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Loki45 -> RE: Cheaters take note:Karma is 4 Bitches (8/7/2009 2:52:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
Most folks who aren't you probably understood where I was going with that.
That said, if you state those views the same way IRL that you state them here, it would indeed surprise me.
Oh I know where you were 'trying' to go. And it's the same road many women before you have attempted to walk as sort of a back-door way of insulting me for my views. I know it full well, that's why I chose to respond the way I did. I recognize it for the snark that was intended. I've seen it before. I don't care what your views are on my personal/relationship choices because I made them for me, not you.
The ironic thing in all of this is that I do, in fact, hold and present the same views in public. It's why my friends have the 'endearing' name "ass" they like to call me. They of course say it with a smile as I've already informed them I very much try to be an asshole. This is from years of being the 'nice guy' and being living proof that they do finish last.
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
All I, or anyone else here, has to go on is the words you post, and you come across (to me), as a paranoid mysogynist who takes any and every opportunity to whine about how badly men are treated in today's society.
So women can whine about the way they're treated in today's society, but men can't? Ahh there's equality for you. Oh "only" the women have it soooo hard, right? [8|]
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
You shan't? I rather believe you already have, more than once. Might as well go whole hog with it, eh?
Well then, since you asked...
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrtWhile I don't condone the action these women took, I can understand their motivation. He's actually very lucky that they didn't do something much worse. Given the nature of humans, folks who make a habit of jerking people around by their emotions shouldn't really be surprised when one or more turn around and bite them in the ass.
...smacks of something I've long been a believer in. Unfortunately, my similar views often cause an uproar....largely because they're misinterpreted. Allow me to sum up (to minimize the hijack).
You said "given the nature of humans, folks who make it a habit of jerking people around by their emotions shouldn't really be surprised when one or more turn around and bite them in the ass."
Let's substitute some words for a moment, shall we? Let's replace the word "folks" with "women" and then you have a very common problem. There are women who make it a fun 'game' these days (or any days really) to go to clubs to dance/drink/etc taking absolutely no cash with them whatsoever with the full knowledge that men will buy their drinks. Now then, refer back to the female comedian I quoted earlier talking about men getting ready for an evening out wondering if they'll get laid while the women already know.
So then what you have is women who will go out, let multiple men buy them drinks and try their hands at winning their affection on into the night, knowing full-well ahead of time whether the guy will or won't be getting 'lucky.' These same women are usually dressed in any number of provocative ways to further enhance their appeal so they can get drunk on someone else's dime.
So now then you have a woman who's drunk, with a guy who's drunk and who's gone broke getting her that way, hoping she will become interested and affectionate and the woman is dressed....shall we say "appealingly" and yet people are suprised when rape occurs. You have a scantily clad woman, alcohol and raging hormones.
Honestly, what do you really expect?
Now then, as I've said in reply to LadyPact, I don't condone such things, nor do I say that the men have any right to do that to a girl. But, alcohol + hormones + toyed with emotions = what?
Would it not be safer for the women to buy their own drinks? To take more safety precautions? If you poke a lion, you'd expect to be attacked, right? If you taunt and lead on a drunk (and now broke) guy knowing full well you're just using him for alcohol.....do you expect a "thank you?"
If a man (or anyone) who toys with emotions (as in the OP) should reasonably expect it to "bite him in the ass" what should a girl who does this in a bar expect?
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