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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 2:29:55 PM   
SirAntonio


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Status: offline 		For myself, I have had failed relationships as ColonelKurtz describes.  I taken care of one and was told very much until she felt she received all that could be gained.  One day, I was told she was not a lg or submissive no longer.  That was in the past.

Today, life is enjoyable, it is a pleasure having a little one.  I wished others would take the time out, investigate this type of relationship.  As I learned things about Master slave / Master sub relationship, others could learn about us.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/26/2009 2:39:34 PM   
Racquelle


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Status: offline 		Perhaps more misunderstood is ageplay where the younger is NOT the submissive, or there really isn't a sub/dom dynamic at all.  This is a form of play I very much enjoy and find to be so hard to explain, and so rare to come across those who already kind of get it.

There was a time when ageplay topics were a bit more taboo in some forums because people worried it made them look like pedophiles.  I see that as having eroded over time - so much so that "Who's your Daddy?" can be emblazoned on sparkly bumper stickers in the rack at the car wash.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/27/2009 9:24:30 AM   
SirAntonio


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Status: offline 		@Racquelle - I have to agree with you, this was or to some is considered Taboo.  This is a good forum, where you can share your thoughts, feelings and desires without being judged.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 12:16:34 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		It's a kink for some and others it's not.

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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio

@ColonelKurtz - you are correct.  Topping - I have not experienced this as a kink or age play.  The little one in which I know, this is how she feels inside herself.  It is not demanded of her.  We spent weeks exploring how she felt inside and the age which she felt she is.  There are so many things to explore in this relationship and sex is not one of the topic's.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 12:28:52 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Oh there's judging going on for what a poster says make no mistake, that you're always being judged weather good bad or indifferently this is not a judgment free place. The people on this site, some more than others specifically can be very judgmental.

As long as you know that and don't care, and don't let it stop you,  you'll continue to do just fine.
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ORIGINAL: SirAntonio

@Racquelle - I have to agree with you, this was or to some is considered Taboo.  This is a good forum, where you can share your thoughts, feelings and desires without being judged.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 12:48:37 PM   
LILPrincessIzzy


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Status: offline 		I always wondered what it was like to have a close relationship like the one  a daddy/daughter has.    I know it is concerted taboo to some who don't understand it and by people who don't know.  Like my friends like to joke with me and say "Izzy your just a lost little girl looking for her daddy". I may of never been in one but to see how close they are makes me green with envy at times...-sighs - ( sorry I kinda went off topic here) 

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 1:28:50 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		LILPrincessIzzy You don't need A D/lg relationship to have an intensly close relationship. You can have that with any relationship, where the intention of the relationship is close and loving and fuzzy wuzzy feelings:)

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 1:38:18 PM   
LILPrincessIzzy


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Status: offline 		Toppingfrmbottom I tried it with other doms I just haven't found the right one yet. I have a LG mind set when I hit my space and every dom I have had just doesn't want to deal with the after care it takes....-sighs- But understand that you dont have to have it but I still wonder what it is like.(maybe cause I am younger) 

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 1:54:12 PM   
lustycat


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Status: offline 		I just have to comment on this. smiles. I can understand a Daddy and His little girl 100% especially within this lifestyle. When you are with your one, he is Your life, protector, guide, trusted companion. He will teach you, guide you and help you grow in all aspects of life. You will learn how to be pleasing for Him, what dissapoints Him, and you will be corrected by Him.

Sounds like a Dad to me !!!

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 2:36:15 PM   
Zeknpet


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Status: offline 		It's truly about unconditional love...

My mother loves me no matter who or what I become.

This is how leslie feels with me and it really is how our dynamic is. I'm mentor, advisor, boss, owner, I set the rules, they're final. I expect her to better herself, do well in school and adore primping her for a date with a boy or storytime, or any other Daddy/girl exchange. I've had a wife, have had girlfriends, boyfriends, been in triads etc. Nothing else adequately describes the structure and feel of our relationship.

We don't live in a vacuum though and know the words Daddy and little girl are rife with emotional meta tags. Some people can't get past equating adults adopting words for this use with the same words for child abuse association is a powerful thing for some people.

want to play with an association? Have your partner eat your ass out one night, enjoy it to the fullest. The following night, put a Milk Dud there, lay back and ask for more, see what happens.

Tongue deep in my ass, sure, she's good with that. Milk Duds from a box? She loves them. Both together? Not only is the answer no, but she won't want Milk Duds from the box at the moment thank you.

Welcome to the world of cognitive dissonance.

In the Navy everyone has to go through firefighting classes and drills. it's interesing to see a guy that's so afraid of the heat and noise it incapacitated him from actng even though the solution, a firehose is in his hands.

Some people flinch and close their eyes when the alarm sounds and they never back down from it long enough to hear what you're saying.


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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/28/2009 4:29:15 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		For me I can be regressed or showing signs of regression at any given moment, it's a part of who I am, I suck my thumb always have always will most likely, with the exception of the time where I was pressured t o  stop and I did for a month but I missed the comfort so I started up again. I like stuffed toys I am child like I am very sensitive, a lot of stuff hurts me inside that you'd expect someone who's 26 to generally be hardened against, stuff  like seeing a couple of dead baby birds who fell out of their nest and roasted to death on the side walk, or the sad ending of a movie.

