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VeryMercurial -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/8/2009 8:46:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavemick63 I just love the housework fetish.As a submissive man nothing gets me going more than doing housework for a Dominant woman.I know it is called no strings housework,but it should be called housework fetish.What do you Mistresses think of someone doing all your housework for you ? Does it appeal to you in anyway? Ah yes, it does appeal to me, you would not need to twist my arm. Can you travel? [:D]

DavanKael -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/8/2009 10:55:58 PM)
You know I like you, Pyro, so I'll allow you to live. :> Lol! :> How are you doing, btw? Blackpearl81: You washed them out each and every time outside then waited for them to dry?! A rare gem indeed! SweetDommes: Protestments are never fun. Mine started doing it more when I was away last year on the weekends working Faire. And, it seems to continue. Good luck with the puppy training; that is not a task that I have ever attempted but I hope that such potty training goes smoothly and swiftly. Davan

thinankles -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 3:20:49 AM)
Davan - the definition of fetish would hardly be the only holdover from the Victorian era! And this goes double for no strings housework. I know that I'm not the only one who watches Upstairs Downstairs like a porn loop. Seriously though, neither of the above definitions have been superseded in standard English, though I am sure that the medical valuations have been updated somewhat. And I do find the idea of purposely imbuing objects and or actions with intense meaning and interesting endeavor. sexual attraction is itself so irrational and odd, why not learn to love housework?

MsStarlett -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 3:52:23 AM)
No cats in my house. EVAH! I'm a dog person so no house boy would ever have to change cat boxes. I do have 3 dogs, one, the Crack Russell Terrorist, inside and to Chow mixes outside. We only have to fill up the dog food trays and change the water about twice a week. My problem is the One Domme, one semi switch Hubby and one clueless teen in the house. We're all slobs and pack rats. We're not really filthy, just always to busy to sweep, run the dishwasher, fold clothes or mow grass, so it just never gets done. We always have some 'Project' going on that involves stuff everywhere. We have what we refer to as a 'tolerable grunge level'... it's sort of that unspoken point where the clutter is ok, but if it starts getting nasty, CLEAN IT! I would love to just get it all cleaned up, then have a houseboy who could come in and just maintain. But then, if wishes were horse then beggers would ride.

blackpearl81 -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 6:37:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael Blackpearl81: You washed them out each and every time outside then waited for them to dry?! A rare gem indeed! Davan Yup. Thats about the gist of it. =o) quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett No cats in my house. EVAH! I'm a dog person so no house boy would ever have to change cat boxes. I do have 3 dogs, one, the Crack Russell Terrorist, inside and to Chow mixes outside. We only have to fill up the dog food trays and change the water about twice a week. My problem is the One Domme, one semi switch Hubby and one clueless teen in the house. We're all slobs and pack rats. We're not really filthy, just always to busy to sweep, run the dishwasher, fold clothes or mow grass, so it just never gets done. We always have some 'Project' going on that involves stuff everywhere. We have what we refer to as a 'tolerable grunge level'... it's sort of that unspoken point where the clutter is ok, but if it starts getting nasty, CLEAN IT! I would love to just get it all cleaned up, then have a houseboy who could come in and just maintain. But then, if wishes were horse then beggers would ride. I'm a pack rat too. Especially when it comes to electronics & pc equipment. Aside from missing a computer case, I probably have enough spare parts laying around to build a 2nd pc. I know how it goes.. =o/

pyroaquatic -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 6:52:12 AM)
Well Lucky... I am a neat freak.... AND a pack rat. Figure that one out... most of my things are in Containers (at one time I had more containers than things to put them in.) and they are HEAVY. I pack efficiently. A second pc? I like the magnets from the inside of the hard drives.... and those reflective discs. Some of them have ferrofluid... no? :D As to how my life is doing... I would check out the I Hate it when.... thread. Things are compounding quite nastily around here. :c

