lovingpet -> RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! (8/17/2009 11:58:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: lovingpet ~FR~ It is just as hard as finding any partner that is truly right for you. It takes time. Also, just because someone isn't a good fit for you doesn't mean he's not a dream for someone else. Patience darlin! lovingpet *nodding away* Seriously I was looking at my past relationships the other day, at the time of split I mostly blamed myself or them, and now I realise 90& of them broke up for one reason and one reason alone, we didnt ever or we stopped fitting I don't think it's a blame game except the impatience to not wait for that better fit. Goodness knows, thing can look really good in the beginning and then really go sideways. No one saw it coming. It doesn't mean you have to wait for "absolute certainty". I'm fighting that battle with a friend right now, but you do have to take time and know someone deeply. The last thing I ever want is an insta collar with velcro closure. I want the good stuff so I'll wait it out, choose quality, and pay the price for it. lovingpet
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