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KnightofMists -> RE: Looking for help (2/24/2006 11:02:47 AM)
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Truthfully, I only added the wisdom is infinite one while I was ego tripping... excuse that. But I do ask why I am getting so much flak? When I learned to drive, I got into my parents car with them, and did fine on the first try. When I learned to use a computer for the first time, I got behind it and figured it all out within a hour. (not the "special stuff", but enough to be able to browse the internet and explain things to my family) I do understand now I am messing with a human being, who, like me, thinks and feels as I do. I am already by nature a kind person, and the one line you guys really complain about was a slip up. It has been removed, so please do not comment on that any more.
Also- I dont expect to find a good slave that is just right for me within 1 or 2 weeks. I expect it to be a long search, and I am wondering if there are any TIPS you can help me with, in the event I find myself stuck. I am asking in this forum only because I am searching for help before I actually need it, and hopefully I will find the REAL comments and answers I am looking for before I actually take on a slave closer to home, literally.
I love my slave very much. For the time being, I want to find another slave that lives closer to me. I'm a beginner, yes. I sound like a jackass, yes. But perhaps instead of flaming me due to my profile, maybe you could have worded it differently. Then again, My profile comes off as strong to a lot of people, so maybe your right, and I'm wrong. I understand that possibility, therefore, I have edited it.
Anyways, will anyone honestly answer my question on what you can reccomend I do? Instead of referring me to links and flaming me? I will look at those links later. I will read your flames to me, but that does not mean I will take them seriously. If you want me to take you seriously, asking me why I want multiple slaves wont work. I cant really explain why, I just do, ok?
Thanks.
This thread I think has the opportunity to turn out to be a very constructive and progressive thread for anyone wishes to grow in the lifestyle. You already have some individual contributing their thoughts that are experienced and contributed some wisdom that you should listen actively instead of defensively.
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I am planning on being a master that owns more than one slave
Why?
Merc asked a very important question. He didn’t ask it to be aggressive or flaming. He didn’t just fall off the turnip truck. Merc has been in the lifestyle for some time and is in an intense lifestyle relationship with his slave beth. He like a few others here has a very personal understanding of what it means to have a slave or be a slave. Each of us that have a slave(s) or is a slave has a very personal understanding that is unique and distinct, but I assure you… it is not
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I cant really explain why, I just do, ok?
This answer is highly inadequate. But, Expected!
Why did I expect it? Because in part your age coupled with what you said in your original post! Your age is tied very specifically to your actually experiences or lack of experiences. Your age is actually of no real importance, but many will look at your age with skepticism, so get use to it. Focus is a nonsense kind of guy. You may not like his approach or what he has to say. But, if you put the defensiveness aside you might be surprised at how good of advice he can give you. Advice that will cause you to be a better you, Disregard it carelessly at your peril Lucky is a prefect example of one who destroys the myth of Age = experiences and maturity concept. You would do well to consider what she suggests carefully. Her thoughts and opinions are born out of a lot of personal experiences or as an intelligent individual she is able to put together common sense opinions to issues she hasn’t personally experienced.
So, get off your defensive horse! Quit making excuses or justifications for your attitude and behaviors. Be assured, that the only person that held to their ideals and opinions at
20 years of age is one that DIED at 20. You are going to change. Every one of us has changed and continues to change every single day. At 20, you have a lot of changes ahead of you! The pace of the experiences you enjoy will have a direct impact upon the changes that will occur in your thoughts and feelings.
I am someone that owns multiple slaves. I am some one that understands Long-Distance Relationships. I am some one that understands multiple play partners. I am some one that understands these things from my perspective! No one else’s!
Why I want more than one slave?! I will give you my answer and maybe my answer will allow you to look deeper into yourself, or at least help you to understand the depths you need to consider. Maybe others can answer why they want a slave! If they have one or if they have more… why they want more than one? All in an effort for you to understand why “Because I do” is not an answer.
My journey to have more than one slave began over 15 years ago. My girl alandra at the time sat across from me and shared her desire to share me. Alandra always wanted to be in a poly relationship, but for me at 24 this thought and idea was just a man’s fantasy. The courage of my girl to share her deepest desire and thoughts sparked a huge domino effect. From that moment forward, all thoughts or ideas that was once considered fantasies with no basis in reality, where immediate thrust into the realm of possibility! Now, I did go our and run to find another or other partners. In fact, I asked myself, after the shock and novelty of the idea wore off, “WHY” do I want more than one! Alandra had her reasons. But her reasons where hers! I needed my own.
It was close to ten years later before I was prepared to involve others into your intimate life. It was ten years later before I had an answer that was my own. It didn’t take tens years to have the answer, but it was having children that I found my answer. It was about “LOVE”. In conventional society, we are constantly bombarded with the concept of limited love of partners. Monogamy rules our society in most aspects. Most are raised with the concept of Monogamy as the way to live a our intimate adulthood relationships. It was having children that I truly appreciated the concept of Infinite “LOVE”. It was having the four of them that I couldn’t understand how one limits their love for one because they loved another so incredible much. It was thru this understanding that I realized that I didn’t limit my love of alandra because I loved another loving beautiful adult person. For me owning another slave… Is all about Love!
It is very important to me that my loving slaves are also connected to each other. I do not expect them to be deep loving partners. But the connection and love must be there. Currently in my life I have alandra, who has been with me since back in 1987. Kyra has been with me for about a year and is currently a long distant relationship. These two are my slaves. I am deeply in love with both of them. Between us there is a lot of love flying around. There is a deep sense of commitment and devotion between all of us. However, it doesn’t stop there. I also have a bottom, denika. Denika and her husband are very much part of my life. Last weekend, we five enjoy a great weekend together at a local event. The energy between us was very natural. Five individuals in different sorts of relationships with each other, but all very positive and loving.
I could go on a long time on this. But, the point is, I have my answer. I know why I want multiple slaves/partners In my life. I appreciate the limitations of myself and others. But, I also appreciate our limitless qualities as well.
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