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Politesub53 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 4:45:00 PM)

Waves back.

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See how bossy I am at weekends Ma`am :)



MistressRouge -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 4:45:02 PM)

Hehe the keyboard warriors here are quite hilarious, love it ;)

Topping from the bottom, oozes from everything they post.



MistressRouge -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 4:46:03 PM)

Av it [:D]

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Waves back.

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See how bossy I am at weekends Ma`am :)




LadyPact -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 4:50:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

Hehe the keyboard warriors here are quite hilarious, love it ;)

Topping from the bottom, oozes from everything they post.

You haven't seen the half of it.



servant49 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 5:44:48 PM)

Stephen123456 if you don't want to suck cock and make it clear to your Mistress that it is a hard limit for you, I'm sure she will understand. The whole Dominanat/submissive thing works best when both partners understand each other. But I also agree with MistressRouge that if you are truly submissive you will follow the orders of your Mistress, especially if we're talking about something that pleases the Mistress. A good Mistress will know her sub and where she can take him.



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 5:54:34 PM)

I don't recall seeing forced gristle-gobbling as one of your staple needs, LP.  Some omission, surely?



gauguin -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:15:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

What really does puzzle me, though, is why a man who's broken enough barriers in his mind to become 'out' as a malesub hasn't managed to do the same regarding his bisexuality. 



What puzzle me is are you really so narrow-minded?

Could you try imagine that sucking cock for sub could be not necessarily a sexual act? 



DePubed -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:20:49 PM)

Yes, I am a largely gay sub and I have fantasized many times about a Dom having me perform oral sex on a female. I have listed in my profiles and hope someday to experience this; for me, as largely gay it would be authentic submission to service a female through oral sex.



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:23:33 PM)

I just don't care about most things regarding people's sexual inclinations, gaugin.  Or non-sexual inclinations, for that matter.  If you don't feel that sucking a man's cock is a sexual act for you, that's fine by me. 



LadyPact -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:27:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I don't recall seeing forced gristle-gobbling as one of your staple needs, LP.  Some omission, surely?


See, I have a reason to think this, while said in a joking manner, actually has a curiosity base to it. 

The activity isn't especially on My list of must haves.  I've had boys who did it and boys who had it on their hard limit list.  Not that it doesn't turn Me on immensely.  It's something I've already done, so it wouldn't be an issue for Me to take a sub who didn't provide that for Me.

Again, one of the wonderful things about being poly.  I could always have one that does and one that doesn't.



Bearlee -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:40:37 PM)

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Well, criminie…isn’t that why we get to know our partners before we commit to them?  What beargonewild said is how I see things, too:

“…violating an agreed upon condition set out early in the relationship and would be made perfectly clear that some activities are absolutely non-negotiable. This does not reflect my ability to be a good and proper submissive to a dominant person nor does this indicate I am a poor sub. This indicates that some of my own values/proclivities/whatever are not part and parcel to my submission to anyone.”

Seeeeeeee…that’s why real D/s or M/s isn’t about a one-night stand; it’s about commitment, not playtime [to me].  Folks playing at topping and bottoming have more success saying ‘No’ to such things; doncha think? 

Where is MsBearlee when I need her???  [sigh]

Nice thread, though; right up there with the boys who refuse to wear panties.  Well, or the girls who refuse to be shared; me for example!  LOL



PeonForHer -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 6:56:25 PM)

See, I have a reason to think this, while said in a joking manner, actually has a curiosity base to it. 

Something of a curiosity base, LP - but mostly a joke question and I sort of knew your answer anyway.  G-gobbling isn't on my list of staples, but then nothing really is apart from a certain feeling that I have to have (being controlled, doing what she wants). 

It's something I've already done, so it wouldn't be an issue for Me to take a sub who didn't provide that for Me.

