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LadyPact -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (the setup) (2/23/2010 7:04:37 AM)
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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
It baffles me why a femdom would want her malesub to suck cock. Also, why would malesubs would want to do it? Is it because they're closet gays?
The reasoning behind this seriously elludes you Peon? [8|]
Isn't it blindingly obvious? For the extreme humiliation factor, and for the malesub to demonstrate his complete obedience in an act where the only enjoyment he is assured of, is the enjoyment of his owner.
No, they're not closet gays.
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The man who he sucks off could be gay- he might just be a prop. But if the malesub himself was gay, then it wouldn't be humiliating for him, and it wouldn't be an imposition. The point is for the malesub to be doing something that's outside his comfort zone, for the dom's pleasure. That wouldn't work if the malesub was gay.
It is really strange to me that all the reasoning and the psychology behind it seems so obvious to me, and yet others miss it completely. Whats up with that? Why is the simple concept of a completely heterosexually oriented male, sucking cock to be obedient, humiliated and objectified for his owner's pleasure.... Why is that so hard to grasp? [8|]
Well, for one, because it isn't always true. This is one of those areas where it can be, but it doesn't have to be.
In all seriousness, if we were talking about a male Dominant who happened to have two female submissives, we would barely hear the word humiliation as part of the experience if he ordered one to sexually please the other. If the two were heterosexual, we certainly would talk about her obedience and devotion and pleasing her Master. Both for the giver and the receiver. Yes, we might discuss how it was outside of their comfort zones, but we wouldn't automatically assume that it was because the Master wanted the humiliation factor. More likely, it would be something that he would command because it was a turn on for him and he wanted to watch his two girls together sexually for his pleasure.
In My opinion, the same is true with the genders reversed. There are voyuers who happen to be Dominant females just as there are male ones. I happen to be one of them. Also, I happen to be straight. It doesn't do a damn thing for Me to watch My submissive orally please a female. Being only sexually interested in males, I am turned on to an extremely high intensity watching males interact sexually. It may not be a natural thing to him, but he's doing it as an act of his obedience and because of the turn on it is for Me to watch it. If he is serving Me in this way, it doesn't necessarily have to be humiliating for him.
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