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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/25/2009 9:27:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know many will scoff at what I am about to written and some will paint me the fool, nonetheless; I have been there…a place…a different dimension, a time where afterwards my feet did not touch the ground for days. Deliveries intermittently touching all the senses, a mind body connection that is far more impacting for me then one carving their initials on my body with a single tale.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/25/2009 9:29:08 AM   
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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/25/2009 9:41:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Santoro

I know many will scoff at what I am about to written and some will paint me the fool, nonetheless; I have been there…a place…a different dimension, a time where afterwards my feet did not touch the ground for days. Deliveries intermittently touching all the senses, a mind body connection that is far more impacting for me then one carving their initials on my body with a single tale.


Ummm can I have some of what you are on? Seriously I need the time away and it's cheaper than taking an airplane


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/26/2009 3:09:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		My personal question is...where are all the LOCAL masochistic men. I get messages all day long from men 5 states away if not farther wanting me to use them....I want one who can actually VISIT. Preferably a rather attractive, under 50,  masochistic man who doesnt want any emotional attachment who doesnt enjoy wearing pink panties (those are mine, thank you very much) and would enjoy letting me tie him up, beat him, possibly fuck him, and then send him home. Are there any of those? Im starting to doubt it.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/26/2009 3:39:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		yes there are but the are either in prision.. or married.. of this I am certain... *S*

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/26/2009 3:43:06 PM   
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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/26/2009 3:57:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yea....unfortnantly, most of the clubs I frequent are Leather. I get alot of "Oh wow, your so cute!, not that Im interested mind you, but you are quite adorable"....

Ugh...


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/26/2009 5:06:40 PM   
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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 12:45:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

My personal question is...where are all the LOCAL masochistic men. I get messages all day long from men 5 states away if not farther wanting me to use them....I want one who can actually VISIT. Preferably a rather attractive, under 50,  masochistic man who doesnt want any emotional attachment who doesnt enjoy wearing pink panties (those are mine, thank you very much) and would enjoy letting me tie him up, beat him, possibly fuck him, and then send him home. Are there any of those? Im starting to doubt it.



Thats another full mailbox for you, lol. Shame im on the wrong side of the pond, or you would get one from me too, lol.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 2:20:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH
Yea....unfortnantly, most of the clubs I frequent are Leather. I get alot of "Oh wow, your so cute!, not that Im interested mind you, but you are quite adorable"....
Wow... obviously I'm failing to understand something here. When I look at the BDSM porn, pretty much ALL of the dommes there are "adorable". I had somehow thought that'd be a positive thing especially for casual play partner type stuff.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 2:23:28 PM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		Lol...no..the downfall isnt that Im "adorable" (although I think yall must be seeing something Im not, thanks though...)

The downfall is that I am active in the public scene only with my Leather family..which in my case and locally equates to "all gay male". Ive been the token straight female for about 12 years.....


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 5:11:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH
My personal question is...where are all the LOCAL masochistic men. I get messages all day long from men 5 states away if not farther wanting me to use them...


Maybe the guys who actually look at profiles aren't getting past the picture of you collared and kneeling to present yourself for use?


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 5:18:45 PM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		lmao...yea, theres that too.....

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/27/2009 5:32:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ditto for Me Tammy Jo...I find it very interesting all the different combos and idiosynchrosies of the D/s psyche. I think you REALLY hit the nail on the head tho, and any great Domme and receptive grateful sub will agree. Nice to see very intuitive comments here.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/28/2009 8:00:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe you can help them find their inner masochist.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/28/2009 10:41:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have played with some great masochistic men. We were at a club on Saturday night when a masochist friend walked through the door. We just saw each other across a room of crowded people and we both had big grins on our faces.
Masochists are great for experimentation because they communicate. On the other hand I find submissive masochists often can't communicate well and there is nothing more boring than torturing someone that your getting absolutely no reaction from because their pain level is through the roof or they feel they have to prove something to me.
My idea of perfection is a submissive masochist that yelps, cries and trembles and I have to admit that I have found more females that do that than men.


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/28/2009 4:37:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

My personal question is...where are all the LOCAL masochistic men. I get messages all day long from men 5 states away if not farther wanting me to use them....I want one who can actually VISIT. Preferably a rather attractive, under 50,  masochistic man who doesnt want any emotional attachment who doesnt enjoy wearing pink panties (those are mine, thank you very much) and would enjoy letting me tie him up, beat him, possibly fuck him, and then send him home. Are there any of those? Im starting to doubt it.



Yes, but no.  I get down to Florida all the time, and I'm a total pervert.

I once got paddled so long and hard it actually made me dizzy for about an hour.  I had so many endorphins loose, that I could barely stand up, and had to steady myself like I had just climbed off the Tilt-a-Whirl.

More often, I've met women who express an interest in this, and just don't have the moxy to dish it out.  One woman I know had all the equipment you could name: cuffs, shackles, dildoes, crop, paddles, etc... And could barely bring herself to land two swats in a row.  (I guess she just liked shopping for toys.)  I wanted to yell, "Stop holding back.  If you're going too far I'll use the safe word! "  But then the whole thing is out of character, because the sub is giving instructions.

You want to say, "Use the shackles, Use the paddle, face sit me in the most demanding fashion and quit being timid or appoligetic about it.  If you can't follow thru when you've come this far, I'd rather go play cards."


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/28/2009 5:18:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz
My idea of perfection is a submissive masochist that yelps, cries and trembles and I have to admit that I have found more females that do that than men.


Not surprising. Stupid society

Altho, personally, I have a high pain threshold. I tend to be pretty stoic in the beginning of a scene because in some cases, I'm literally not feeling anything.

To me, the key is to reach the point in intensity where there is no thinking about "impressing" the Top by staying quiet, because the mind is clear of everything except "OMG can I possibly take any more without safewording?!?" That's when the sincerest vocalization comes out.

Now the trembles, those are usually involuntary. Like having to stand up without restraint or support during a beating, and reaching the point where you actually kinda collapse and have to force yourself back up again so that it can resume... That's some good trembling. *le sigh*


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 10/29/2009 4:51:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz
My idea of perfection is a submissive masochist that yelps, cries and trembles and I have to admit that I have found more females that do that than men.


Not surprising. Stupid society

Altho, personally, I have a high pain threshold. I tend to be pretty stoic in the beginning of a scene because in some cases, I'm literally not feeling anything.

To me, the key is to reach the point in intensity where there is no thinking about "impressing" the Top by staying quiet, because the mind is clear of everything except "OMG can I possibly take any more without safewording?!?" That's when the sincerest vocalization comes out.

Now the trembles, those are usually involuntary. Like having to stand up without restraint or support during a beating, and reaching the point where you actually kinda collapse and have to force yourself back up again so that it can resume... That's some good trembling. *le sigh*



I think a lot of submissive masochistic men think they are pleasing the Mistress by not reacting to the pain. I have been in situations when I know I am going to do serious and permanent harm if I continue and yet the sub is just trances out on his own trip of trying to impress me. Perhaps some Dommes do get off on this..... I don't. The more a masochistic sub reacts, the more I will reach in with the shared pleasure and pain. The simple fact is that reaction excites me, unresponsive bores me and actually disconnects me.


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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 11/16/2009 1:58:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		No I do not think it is a guy thing it is a communication and coordination problem. You and I are in different cities, otherwise we would not be having this conversation, I would be yelping through the nylon tied in my mouth :)

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