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RE: Strap-on play - 8/15/2009 6:44:16 PM

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Well I know hundreds and hundreds of lesbians who would disagree that it is unhealthy, but if you really believe that, then make sure who ever you hook up with does not care. Personally I think they are great, but I don't use them with a strap on. I get more enjoyment if I hold it in my hand.

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/15/2009 6:53:55 PM

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I don't know if I like the concept of becoming a glove or a puppet. It is interesting. Could one crush a hand with an anus?

Well my Mistress called me a meat puppet once, but she didn't have her fist in my ass, it was hiding elsewhere at the time. I did have to warn her if I was going to cough though. The first time I didn't, she claimed I broke 2 of her fingers.

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/15/2009 7:13:38 PM

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strapon play is awesome

being fisted by your lady is even better i think ..the moment she slides in you with her fist that feels amazing indeed

love the power exchange ...love me being so vulnerable to her

funny how much i crave it now and i love that just been fisted by my mistress feeling i get after she is done with me

the endorphins are exploding everywhere and talk about feeling warm and fuzzy ..i swear her fingers are magical indeed ...and its a great way to submit to a sexy lady either with strapon play ....or being fisted by her ...or both

my mistress has trained me well ...enjoy ...mal

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/17/2009 5:47:56 PM

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OK can someone help me out here? This thread raised a few questions for me. Sorry but here is a disclaimer. I am going to go slighty into overshare territory with this. I have had a strap on used on me. Not alot, but a handful (unintentional fisting pun)of times. My former Domme who I was with for 6 plus years, hated strapons, but used insertables in me I would guess a couple times a year.
If I am reading this thread correctly, anal sex is not supposed to hurt? Even the first time? Or...if you are not someone who is privvy enough to do it on a regular basis? Cause I gotta tell you, it flippin hurts, and it was NOT from lack of lube. It felt like my ass was going to rip open. But....I liked the pain, and thought that was normal. I also got pleasure from it. From what I remember, the longer she used it on me, the less painful it was. Just to be clear, I did orgasm from it a couple times, so it is definitely a mix of pleasure and pain. So....does this go away when you start doing it regularly? The painful part I mean. Were we possibly starting out using too large a one on my ass?

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/18/2009 1:48:30 AM

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From my experience, it may hurt a bit the first time or two, but after that I haven't had any problems with the recipients having any pain. Let me ask you, did you prepare any for the insertables first? Starting with 1 finger, then 2, maybe a small toy or butt plug for a little while before moving up to a more "regular" sized insertable? You also, as the recipient, need to learn to breathe and relax and not fight it by clenching. That can make it hurt. All the guys I know love it and say it's a great feeling. Dunno, maybe it's just the men I picked to do it with?

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/18/2009 8:15:43 AM

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Op I Just want to commend you for doing something I think i have only seen a handful of times in the many years i have been reading these boards.

You posted an assertion, and that assertion was intelligently dissected and dismantled, and instead of a fiery bluster of defending yourself, or an angry "nobody understands me" or even slipping away you realised that it was your own mental stuff, and took full ownership, and even stayed on the thread to continue to learn and discuss further.

Kudos

That was beutiful and refreshing thank you.

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/18/2009 8:19:55 AM

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No that sounds about right....it hurts in the beginnning, for most folks even with lube and what not, but over time it gets easier and less painful with use.

But if you dont have anal sex for a few months, you can find yourself with a tighter sphinter agian and then you just start the anal training all over again....

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ORIGINAL: SLAVEBOY32

OK can someone help me out here? This thread raised a few questions for me. Sorry but here is a disclaimer. I am going to go slighty into overshare territory with this. I have had a strap on used on me. Not alot, but a handful (unintentional fisting pun)of times. My former Domme who I was with for 6 plus years, hated strapons, but used insertables in me I would guess a couple times a year.
If I am reading this thread correctly, anal sex is not supposed to hurt? Even the first time? Or...if you are not someone who is privvy enough to do it on a regular basis? Cause I gotta tell you, it flippin hurts, and it was NOT from lack of lube. It felt like my ass was going to rip open. But....I liked the pain, and thought that was normal. I also got pleasure from it. From what I remember, the longer she used it on me, the less painful it was. Just to be clear, I did orgasm from it a couple times, so it is definitely a mix of pleasure and pain. So....does this go away when you start doing it regularly? The painful part I mean. Were we possibly starting out using too large a one on my ass?

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RE: Strap-on play - 8/18/2009 10:12:33 AM

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love being trained by my lady

if she has done a good job training you the pain is very minimal ..the pleasure is amazing

she has done a great job training me ..funny how much i crave it now

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