blackpearl81 -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 7:00:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic Well Lucky... I am a neat freak.... AND a pack rat. Figure that one out... most of my things are in Containers (at one time I had more containers than things to put them in.) and they are HEAVY. I pack efficiently. A second pc? I like the magnets from the inside of the hard drives.... and those reflective discs. Some of them have ferrofluid... no? :D As to how my life is doing... I would check out the I Hate it when.... thread. Things are compounding quite nastily around here. :c Yeah, I've been wanting to build a second pc to act as a file/media server. It's one of the many things I've wanted to do to increase my IT "value", and make me more sellable in the job market. I've been tempted to toy around with Linux for the file/media server, and Win Server 2003/08 to learn about AD but haven't really had the time (not to mention money) to do so. I think that practically all harddrives have some amount of FFL in it (SS drives have been the only exception to this rule) A year or two ago, my HD based mp3 player died (creative zen micro) and I took the harddrive apart. Looked pretty interesting, like a miniature turntable. I ended up buying a Lego set, and did a "rave scene" type deal, using the HD in there to mimic turntables. Heh. One thing I've found EXTREMELY useful, is a tacklebox. No lie. I dabble in electronic circuitry, and I have a boatload of LED's, resistors, pots, breadboards, prototyping boards, etc laying around. Tackleboxes are absolutely superb for keeping little things like those organized. Get yourself a Dyno labeler, slap some labels on the front, and wham. You're golden. If it's one of the rectangular tackleboxes, with the two shelves that raise/lower when you close the lid, I usually keep stuff like my soldering iron, desolderin braid, bigger (4x6 inch +) bread/prototyping boards down on the bottom, and the smaller, precut ones up top. Works like a charm.

SweetDommes -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 9:55:38 AM)
The puppies aren't doing too bad, except that they like to tear up their puppy pads at night instead of pottying on them, so their crate area gets quite nasty. Right now it's good, because I just mopped it lol The big problem is that they discovered that we feed the rats cheap dog food ... and they ate it ... and eating cheap dogfood when they are used to quality dog food just doesn't go well [:'(]

MsStarlett -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 3:22:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic As to how my life is doing... I would check out the I Hate it when.... thread. Things are compounding quite nastily around here. :c Sorry to hear that Pyro. sigh I just got my Buick back. It's been dead for almost a year. This mechanic said it was just a bad battery. I don't think so, but I bought a 3 year battery with warranty and if it dies soon, I'll get a new one and take the car BACK to the shop and say "Guess Again!" The transmission fell out of the Chevy. The van is knocking like a drum line. ONE out of three cars needs to MOVE on a consistent basis.

SomethingCatchy -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 3:41:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett quote: ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic As to how my life is doing... I would check out the I Hate it when.... thread. Things are compounding quite nastily around here. :c Sorry to hear that Pyro. sigh I just got my Buick back. It's been dead for almost a year. This mechanic said it was just a bad battery. I don't think so, but I bought a 3 year battery with warranty and if it dies soon, I'll get a new one and take the car BACK to the shop and say "Guess Again!" The transmission fell out of the Chevy. The van is knocking like a drum line. ONE out of three cars needs to MOVE on a consistent basis. quote: pyroaquatic Sounds like it's time for a trade in...

LanceHughes -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 6:34:53 PM)
Talk about "thread drift." LOL! Hey! All you subbie men with a HC fetish... just how much of a fetish is it if you are doing it for a male? And a gay male, at that? Line for them "wot thinks that is hot" forms to my right. Oh, wait... there's not the expected (or should I say hoped for) rush.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 7:50:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett I still think no strings House boys are a myth. I just had another person from CM come clean for 2 hours when he was done he kneeled and thanked me and then he left. he was happy to just clean for Me... I dont think 'live in' house boys exist.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/9/2009 7:55:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett quote: ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic As to how my life is doing... I would check out the I Hate it when.... thread. Things are compounding quite nastily around here. :c Sorry to hear that Pyro. sigh I just got my Buick back. It's been dead for almost a year. This mechanic said it was just a bad battery. I don't think so, but I bought a 3 year battery with warranty and if it dies soon, I'll get a new one and take the car BACK to the shop and say "Guess Again!" The transmission fell out of the Chevy. The van is knocking like a drum line. ONE out of three cars needs to MOVE on a consistent basis. I'm laughing at this post because it sounds like Our house. If its not one car/truck its another...Its comforting we are not alone. I can honestly say I feel for You.

