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Resnic -> Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:00:23 PM)
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Granted I am quite sure more than enough men screw stuff up also but since I dont spend time with them on here like I do with the female of the species I can only comment on the dominant females on this site.
After being on here awhile, quite awhile really my old profile refused to send or recieve messages so I had to create this one after awhile when CM customer support was rendered vacant I guess.
Im not throwing a tantrum here or outright just venting. I am just saying from my point of view as a submissive my views on the negative aspects of femdoms on this site.
1- If your not interested in a male that messages you, pending they arent rude or just outright ignored your profile atleast have the common decency to say your not interested. Ive sent so many messages that were short and friendly only to be read and ignored. Yes you may call yourself a dominant but your still just a person and every person should atleast have some basic sets of manners in place. And Ive seen profiles that just say "If I dont respond Im not interested", well thats pretty rude to say. If the person took the time to message you could atleast take 3 seconds to type "Im not interested, good day" and send it. Submissive or dominant, neither are an excuse for not being curtious on some basic level to others.
2- There is a difference between being a dominant and a bitch. This especially applies to talking to strangers. Yeah I get your a dominant but there is a line between being dominant and just being a crass, belittling cunt for no reason at all other than you can. If thats your schtick then thats fine, but save it for when your actually talking to your sub/slave or till you get to know that person well enough to show them that side.
Only ones worse than that are the ones who are proud self proclaimed bitches and that must make sure every 3rd sentence expresses they are bitches proudly, have pics on their profiles of the word bitch tattoed on them, their paddle that says bitch and underwear that says bitch. Really now, to me atleast a woman who proudly and overtly professes her bitchiness constantly is not attractive. Ive never wanted to be with a woman who enjoys being a negative stereotype of a women, bitch isnt a good word when referring to womens attitudes. Try being a person first and a bitch second.
3- Capping the words "NO MEN NO MEN NO MEN NO MEN" a 100 times in your profile and spouting it constantly frankly is very ill tempered and childish looking. I promise you it wont help anything, infact it actually might antagonize someone into messaging you that otherwise might not have before. The problem is the guys that message those women do so because they dont read their profile, so saying no men 43 times wont help because well, they dont read the profile its written on. People who do that wanting men or not never come across to me as someone I would want to talk to.
4- Dominants in clubs/munches or whatnot that send in response information about them. I have messaged several domme's here and gotten a knee jerk email about some munch they are in and where it is and such. Its not much different than getting spam in my email about viagra, if I wanted to know about a munch I would ask about it.
Part 2 of this is also that alot of dommes I run into arent interested even in friendly emails and say if you want to talk come to a munch or chastise you for not getting into munches to meet people, or just flat out ask why your hiding for if you dont want to be in a group. Some people dont like to play pinball machines, watch horror movies, drink cherry coke or work on cars, I do personally but I never felt the need to ask others why they dont also or try to talk them into it.
5- Women who want money or some item bought online for them before they even talk to you. Im sorry but your basically just want people to give you shit, you dont care about the person at all or an interest in ever getting to know them, your a gold digger. Ive heard alot of excuses like "Well this is to prove your actually interested and real person and not some flake" thats just a excuse to bilk idiots out of their money and nothing more. I seriously doubt any domme has gotten a donation, talked to a sub, found out they werent interested and then refunded that sub their money because it didnt work out. If they had then they would have been the only ones serious about taking a donation strictly just to see if the other person was serious because they would give it back if things worked or not. And for a real submissive its also pretty damn rude and does nothing to foster interest from our end because were sitting there thinking "So, she would only be willing to talk to me if I pay her to?" thats the same level as phone sex operator, I could never even be able to fake interest in someone I have to pay to be interested in me. Not to mention it also makes you seem like the one who isnt actually serious or real.
I could really get nit picky about alot more stuff but Ill stay away from that and just go with the major things Ive seen that I think are probablly pretty tangible. Like I said, Im not obsolving men or submissives from having problems also, Im just illustrating some I see from my end of things about others.
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