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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 11:50:18 AM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 11:51:48 AM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 11:59:33 AM   
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If you care to continue rasing your children, you will not have them anywhere near you while you participate in this lifestyle. The dept of childrens servives takes a very dim view of this practice and will make you and your partners life, a living hell. This is not just the play aspects associated with this lifestyle. Your morals and fitness as a parent will be questioned as well.


Pardon my French, but Bullshit.  I have raised three great kids in a household where the practice of this lifestyle was just as "normal" as "normal" is for anyone else.  Two of them are grown now, and one is well on her way.  If you suck ass at parenting and it shows to the point that protective services get involved, yeah, just about everything about how you live is going to come into question.  If you suck ass at parenting though, whether you keep slaves or not is the least of your worries, and for their sake, you should adopt them out to someone who doesn't suck ass at it.

Sorry, but after 20 years I just hate this particular brand of know-it-all-ism.

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:04:51 PM   
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If you care to continue rasing your children, you will not have them anywhere near you while you participate in this lifestyle. The dept of childrens servives takes a very dim view of this practice and will make you and your partners life, a living hell. This is not just the play aspects associated with this lifestyle. Your morals and fitness as a parent will be questioned as well.


Pardon my French, but Bullshit.  I have raised three great kids in a household where the practice of this lifestyle was just as "normal" as "normal" is for anyone else.  Two of them are grown now, and one is well on her way.  If you suck ass at parenting and it shows to the point that protective services get involved, yeah, just about everything about how you live is going to come into question.  If you suck ass at parenting though, whether you keep slaves or not is the least of your worries, and for their sake, you should adopt them out to someone who doesn't suck ass at it.

Sorry, but after 20 years I just hate this particular brand of know-it-all-ism.


Your right on both Your post and lol thanks


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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:13:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		First off, I personally wouldn't put any money on it working, nor would I wait 7 years for someone, but then I admit I am selfish. Second of all, If someone wanted time off from dating me because of what other people said to him, it'd be a huge red flag for me. personally. Any man I would want to be with would need to be secure enough to ignore what "every one" is saying and come talk to me personally to shut up, and quit trying to tank our relationship, because we have more trust in each other than that, and that if they continue to nay say about the women I am dating, they wil have to make a descion, do they want to be a friend or do they want to continue to try to tank and riddle my relationships with doubts. You can't be and be both.
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he has met my children and they adore him, in fact most of the time we are with them. we having been dating on and off for a year. the reason for the off time was everyone was telling him that i was just needing a sugar daddy to take care of me and the kids which is far from the truth. i want to raise my kids myself.  he is mostly all alone in his house and truly wants someone to fill it. i want more than anything to wake up to the one i adore. BUT we both agree not until the kids are grown. its not fair of me to ask him to wait 9 years.

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:15:37 PM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:30:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was just using putting money on it, as a phrase didn't mean it literally, like the phrase I wouldn't bet on it, or don't put all your eggs in one basket. Or don't count your chickens before they hatch.

Don't know if you were taking me litterally or not.


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right when i was putting my money on this relationship. THANKS

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:32:41 PM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:35:09 PM   
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right when i was putting my money on this relationship. THANKS
Tams...you love him and he loves you? You both want it to work and are willing to work it?

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:35:49 PM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:53:04 PM   
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I think that you are more likely to break your heart worrying yourself into a corner than you will taking things one day at a time.  Things may look different six-months from now.  The future will come, no matter how far down you chew your nails.  Breathe. 

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 12:56:15 PM   
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:00:08 PM   
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If you care to continue rasing your children, you will not have them anywhere near you while you participate in this lifestyle. The dept of childrens servives takes a very dim view of this practice and will make you and your partners life, a living hell. This is not just the play aspects associated with this lifestyle. Your morals and fitness as a parent will be questioned as well.


Yanno....you could give the OP a hell of a lot  more credit in having the brains to segregate the kink aspect of her relationship separate from the offspring. That just like telling a non kink couple to cease having an intimate sex life until their offspring are moved out.


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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:05:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistressbinature

If you care to continue rasing your children, you will not have them anywhere near you while you participate in this lifestyle. The dept of childrens servives takes a very dim view of this practice and will make you and your partners life, a living hell. This is not just the play aspects associated with this lifestyle. Your morals and fitness as a parent will be questioned as well.


Yanno....you could give the OP a hell of a lot  more credit in having the brains to segregate the kink aspect of her relationship separate from the offspring. That just like telling a non kink couple to cease having an intimate sex life until their offspring are moved out.


maybe someone shouldnt be mating themselves.......


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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:11:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		now where did my kids run off with the rope again......

edited to add
o hell that was just tacky even for me.......

JK!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:44:32 PM   
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now where did my kids run off with the rope again......

edited to add
o hell that was just tacky even for me.......

JK!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Pfffft.  Not tacky and don't joke about it.  It happens, particulalrly when they decide to try making a hammock out of some sleeping bags...
 
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:52:46 PM   
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Pfffft.  Not tacky and don't joke about it.  It happens, particulalrly when they decide to try making a hammock out of some sleeping bags...
 
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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:55:52 PM   
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Or the time they find your personal leash in the bedroom and want to know why you keep the dogs leash in the bedroom.


So you better make sure to get a dog if you don't have one...to back up that excuse  

Good luck to you...but I agree to the view that I would not wait that many years...alternative might be just to be a bit more decent at times when the kids are around or so yanno

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 1:57:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having read what you both wrote, enjoy, dont over analyse, things work themselves out.

Oh and have fun.

As to the kids, they rarely hear anything more than they would if you were a vanila couple. A gag can help anyway. lol

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RE: Can it work????? - 7/23/2009 2:00:49 PM   
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So you better make sure to get a dog if you don't have one...to back up that excuse  



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