MsStarlett -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/10/2009 3:32:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett I still think no strings House boys are a myth. I just had another person from CM come clean for 2 hours when he was done he kneeled and thanked me and then he left. he was happy to just clean for Me... I dont think 'live in' house boys exist. OMG!!! I think I'll faint! You found one? You lucky woman! ---And yeah, we bought a 'New to me' Saturn when the transmission on the Chevy froze up. My cousin has three cars and her husband is in such poor health the Docs are taking away his license (he's 20 years older than her). So I might take one of her cars off her hands. Her brother, runs an auto collision repair and sales shop and sold me the Saturn. Between my two cousins, I should find something that moves... And I just saw this van in Chattsworth...

thinankles -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/10/2009 3:56:28 AM)
quote: _____________________________ I have to say, that cleaning for a dominant woman and her circle of friends... male, female, gay, straight ... works for me. Dominant straight men might be a bit of problem, because from my own perspective such sexuality is sort of more of the same... uber-straight (no offense)... Gay men or women... no problem. breaking boundaries is a turn on. emotionally, however, I am drawn to strong women, so it helps if that connection is the crux. I guess as someone who has had pretty high powered jobs, part of the turn on would be the ego reduction element. the ultimate would probably be working for a real housekeeping service and then turning over my wages to strong woman (or perhaps better) queer-lesbian couple. I am not sure that a normal agency would even hire me. There is an element of performative genderbending which is important to me... not crossdressing, but rather embracing and learning to love and learning to be an expert at traditionally female menial tasks... sort of gender reparations. Gender and sexuality are an obvious dividing line for many, but I think from my own perspective that class/education boundaries are trickier and more difficult and perhaps an even more taboo subject. I never read discussions concerning cross class relationships (perhaps because Americans tend to discount the existence of class boundaries).

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/10/2009 8:37:22 PM)
LOL... I guess I get lucky sometimes...That's cool You have the car thing fixed... [:)]

pyroaquatic -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/10/2009 9:06:01 PM)
quote: I dont think 'live in' house boys exist. [&:] quote: Hey! All you subbie men with a HC fetish... just how much of a fetish is it if you are doing it for a male? And a gay male, at that? If it is so desired! ^_^ I have cleaned houses for gay males before. After I was finished he asked "Are you sure you are not gay?" I laughed and asked why he said that. Both of us were cleaning his house for some very special friend to come over and he wanted my help. "You are the cleanest straight man I have ever met." ..... Well, I don't know about that.... Maybe obsessive. :] I just like organizing things and making them pretty.

MsStarlett -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/11/2009 3:58:34 AM)
So.... When are you moving to Tennessee?

pyroaquatic -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/11/2009 12:36:47 PM)
....... i'll start walking. since my bike is gone. [:@]

MissDita -> RE: Housework Fetish. (9/12/2009 4:08:19 AM)
This is to the OP I was interested in a no-strings housework slave for some time. But I never accepted one. (well the ones that contacted Me were from out of the country anyway), because I just wasn't ready to give out My housework. I'm terrible in doing housework. So it was something I wanted to control. Only when I found that I had My housework under control and was perfectly able to do it Myself. I accepted a transgender slave girl, that offered to do My housework (here on collarme) 1,5 months ago. It's going well. She really doesn't expect anything in return, all she wants is to do My housework and make My life easier. But when I'm in the mood to dominate her, of course she likes that to. But it sure is not something she expects. She would be already happy, if I just gave her the key to My apartment and let her clean when I'm out. But I just love watching her cleaning, while I'm relaxing. So hot [;)]

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