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RE: breaking up and lessons learned - 8/12/2009 7:51:56 AM

SweetNika

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Yes, that was the impression that I got from reading your posts in THIS thread. Is that an accurate one? Who knows but it was the percetion that I got. Does that mean that you or anyone else has to agree with my perception or opinion of your statements? No, but as you pointed out this forum is a place for us to air our opinions.

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RE: breaking up and lessons learned - 8/12/2009 9:18:19 AM

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we all make mistakes some people are not honest they only know how to play a game it is like greed that grows in the soul wanting when we become objects it is the time to leave. it is really the difference between good charaector and bad the 60s died out let it be let it be it is time to take what you know say sue the bastards dick off for not being a honest person after all you matter here is the twisted thing he will see you with someone else and want ya back or call you just how some people are

sexual addictions wither it be a person place or thing can be just as bad as drug addictions. this person did not respect you wish you the best look at this way the next one will stand by you and may be better looking lol

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RE: breaking up and lessons learned - 8/12/2009 10:06:05 PM

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I am so sorry this happened to you being unceremoniously dumped and having an STD. I would contact an attorney and see what rights you have regarding that situation. If this loser has been with others, then chances are they will have an STD, too. He is not a very honorable person and I would not even place him as a dom.

Try not to allow this experience make you feel bitter. I can understand the anger as I have been there so many times with men. I hope when the time comes that should you find another man, he can be a very supportive person for you as well as loving you.

Take care.

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RE: breaking up and lessons learned - 8/13/2009 1:28:56 PM

HarderToBreathe2

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To shouldhaveknown --

I meant to suggest a book to you by the same guy who wrote He's Just Not That Into You (which I'd also suggest reading).
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Its-Called-a-Breakup-Because-Its-Broken/Greg-Behrendt/e/9780767921961/?itm=1

It'll make you laugh through your tears and anger, it'll help you realize that you're not unworthy or alone or the only one this has ever happened to, it'll help you take your power back, give suggestions on what to do and how to move on, etc etc. It's worth the read and can be read in an afternoon or evening. The best thing about it is that it's FUNNY

If you do check it out, be sure to let me know what you think. I'd recommend running out to get a copy RIGHT NOW, I promise you'll find it helpful. :)

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RE: breaking up and lessons learned - 8/13/2009 4:14:38 PM

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thanks.........I will be off to Barnes and Noble tonight. I do appreciate all the advice and kind words.

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