So for me it was about finding someone who appreciated all that and didn't seek to force me to be something I wasn't, and unfortunatly one of my very first doms ever, * we were online working towards real life* didn't appreciate or like those child like qualities. He was always telling me it's not age appropriate to suck my thumb, in fact he ordered me to stop* an order I ignored* One time he wanted me to act out sexually with one of my most favorite and cherished stuffed toys, and for me if I love it and cherish it and it's my favortiest toy ever, I do not use them for sexual purposes, and when I told him it felt wrong, like hurting someone I love very much, and it's abuse of the bond  he was upset that I wouldn't hump my favorite stuffed toy  because he said to. It felt bad and icky and wrong and he couldn't accept that, Eventually he did, but he was disapointed, and he was hurt and he made a point to let me know that I was putting the toy before his wishes and it would be tolerated, because he saw it was a huge issue and a no go for me but it was not in anyway appreciated.

And that's the biggest thing for me, if something feels icky and wrong to me and I do not want to do it, the guy I am with will have to respect that and not make a big deal out of it, And to me I think* some mind you not all* Daddies get that bond that special friendship with an item that's very close to our hearts more than regular doms would. They want what is good for our heart, what's best for our heart versus, what they want because it was their wish we do so.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LILPrincessIzzy

Toppingfrmbottom I tried it with other doms I just haven't found the right one yet. I have a LG mind set when I hit my space and every dom I have had just doesn't want to deal with the after care it takes....-sighs- But understand that you dont have to have it but I still wonder what it is like.(maybe cause I am younger) 

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/31/2009 4:53:50 PM   
SirAntonio


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Status: offline 		I am enjoying hearing from everyone....  It is good to know you are not the only one out there and that you are not being judged. 

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 7/31/2009 5:08:12 PM   
flogger


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Status: offline 		Because of my age, and this kink its perfect to be labeled as Daddy to a slave, but in nilla life, naw, but i sneak it in to the conversasion with nilla girls as yea, am the Daddy type.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 8:43:28 AM   
SirAntonio


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Status: offline 		flogger - just my thoughts from my chair here, it does not matter what age you are, I believe this.  Just from the inside now - this is inside each of us.  I am sure there is a high probability that many of us feel this is who we are, it just took how ever long to unlock we are Daddy's, Mommy's or little ones. 

I will say, I am 50 now, I feel more comfortable with who I am. 

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 11:13:57 AM   
sweetsub1957


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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

LILPrincessIzzy You don't need A D/lg relationship to have an intensly close relationship. You can have that with any relationship, where the intention of the relationship is close and loving and fuzzy wuzzy feelings:)


I do NOT want to derail the topic, but she's right.  I used to have a D/lg relationship with someone before.  Now I have Trainer/ponygirl with Sir & it's just as close.


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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 11:36:17 AM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		To me it's more than just him being older, For me personally A daddy looks out for his charges every need and is responsible in providing for his charges care. I guess it's the same thing a Dom would do, I see articals saying Daddies love their charges unconditionally and only want what's best for them and help them achieve what's best for them, but then again a good dom to me would do that too. And being a Daddy for some is not about a kink, it's about an emotional need. Not every Daddy daughter pair are doing kinky things to the lg of the relationship.
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ORIGINAL: flogger

Because of my age, and this kink its perfect to be labeled as Daddy to a slave, but in nilla life, naw, but i sneak it in to the conversasion with nilla girls as yea, am the Daddy type.

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 11:50:04 AM   
TazDevil


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Status: offline 		I been on line for over 10 years now and have run in to one of every type, trust me no matter what your lifestyle is some one well hate it!

why ones hate it

well I would tell you why ones hate it, but (and all though new to collerme.com) I believe rape and pronfala can't be talked about so I cant talk about it!

why ones love it

just adds other realm of play

why it so propeller

it my guess that woman like to be seen as younger "I am a lil girl", all so they like older wiser men, and men don’t care about how old they seem. but being a Daddy means having more respobety so it makes you more of a Top, maybe that way you don’t see much Mommy Dom and baby boys (think about it)

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 11:58:11 AM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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I love the DADDY/baby girl relationships I have seen...
I have seen healthy ones based on mutual respect and desires matched to daddy's style and subs desires.
These Daddies are an anchor..mentor..lover..organizer..corrector..wise councell

As a MOMMY DOMME...I understand some of it...in that the men who wish to be my boy...or baby dolly wish to be NURTURED..held...have a safe envrionment created for explorations...look at an internal process of the inner child .BE HEARD..
BE HELD...

* NOTE>>I carefully assess those who may have abuse issues as it can then get very tricky with fragile personas.

The MOMMY/DADDY dynamic...can be very fullfilling ..there is nothing quite so percious as your little one looking up with those innocent eyes..

surrendering all

GQ

< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 8/1/2009 11:59:36 AM >

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 12:02:28 PM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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ORIGINAL: TazDevil

, maybe that way you don’t see much Mommy Dom and baby boys (think about it)



Just saw this after I posted..
It has nothing to do with wanting to be SEEN as younger...
and             WHO doesn't see it...??
I get 20 messages a day..from those wanting a MOMMY..
Because you have not seen it does not mean it is not out there.
As well..men may be being quieter...due to stigma...even in BDSM worlds..

GQ

< Message edited by GYPZYQUEEN -- 8/1/2009 12:04:06 PM >

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RE: Daddy Dom & little girl relationship - 8/1/2009 12:20:32 PM   
MissCake


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Status: offline 		If I didn't have enough Mommy requests before, it got insane after I started lactating.  I like being the Mommy sometimes, I like being the Daughter sometimes.  It has been hard to find those who can appreciate that I may like being the young, cute, darling daughter, but do not see myself as submissive.  (I wasn't submissive with my own parents, why would I be now?)  I have had play sons and play daughters older than me - it really isn't about physical age, it's about wanting to grab onto a joyful time of our youths and create magic with it.  I have yet to meet the man who is not still a significant boy at heart, women perhaps less so, but that may be just my view.

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