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RE: Casual public play - 7/19/2009 9:08:17 AM

LadyHibiscus

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I just had this conversation yesterday! I LOVE casual play! I was reminiscing about "back in the day" when we would hook up at parties, play, and move on to the next one, maybe not even knowing the other person's NAME. Good times.

(I am a play slut, I admit it freely.)

I value intimate time with my partners. There are things that I do in private that are just plain not allowed in public. But, a scene for me is not a life commitment. It's two people agreeing to have some fun together, and then maybe having more fun another time! There are folks that I ONLY play with at parties, and have a sort of party-pal relationship with. It's not Big Love, it's sadomasochism!

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RE: Casual public play - 7/19/2009 9:18:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I just had this conversation yesterday! I LOVE casual play! I was reminiscing about "back in the day" when we would hook up at parties, play, and move on to the next one, maybe not even knowing the other person's NAME. Good times. (I am a play slut, I admit it freely.)

I value intimate time with my partners. There are things that I do in private that are just plain not allowed in public. But, a scene for me is not a life commitment. It's two people agreeing to have some fun together, and then maybe having more fun another time! There are folks that I ONLY play with at parties, and have a sort of party-pal relationship with. It's not Big Love, it's sadomasochism!

You DO play well with others!!!
If you come to one of the clubs in Chicago, you will see that at some clubs EVERYTHING is allowed!

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RE: Casual public play - 7/19/2009 9:20:28 AM

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LOL Yeah I used to have a club where everything was allowed! But some things I DO like to do with some privacy.

Which is odd, since I generally don't care if I am being watched... I am lucky though, if I know that I am not in danger of running into someone with a backswing, I can totally focus on what I am doing, and the rest of the room vanishes. This is VERY helpful when bad club music is playing.

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RE: Casual public play - 7/19/2009 9:37:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

LOL Yeah I used to have a club where everything was allowed! But some things I DO like to do with some privacy.

Which is odd, since I generally don't care if I am being watched... I am lucky though, if I know that I am not in danger of running into someone with a backswing, I can totally focus on what I am doing, and the rest of the room vanishes. This is VERY helpful when bad club music is playing.

I will always see you as a goddess with a whip.
Hibbie is poetry in motion with a flogger. A graceful swan. I am in awe of you!

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RE: Casual public play - 7/19/2009 11:24:28 AM

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I guess it depends on what you mean by "casual play". I have had casual beatings in public. The only way that I have to be suspended (rope) is to talk to ask on of the riggers at the clubs. I don't mind stripping down or anything. I, however, won't go so far as casual public intercourse. I am an exhibitionist, but there are lines that I just don't want to cross.

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