeah... thats hot..... mmmmm

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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/20/2009 7:11:45 PM

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do a search on this and otehr related topics.
lubrication recommendations - 8/6/2008 9:46:21 PM

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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/21/2009 1:22:36 PM

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Bondage is only one form of restraint. If indeed it is the restraint that makes her wet, then perhaps you could try other forms of restraint. Use of hold maneuvers works quite thoroughly for my sub when she does not wish to be tied. Also, enforcement of stillness and compliance through complete Dominance is quite effective. I hope this helps you some.

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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/21/2009 1:43:29 PM

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Look I thank everybody for the lube suggestion but we do use it, and it does work but sometimes she when we don't its to late before she tells me or I figure it out mas. Go figure, but then I feel terrible about the constant hurt I put her through after during the next weeks "she heals slowly and I tend to be a beast about consistancy AND she doesn't show a line between actual pain and roleplay, as I said she's a granduoes actor. So by the time I figure it out she's hurt pretty bad and I start being overly timid about my force. Thus making ten fold actions suffer. There's a time to throw her around and a time not where's the line and I do use EVERY activity thought of at least at my disposal to my benifit. Since my original post I waited for her to say ready for rope it didn't happen she said no every time, then I didn't take no for an answer loads of fun for everyone apparently, I've never had so much trouble reading the body language of "ready"!

If she is being hurt because she is acting that everything is fine and she is ready when she isn't, then she has a big share in the responsibility for that.

How long are you spending on getting her "ready"?

You are having trouble reading her; it may be largely due to her not being able to communicate honestly about what is going on with her.

Too, I think you could perhaps be more mindful of what is happening with her.
Maybe slow things waaaay down and spend extra time getting to know how she responds without any intercourse.

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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/23/2009 7:50:32 PM

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So my wife likes to be tied up a lot but she says not all the time, and it seems to be the best way to get her wet, we have some problems with that area.Even though she's turned on. What do I do?

Respect her wishes

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RE: my wife says she doesnt want to be bound all the time, - 7/27/2009 6:21:41 PM

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Well, I'm glad I could be of service, Mistress OsideGirl... but totally for real, I was trying to make a point to the OP, which I think he didn't get.

It's the combination of sensuous giving-a-crap and TOTAL NEANDERTHAL YOU'RE MINE BITCH that drives (a lot of) women wild. Only a fetishist likes the same sex thing every single time. Also, overfiend, if you stress about your wife's wetness, she'll have a harder time getting wet. Just go, "We're doing this my way," lube her up, and have at her. Talk about how to do things better, before and afterward. During, dom the crap out of her.

WOW.... could anyone say it better? I doubt it!

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