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Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 10:37:54 AM

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I am curious to see how many share this type of relationship? It is so misunderstood relationship in the lifestyle. I would enjoy others views.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 10:40:46 AM

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Views on what? How do you feel it's misunderstood? In My experience, it's a fairly common facet, at the very least, of many D/s relationships, and tends to be understood pretty well.

And while I probably don't fit the demographic you're looking to hear from, yes, one aspect of My relationship is Daddy/boy.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 11:09:51 AM

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I have also been thinking about this type of dynamic myself. My Daddy and i just fell in to this naturally. I started calling Him Daddy before our BDSM part of O/our relationship even started. We/w don't really do the age play per se but i find myself in other area's of O/our relationship turning back the time and I feel truly connected to my inner-child. It's like re-parenting if You will. I think it's very healing... On the other hand, when W/we are playing I'm his little slut whore.... Then back to being his princess during aftercare. *grin* WOW, so many layers one can have... :)

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 11:16:48 AM

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OP, feel free to do a search on "Daddy Dom" in the search function, there are a lot of great threads about DD/lg relationships here. I'm in one myself, though it was a hard limit of mine until I did a lot of research and heartfelt soul-searching. I realized that I had a lot of misconceptions about it. It took me a few months to wrap my brain around it but once I started reading and thinking, I found it something that was very important to me, that I had been meeting some of my 'little girl" needs on my own, without realizing it. Now, Daddy helps me and lets me have the time I need, when we can. It gets a little hard at times with a child in the house, so we keep it quiet after he goes to bed. Discretion is the better part of valor, isn't it?

There are quite a few of us here in Daddy/girl relationships, were you looking for anything in particular? Or just casual interest as to numbers involved in it?

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 11:51:13 AM

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The caretaking dynamic, when manifested in this way, isn't always necessarily the full expanse of someone's relationship but can be one of a few interactive facets that make up the relationship.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 12:01:40 PM

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It is so misunderstood relationship in the lifestyle

Misunderstood..neahhh...by times I think it is the only kind of relation that excist. Profiles are full of it.
But yes..I don't understand it...but no one needs my opinion to be happy :P

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 12:11:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyssidney

I have also been thinking about this type of dynamic myself. My Daddy and i just fell in to this naturally. I started calling Him Daddy before our BDSM part of O/our relationship even started. We/w don't really do the age play per se but i find myself in other area's of O/our relationship turning back the time and I feel truly connected to my inner-child. It's like re-parenting if You will. I think it's very healing... On the other hand, when W/we are playing I'm his little slut whore.... Then back to being his princess during aftercare. *grin* WOW, so many layers one can have... :)

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sidney

I've seen this around for quite some time and the above explanation for same as well....

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 2:07:28 PM

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WE're a Daddy baby girl relationship, very loosely, in that he's not a typical parent figure I would of activily chosen for the D lg relationship that wuold be ideal for me. but I do call him Daddy nd I have an inner child Who he has no issue with.all though he thinks she should grow in age every year and I am quite happy with being an inner 2 year old, since it's so perfect for both of my needs to be childish, but independant in some aspects. As you age people start telling you to grow up and act your age, so some of the things I like as young me would no longer be age apropriate, but I guess the joy of that is, I decide not any one else what's inner child age aproperiate stuff.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/24/2009 2:26:04 PM

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Mostly "misunderstood" by 'nillas... BDSMers are generally familiar with it.

Good Article: http://www.domsubfriends.com/voye/articles/110/

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 12:07:34 AM

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It is so misunderstood relationship in the lifestyle

Misunderstood by whom?

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 3:57:55 AM

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It's understood only by those that have never taken time to explore it, or have never been exposed to it.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 7:37:44 AM

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Thank you all for responding. This is not a general interest for me. I do agree this is misunderstood to many. I know friends within the lifestyle that just do not get this. For myself, I have felt these traits for so long within the last six month have been exploring, learning and attempting to communicate with anyone to share their thought etc.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 3:43:14 PM

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There are some people who even though they are kinky they frown on ageplay and Daddy daughter or any kind of relationships like these because they think those seeking to engage in such actions and relationships are closet pedophiles or sicko's woh need mental help. Just look around, there's usually someone pooh poohing another's kinks on here in at least one out of every few threads. I myself have been attacked personally by people who thought ageplay was sick and parties to do ageplay were sick, and these were fellow kinksters doing the attacking.

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It is so misunderstood relationship in the lifestyle

Misunderstood by whom?

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 3:48:52 PM

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I didn't fully understand the power of the Daddy/daughter dynamic until conversing with a sub a few days ago. Very deep!

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/25/2009 8:52:20 PM

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@ColonelKurtz - you are correct. Topping - I have not experienced this as a kink or age play. The little one in which I know, this is how she feels inside herself. It is not demanded of her. We spent weeks exploring how she felt inside and the age which she felt she is. There are so many things to explore in this relationship and sex is not one of the topic's.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 4:20:24 AM

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Well I think all of the conception and stereotypes about this dynamic are certainly there well in some if not most cases anyway. But without going into too much detail this sub had real first hand experience at this which has still scarred her psychologically but more so "emotionally". She's not shall we say over the moon about this aspect being played or acted out but she has requested to try it. But she's at least given me so much of a better understanding to the dynamic and what it means to the sub at least. It's more than kink which is there don't get me wrong and it's definitley nothing to do with money like some would like us to believe. It's more of an unconditional love if that makes any sense?

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 4:53:20 AM

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@ColonelKurtz - "It's more of an unconditional love" <- This is a very good statement!!!!....

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 6:30:37 AM

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I would have to agree... It has nothing to do with money.... At least in my case. It's truly about unconditional love...
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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 6:41:57 AM

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Thanks guys. To go back to the money point I made earlier, I'm sure you'll have seen more than once the amount of young girls and I'll admit some not so young, looking for a "Daddy figure" on here. "One who'll spoil me etc. One who'll give me pocket money and spank me when I've cheated on him etc". I mean please come on give me a break. Anybody foolish enough to believe and fall for that I pity.

The unconditional love aspect though, truly has opened my eyes ALOT. It's such an blatently obvious explaination for the dynamic that I feel quite stupid myself that I never realised it before like most others. But then again how many of us know that many people who have been through something like that in reality?

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 7:03:19 AM

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When I was owned the D/lg dynamic was the overall dynamic for our relationship. He was ALWAYS "Daddy", and I was spoiled and coddled and and cherished and punished for infractions with considerably more than just spankings.
I think the main aspect of the D/lg for me was the diminutive feeling I had around him. Sometimes I was even his "kitten", and would curl up on a little nest of pillows at his feet under his desk.

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