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LaTigresse -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:49:14 PM)

My favourite is the guys with sunglasses trying to look all tough and mysterious, or standing with arms crossed trying to make their arms look more muscular while sucking in their guts.

Oh wait, we are supposed to be whining about dominant WOmen............[:D]



TurboJugend -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:50:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

My favourite is the guys with sunglasses trying to look all tough and mysterious, or standing with arms crossed trying to make their arms look more muscular while sucking in their guts.

Oh wait, we are supposed to be whining about dominant WOmen............[:D]



neahh that is a good one too
[:D]



SoulPiercer -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:53:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

oh boy...


What holly said. I sense a tremor in the Force. Nothing good can come of this. 



Lockit -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:53:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Shucks, Lockit- anytime, girlfriend...  [:)] 

I am a girl though, FYI.

Any day now, I expect I'll be unable to resist the urge much longer....

I'll book a flight to Colorado, to throw myself down on my knees and beg to be DarkSteven's love slave.... [:D]


LOL... sorry... I was meaning the guys... I knew you were female! I just see something I want to respond to and lack the patience to make sure it lines up with who I meant.

As for that flight to Colorado... I was there darn it!  But I didn't know Steven until it was too late. It is tempting! lol A guy who can make you laugh might convince one to do naughty things... but with me... that lil she devil dominant would come out all too soon!  But if you ever do make that flight... I'd like details! hehe



RedMagic1 -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 1:56:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Missykink
I replied to every message I got saying thanks but no thanks and you know what ?  about 80% of the time I would get an abusive message back from someone just as whiney as you.

This is a big reason women don't send "No thank you" emails.  When a woman sends one to me -- or rejects me in person -- I make sure to thank her for her honesty and directness, because I know she's taking a risk by telling me to my face.  I think it's important to appreciate that, because there are so many guys who go apeshit when they get rejected.



TurboJugend -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:00:27 PM)

"So many guys who go apeshit"

Is that true? Are we that bad?



Lockit -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:07:38 PM)

Some are that bad... not all.



SoulPiercer -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:07:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

My favourite is the guys with sunglasses trying to look all tough and mysterious, or standing with arms crossed trying to make their arms look more muscular while sucking in their guts.

Oh wait, we are supposed to be whining about dominant WOmen............[:D]


Hey ... whoa now. I've got a picture just like that on my profile. Let's just stick to the subject at hand, shall we?



Lockit -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:08:45 PM)

Oh I like those pictures!  It makes me want to punch them in the gut! lol



vixenmoon -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:10:43 PM)

I personally don't reply to every message that I get.  For all the reasons stated.  Many times I really don't feel comfortable with the person emailing me.  And when I do reply with a thanks but no thanks, about half the time the man will start arguing with me.  That's not an exaggeration.  I really don't need to expose myself to that.  Nor am I obligated to.  Quite frankly, almost every time that I don't reply to someone, it has been more than apparent that they haven't read my profile.  If they won't read or understand that, then I have no reason to think that they'll read anything else that I say. Anytime someone mentions how horrible it is for someone to not reply, I wonder... are you sitting around pining after someone who has never spoken with you? 

Point 5 is interesting.  People who require gifts before contact, or immediately after, are apparently financial dominants.  It's a tricky area.  I can see how it can be a valid kink, but it is also a highly abused kink.  It's definitely not everyone's kink.

I have absolutely no argument with the OP's other points though.  Of course, they apply across the board, regardless of gender, and to an extent, regardless of orientation (top/bottom/insert-applicable-label).  ;)



TurboJugend -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:10:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Some are that bad... not all.



thank god.... I try so hard to be an example :P

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Point 5 is interesting. People who require gifts before contact, or immediately after, are financial dominants. It's a tricky area. I can see how it can be a valid kink, but it is also a highly abused kink.


for lifestylers....payments might seem weird....but the market asks for PRo's.
But if you don't want to participate...just don't contact have to contact those people. It is in the hand of the sub him/herself



Missykink -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:11:04 PM)

Honestly I try by best to be polite and curteous but after recieveing several vile messages back I decided sod it.

And what suprised me the most once was a particually sick nasty 5 paragraph message, from a man who had sent me the most lovely message that appeared thought out and contained specifics from my profile. I had said thank you for the message, and explained that him living in another country and not being female, I wasn't interested in any online D/s stuff that he was enquiring about and good luck in his search.

Now I don't reply to any messages from men unless it makes me laugh.  I don't answer them because I don't have to and I am not being rude by doing that.  I do clearly state that I don't want to take on men and they message me any way I think thats rude !![:)]





GoddessOrchid -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:12:50 PM)

I am so sick of the double standards between female dominants and male dominants. This is a freesite full of the foolish and the gholish. Just like I get plenty of so called subs/slaves demanding my time who are not serious- I am sure there are a-holes of dominant females and males who do the same. However, I am not going to waste my valuable time answering every single e-mail when it is clear to read my profile first which most never do.