Hah!  Well, since I've done almost zilch, it's all there waiting for me.  A thousand different D/s adventures, any one of which would be a dream come true for me. Just so long as she's not bloody acting the part, that's all.   



atypicalsub -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 7:34:15 PM)

In our relationship this has an entirely different angle.  I have been openly bisexual all my life.  Yes that turns my Mistress on and is one of the reasons she choose me.  Making me suck another man's cock could not be a punishment nor have I ever seen it as humiliation because it is something I love to do.  Instread, she uses it as a *reward*!  For excellent service she will find a well hung man for me to enjoy.  While she has had other sub males who sucked cock at her command, she has also found a new level of pleasure in watching me.  She can see how much I enjoy it myself, and the other man's appreciation of my skills as well. 




LookieNoNookie -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 7:50:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: servant49

Here's a question for the Mistresses out there who enjoy having their subs suck cock. Did you give your sub any warning or did you just spring it on him? I would love to hear about your experiences and the results of both scenarios. Also have you ever asked your sub to do this in front of an audience?


Jergens anyone?



AlexandraLynch -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 8:57:50 PM)

I discuss hard limits as an overall theoretical thing well in advance. If I know overt orders really get my sub going, AND I know that he has either always wanted to try or likes it on occasion, then at some point I'll "spring it on him". But it's not something that I would do if he really didn't like it, or if the other guy involved didn't like it.  I want a baseline consent for sex, apart from the D/s and S/M aspects of play. That's just my mileage on that.

I like watching guys suck cock. I like it better when it's real, not porn. (shrugs) I don't analyze it too much more than that.



pyroaquatic -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 9:10:34 PM)

the title of this thread is an oxymoron... unless one is speaking of roosters. Of course it does not stipulate doing it out of obedience and love for the dominant lady. I am very picky about the females I choose to copulate with.

I am even pickier when it comes to males.

[;)]




MaamJay -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/7/2009 11:09:59 PM)

While I may not have expressed it as forcefully as Stephen 123456, count Me in as one who believes in core values and not trying to force someone to violate their core values. I abhor the whole "pretend force" thing, if you're curious, come out and admit it and I'll see if I can set up a situation for you to try it if it pleases Me to do so. I think the trick is to find the person who shares the same core values as yourself, then it no longer becomes an issue. To give you an eg from my subby side, there's no way i could get into scat. Just not going to happen. Bad enough having to pick up doggy do in a plastic bag or clean out the cat litter or scrub the toilet after i've "been". The thought of playing with the stuff (or worse still, consuming it!) just turns my gut. i don't care how much i adore Master, He could order me to do that till He's blue in the face and it's just not going to happen! Fortunately, He hates the stuff as much as i do so i KNOW with every fibre of my being that the order to do that sort of thing will never be uttered. Core values intact for both D and s!

As far as cock-sucking is concerned, knowing how many males are vehemently homophobic, it is not something I would ever spring on someone with whom I'd not had in-depth discussions about their attitudes and experience. In which case, it wouldn't be much of a spring! It could end badly for everyone and I just can't see the point in that. However, with 2 willing boys, yeah, bring it on, I could very much enjoy watching and directing the action!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



MistressRouge -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/8/2009 1:56:09 AM)

On a different slant, My gay male friend is an escort, and the amount of married "closet gay" that book him is unbelievable, and his main client base.





Bearlee -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/8/2009 2:19:24 PM)

Okay, color me naive, but how does one ‘find a cock to suck’ and stay safe?  Am I to believe nobody uses condoms any more?  I’m serious…or are you just not mentioning wearing the raincoat?



pyroaquatic -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (8/8/2009 2:42:36 PM)

I tied but Naive is not in my crayon box.

Condoms are a necessary and vital part of the equation for me. No condoms = no sex  no matter how desperate. Somehow the cock knows when none is in play for it refuses to rise.

Unless of course there is a dedicated partner or they had been tested. I've never had two dedicated partners before but this is a different subject.

Condoms are good, yes.



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