LaTigresse
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ORIGINAL: xBullx Hi LaT, I don't believe you are saying anything contrary to me in your last post. I'm not supporting a man to be a braggart. I just don't believe dismissing human nature is going to be all that productive. Look how bad the Catholic Church fucked things up promoting that brand of ideology. Your friend... I certainly cannot and wouldn't, argue that point! I think that there is also a problem when we, all of us, try to create boxes for what exactly is human nature. I think that is something that causes more problems than anything else. Toss in any room for evolution and you've got some serious fuel for a mega cluster fuck. I think that there are a number of different types, that are "real men" and similarly with women. What seems to cause the biggest problems is that what is real and true, for one, or even a larger majority, is not the case for all. So, while Mr Big Brawny Protector is the ideal man type for a great number of women, he will not be the ideal for all. Those that he is not, will be annoyed or whatever at the assumption that he truly is, she is just in denial. AND, she may even be hurt, defensive and protective, of the man she loves that she sees as her ideal. Her hurt will come out in different ways, some less flattering to her than others, but still valid at it's core. If any of that made any sense at all.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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