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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 5:16:55 PM

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Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain

If you will be my true dominate, I will be your personal salivate.

I thought you would be my salve and so are we in a Bacon/eggs relationship?????

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 5:22:45 PM

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All the damn time ... sadly even now . I am only out on the scene with Sir and the Family these days, it is very *very* obvious I am not available and yet still creepy Dums try their luck. I don't think it happens in the scene with any more frequency than it does to single vanillas out in a bar on a saturday night, its just their creepiness has a more obvious platform in our lifestyle. "Kneel bitch" is not really different to "get your coat love you've pulled" ...

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 9:44:31 PM

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There's lots of creepy out there. I periodically get tired of feeling like a target and hide my profile till it doesn't bother me so much. I don't like feeling like prey- it starts to affect my outlook on things and I choose not to live that way.

The email I get falls into about any category you can think of. Some is nice, some ho hum, and some completely ick.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 9:53:01 PM

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Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain

If you will be my true dominate, I will be your personal salivate.

I thought you would be my salve and so are we in a Bacon/eggs relationship?????

Attempting to quit hijacking this thread now! LOL

is it bad that i now want bacon and eggs?

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 10:03:29 PM

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<rubs hands together and laughs>

Lemme see where do I start?!

Let's see...creepy. Wow. I had one who kept describing what it's like to be in a relationship with someone and how you feel about that person and the 'new love' thing. And I'd say following so far and then he'd go...good, then you're ready to meet...um WTF?! How did you jump to that concussion (yes I meant to type concussion).

Then there was one who was at least 20 to 30 years my senior and kept trying to use pop culture references to things that happened before I was even BORN. Now...I am pretty well read but some things fall under the 'You had to be there' catagory and all of this references fell into that category. He then got irritated because I couldn't understand what he was referring to. Come on..come into the new millenium with the rest of us! At least be able to use something that happened while I was alive! (insert sarcasm) Yes of course I was there for WWII...yeah I took photos of some of with with my iPhone for CNN....

I've had the non spellers, the uncreative ones (oh my favs are, I like black girls, wanna see my pic?) come ON are you serious? That's the best ya got?

I even had one that was pissy at me because I wouldn't give him a picture of me before I met with the first Dom I met here. He worked in the area of where the other Dom and I would be having lunch and I was already nervous enough and didn't want the possibility of drama. I didn't avoid it anyway. He and I got into a huge fight, which resulted in his being added to my no no list.

Let's see..oh there was also one from the UK, nice looking guy, who so rudely insisted that I get on the web cam and strip for him so I could prove I was a woman. I offered a phone call as compromise..no. I could be using a voice changer. I said ok well fine, nice to meet you good luck and he tried to argue with me two more days via CM..um...yeah.

And my fav..the Dom who took it upon himself to CM me to tell me to get off this site if I'm not allowed to talk to other Dom's...when just a few months ago he was sending me nice emails. One Dom with a side of crazy that I avoided. YAY ME!

I also have a Domme here who messages me still, though it says in my profile I'm taken. She messages every few months to tell me how good she could treat me. I wanna say, no...really you couldn't. I'm not gay and you apparently can't read. Sir handles all my CMs dealing with crazy men but usually let's me have a go at the women. Comes with the territory I guess.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 10:10:03 PM

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All the damn time ... sadly even now . I am only out on the scene with Sir and the Family these days, it is very *very* obvious I am not available and yet still creepy Dums try their luck. I don't think it happens in the scene with any more frequency than it does to single vanillas out in a bar on a saturday night, its just their creepiness has a more obvious platform in our lifestyle. "Kneel bitch" is not really different to "get your coat love you've pulled" ...

You're dead on in this. But my reaction has always erred on the side of angry at the way some people (I say people because I have been approached by gay women as well that were nice some mean) approach me. One of the last few times I went clubbing on a regular basis I had a guy in a club (regular vanilla club) walk up and unzip the jacket I was wearing. I had on nothing underneath, which was obvious, but he felt it was ok to open it up further. I pushed him down and put my foot on his chest.

