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RE: What would stop you... - 7/18/2009 11:54:28 AM

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Looking goofy is in the eye of the beholder and will be different for every one. If you think you look good in the picture and it pleases you, ( provided you and yes I am speaking in general terms, don't think cut offs and a beer belly an a hairy chest look good* then you approving of the picture should suffice.

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RE: What would stop you... - 7/18/2009 1:58:15 PM

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To the OP:
Youve gotten a lot of good advice. There's a part that I think may be helpful too. Post on the boards. Get to know the people here. There are a number of unattached women here. The "regulars" kind of get to know each other, and there are 8 women to every man when the groups get together. Them's good odds *wink.

have a great day, and good luck!
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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:19:14 AM

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I can vouch that evil SOB hasn't got an evil bone in his body! he is very kind and considerate. i do think that the name is quite off putting to a potential partner expecially when it reads totally opposite to your personality. He was my previous boy friend for 5 months and throws his heart and soul into anything he does including BDSM. So he comes with my full reccomendation to any sub who wants a caring, considerate dom/boyfriend x

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:22:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jodie73

I can vouch that evil SOB hasn't got an evil bone in his body! he is very kind and considerate. i do think that the name is quite off putting to a potential partner expecially when it reads totally opposite to your personality. He was my previous boy friend for 5 months and throws his heart and soul into anything he does including BDSM. So he comes with my full reccomendation to any sub who wants a caring, considerate dom/boyfriend x

And of course we believe you without question........

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:32:25 AM

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why would you not believe me?

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:42:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jodie73

why would you not believe me?

Why would we?

Brand new and first post is to rush in and defend someone's identity. Glaringly suspect. Regardless of whether real or a figment of imagination, a dominant should be able to stand on their own merit, not hide behind skirts/trousers of former lovers.

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:52:40 AM

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What would stop me?

1) Your ideal woman is 5'6, size 8, and 34b. I am 5'8, plus sized, and pushing a D cup. Thats obviously two different worlds there.

2) Your name kinda sounds like youd be an asshole. And to be honest, I already have an asshole. Dont need another.

3) You talk about YOU YOU YOU in your messages. What did you like about her profile, specifically? What made you want to message this person?

4) The whole "I could list more but that would be boring," and "it's a bit dull" type stuff is a total turn off. Its almost like saying "Hey, I think I am the shiznit, but I have absolutely NO faith in myself or my communicational skills." Not Attractive.

Good luck!

< Message edited by KyttynTheMynx -- 7/19/2009 10:54:13 AM >

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:56:56 AM

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i am a new resident yes, and was only with evil SOB a matter of months, but just wanted to verify that actually he is a nice guy. and not as evil as his name makes out..... I do really think you need to change that name x

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:57:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: jodie73

I can vouch that evil SOB hasn't got an evil bone in his body! he is very kind and considerate. i do think that the name is quite off putting to a potential partner expecially when it reads totally opposite to your personality. He was my previous boy friend for 5 months and throws his heart and soul into anything he does including BDSM. So he comes with my full reccomendation to any sub who wants a caring, considerate dom/boyfriend x

nice try

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 10:59:12 AM

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Wow...New resident and already requesting name changes of others. New Record?

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:02:25 AM

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oh no really no one believes me! Sorry that there are many false/ liars on here, but really I am not.... I just think his name chosen doesnt match his personality!!! Oooops i didnt realise that others judged so, what is it you guys dont believe please

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:08:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: EvilSOB I like geocaching (ever tried that?) and the outdoors generally...

Well I'll be. Someone else into geocaching!

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:10:43 AM

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No that was something that was an interest after me, i believe it is something to do with walking!

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:11:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Wow...New resident and already requesting name changes of others. New Record?

i think a record needs to be held for a new resident (wtf...ya live here?) just happening upon the one guy she knows...just when he needs someone to defend him.

Gotta love that kind of coincidence

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:27:10 AM

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I really don't know what more i can say. When one person is actually being honest, there is no belief.. I am entitled to validate that an ex is actually OK, I would add that he has no idea as yet that i have wrote any of this but again i feel i will be slated and called a liar. So be it!! why not trust in some one or say something is nice about someone... It feels a whole lot better

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:31:25 AM

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Do you have any idea what the odds are that I and a former lover, find the same website, join, and participate, within days of one another, without the other knowing about it. Let alone she know what name I created my profile under, find the very first thread I started and make her very first post defending me?

I may as well invest all my next paycheck on the lottery. The odds are about the same.

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:37:36 AM

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oh i see what the misconception is now... I have been on about a monthish, and he added me as a friend only days ago. I browsed his furum posts and added to them!! So yes i could see that it looked odd but again it is a coincidence

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:40:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jodie73

I can vouch that evil SOB hasn't got an evil bone in his body! he is very kind and considerate. i do think that the name is quite off putting to a potential partner expecially when it reads totally opposite to your personality. He was my previous boy friend for 5 months and throws his heart and soul into anything he does including BDSM. So he comes with my full reccomendation to any sub who wants a caring, considerate dom/boyfriend x

Can I just say "Jodie" that EvilSOB is someone else to whom you think! Really!

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:43:05 AM

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I do not think so.. do you????? I can go on if you require..

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RE: What would stop you..... - 7/19/2009 11:45:01 AM

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Whoah! Hold on a moment please people...

Thanks for defending me Jodie but, I have no idea who you are, I think you must have me confused with someone else.
I am sure your ex will greatly appreciate your kind words Jodie but I am afraid I am not your ex, I am 100% certain about that!

I am not calling you a liar you may well be telling the whole truth about Him but, that Him isnt me I am afraid

Evil :)

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