People can handle their business anyway they wish. I am not going to sit here and judge every single submissive or slave that writes me. This is the internet and I probably will never meet most of the ppl who contact me. Besides there is a real world out there and real people where we I can meet in the lifestyle.

Therefore, I am not subject to anyones whims or fantasies nor will I ever be.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:13:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Shucks, Lockit- anytime, girlfriend...  [:)] 

I am a girl though, FYI.

Any day now, I expect I'll be unable to resist the urge much longer....

I'll book a flight to Colorado, to throw myself down on my knees and beg to be DarkSteven's love slave.... [:D]


LOL... sorry... I was meaning the guys... I knew you were female! I just see something I want to respond to and lack the patience to make sure it lines up with who I meant.

As for that flight to Colorado... I was there darn it!  But I didn't know Steven until it was too late. It is tempting! lol A guy who can make you laugh might convince one to do naughty things... but with me... that lil she devil dominant would come out all too soon!  But if you ever do make that flight... I'd like details! hehe


*chuckles*

Hey, a girl can dream... [:)]


I switched to dom a few years ago, and I can't switch back. I'm very happy on this side of the slash, and I have the best slaveboy in the world. Sweet, hot, obedient... purrrfect.


I do have one really hot submissive fantasy that I still dream of, but it would take three guys to fulfill it.... [8|]


*tips hat to Lockit and DarkSteven- end of threadjack*



DesFIP -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:19:27 PM)

1) Females don't respond because if we say thanks but no thanks we get called: bitch, cunt, too fat to fuck and the occasional threat of death and/or dismemberment. We don't get those charming responses if we just don't answer.

2) What you call a bitch some other guy thinks is his vision of take charge womanhood. You don't like her, you aren't compatible so move on.

3) The NO MEN is because men still write so she hopes if it's all in caps. all over the page they might actually notice it and realize she is only seeking a relationship with women.

4) The munch or dungeon meet is because they aren't afraid to meet strangers in public, they are afraid of getting stalked, assaulted, raped if they meet without friends around. They may be dominant but they're still female and the rate of sexual assault doesn't magically disappear because you spell your name in caps.

5) Some men are into financial domination. Some women will only top strangers in a professional session. All those toys don't come cheap, neither do the Manolo Blahniks or the leather catsuit. 

Don't write women whose profiles don't match what you're looking for. Do read profiles, don't message someone half your age because she has a hot picture, don't write her a list of your kinks, do treat her as a person you would like to have as a friend, not a life support system for your favorite fetish.

And accept the fact that there are damn near a hundred male subs for every Domme around. Whining is not the way to stand out from the crowd.



TurboJugend -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:21:39 PM)

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And accept the fact that there are damn near a hundred male subs for every Domme around.


wow you are lucky... lol
I hope the other 99 are not making lists of complaints



LaTigresse -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:28:30 PM)

Only about 98 of them.



TurboJugend -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:29:18 PM)

lol so..1 in 50 makes you laugh
acceptable



sweetsub1957 -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:37:10 PM)

"Crass, belittling cunt?"  That takes a  LOTTA nerve, mister.  I've "met" some Dommes on this site & They're nothing like that.  No wonder you don't get no thank you e-mails.  Sounds like someone's pissed off just because he can't have it all his way.....try an attitude adjustment, it coud do wonders.  This is just a suggestion, from one sub to another.



littlesarbonn -> RE: Things dominant ladies do on this site that make them look bad. (7/19/2009 2:37:13 PM)

The only thing that ever bugs me is when I get a personal message out of nowhere from someone who is a professional who happens to be trying to drum up business. Recently, I've been contacted by the same woman on the two of my accounts (my other account, in case people don't know, is a joke account and those who know what it is understand why I have it...it's not to fool anyone). She has written me several times on this main account several times with the EXACT same cut and paste letter indicating that she is available to do sessions. She doesn't say she's a professional and intends to charge me, but it's written in that certain way that tells me that the next contact I make is guaranteed to lead to "send me this amount of money and...."

I don't care that there are professionals on Collarme, but I am not their clientele unless I seek them out. And I'm not intending to. So, it becomes unwelcome mail, just like the women who get mail from scores of men, even when their profiles say "no men". My profile is pretty obvious that I'm a lifestyle submissive, not someone looking to play, so it's obvious that my profile is not read by these people when they send out a message to EVERY man that is in their geographical area. The fact that I know my profile wasn't even looked at makes it even worse.

But aside from that, and responding to the OP, what thinks one really has the right to start complaining about women because of their actions that do not affect you? I mean, if someone writes her profile to say one thing or another, the only person who appears to take offense is someone who is active about reading her profile in the first place. Basically, you're stating that you don't like what someone's profile says, and YOU WANT THEM TO CHANGE. What right do you really have to expect that type of compliance? I mean, you have the same right to post such drivel as you like, but you have no right to expect that such drivel gets translated into action by people you're complaining about in the first place.

I find these types of complaints to be destructive rather than proactive and only serve to set up a situation where we're now going to see pages and pages of anger about stupid things. That's unfortunate.



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