I think some people suffer from some sort of mental illness and don't understand boundaries at all.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 10:13:53 PM

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And my fav..the Dom who took it upon himself to CM me to tell me to get off this site if I'm not allowed to talk to other Dom's...when just a few months ago he was sending me nice emails. One Dom with a side of crazy that I avoided. YAY ME!

yeah, I've gotten a few of those.

Plus the male sub that kept insisting that my husband would rather have him than me (until I shared the username with my husband, he'd never heard of the sub). Kept saying he wanted to suck my husbands cock.. um, yeah.. dude.. you're in TENNESEE, my husband is in the UK... you're NOT that good.,,...LOL

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 11:29:31 PM

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i've gotten more creepy sub messages than creepy dom messages.

it's like being a switch female automatically makes subs (and most "switches") assume that i'll be more than happy to reply to their "plz subject me MISTRESS" messages. because, you know, there's no such thing as a middle ground.

although, i have gotten some messages from doms wanting me to whore out for them, but i guess everybody gets those.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 11:47:42 PM

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Hiya Twitch!! Welcome to the forums!

Yeah, I know what ya mean

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 11:55:29 PM

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thanks! and i'm definitely glad to see i'm not alone, lol.

i have a theory that every switch/dom(me) here has a secret creep magnet.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/17/2009 11:57:50 PM

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I think most every FEMALE here has a creep magnet.

SO do most gay men.

And lesbians.

*grin*

(ok, I'm sure that there are a good number of het males that get creepy emails.. but..............)

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 1:07:04 AM

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if not, we should send them some! :D

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 1:09:53 AM

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*snicker*

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 5:38:12 AM

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Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain

If you will be my true dominate, I will be your personal salivate.

I thought you would be my salve and so are we in a Bacon/eggs relationship?????

Attempting to quit hijacking this thread now! LOL

is it bad that i now want bacon and eggs?

LOL!!!!!!!!

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 9:36:14 AM

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Gotta love the hypnotoad...

Yeah, I think I have identified creepy on the alt site. I have this guy that emails me and believes he will be the one to make me lose the barbed wire I have surrounding me. At first I thought it was just some romantic drivel that he uses to break people down. Then I started to think that he is counting on it working. He is not my type I already told him that early on. He continues to use small pet names of an ethnic nature which I have told him I detest. And he asks for my number, on every email as if I will eventually change my mind.

Yeah.. I should block, delete, ect. But I always feel guilty for doing that after having begun chatting with the guy. It is one thing not to open the first and just go on with life and another to have become somewhat friendly and then pull the plug.

How much creepy is too creepy?

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 4:30:12 PM

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I know how fortunate I am to somehow dodge the mail bullet.

You know creepy isn't really a natural style for me.. but I"m a quick study and I'm sure I could cobble something together for you so that you don't feel left out....

But sadism fits you just fine. Of course, I know you plan to live on your river in Egypt for a long time yet, but yanno! *teasing grin*

Please, oh please, send me creepy email! Somebody???? Anybody????

<---*raises hand*.....me too, I don't get any creepy stuff either, feeling rather left out.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 4:47:06 PM

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Trust your instincts. If someone is creeping you out, move on. Or better yet go out and find some local munches and meet some people. It is a lot easier to get to know someone out there.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 5:16:51 PM

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Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain

If you will be my true dominate, I will be your personal salivate.

I thought you would be my salve and so are we in a Bacon/eggs relationship?????

Attempting to quit hijacking this thread now! LOL

best thread jack ever. i about peed myself

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 6:14:40 PM

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SO do most gay men.

Looks like I'm one of the lucky ones and get ignored! Rarely get creepy cmails and suits me fine.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/18/2009 7:10:08 PM

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I think most every FEMALE here has a creep magnet.

SO do most gay men.

And lesbians.

*grin*

(ok, I'm sure that there are a good number of het males that get creepy emails.. but..............)

I think everyone females/males.. gays lesbians.. no matter what.. everyone gets creepy emails...

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