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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/22/2009 9:48:36 AM   
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Iwould of found the most disgusting pictures on the net I could find, then say you're so anxiousus to perve some pics perve these.
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ORIGINAL: GoddessImaginos

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Not really. My mailbox is pretty empty actually and was before my little note about my partner on my profile. For the most part, I have met with sensible folks, but I guess my luck could run out one day. What is your selection criteria for choosing to get to know someone or to meet them? It seems like a pretty large concentration for one person to run into.

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Hi pet. I know I'm not a sub/slave, but I just wanted to throw in there: even listing as a Domme and stating very specifically that I'm a married Woman and what I am and am not interested in (by way of example: it says, right at the top of My profile, "NO Dominants, etc. and so forth, except in friendship). This doesn't slow 'em down a bit. One night, I had to threaten to report this one human butt plug because He kept insisting that I show Him nekkie pix, never mind that I'm a married Domme. I've also had several marriage and relocation proposals, and the sort of compliments on My photo collection that were obviously designed as come-ons, I've utterly lost count.
I don't really mind someone perving My pix but that was all a little over the top. Most of them I ignore, unless they really do piss Me off, then I let 'em have it with both barrels.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/22/2009 9:49:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I think sub/slave gay men have to wade through the most crap.  Even more than femdoms who post hot pics.  Sorry, dude.  A lot of horny men get weird, and a lot of weird men get horny.  Not much else to say.


not saying anything other than i love this and it made me laugh, thanks. xx

to the op, i think youre doing really well following youre instincts, whilst at the same time doing youre darndest to give these people the benefit of the doubt.  its a hard balance between trying to be open to different people and different approaches and taking care of youreself.

and yes - apart from lovingpets apparent virtual halitosis keeping the wierdos at bay, i should imagine most of us have our fair share.  you just learn to read between the lines and pick em out quicker.

over time you give off an air of 'i know who i am and i know what i want' and the wierdos pass you by in search of the not so certain newbie arrivals.  largely because they know youll tell them to phuck off and that doesnt go down well with them, as youve discovered.

hang in there.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/22/2009 9:57:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

So these are a few Doms I haven’t met with because they were to out there. Does any one else have stories about creepy Doms –whether you met them or not-?



sometimes you have to examine how you're behaving and the time you're investing in situations that will never leave the confines of collarme. if you've taken a moment to define what you're looking for and maintain some element of flexibility, discontinue the time wasters. as far as meetings and such, it isn't something i'm willing to do unless i have a reasonable measure of comfort and some attraction to the person. of course the physical comes into play when you're face to face, but if he's as stimulating as a snail i couldn't care how he looks. it will never happen. stick to your guns, trust your instincts, be safe and good luck.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/22/2009 10:02:18 PM   
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Sorry to hear you're meeting creepy/weird Doms like that.  They don't do justice to the ones who ARE good, haha.  With that said, aside from the usual "get down on your knees, slut, and kiss my feet" I don't usually meet any Doms/Dommes like that.  Guess I should be happy about that, haha!  

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/22/2009 11:12:49 PM   
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Creepiest dom I ever "met"

"john have you ever been a submissive ever beebn spanked ever been put over a knee bare ass.. ever been tied.. handcuffed gaged bindfolled etc you get the idea.. you ready for it boy.. yes coffee would be fine soon"

Needless to say this guy did not get a response <.<


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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/23/2009 8:45:14 PM   
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I seem to attract them in spades!! I get messages all the time for Doms who demand i do some sort of crazy thing! I get pissed when they insist i call them sir or master right off the bat, (sorry thats an earned title of respect, you own me you get the title) then there are the ones who think that you say hi to them they own you. Sorry no it doesn't work that way. And one even told me to put my son in the foster system and move cross country to be his slave...(he was fucking insane) Its sad how few the good ones are.

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RE: Creepy Doms. - 8/23/2009 10:41:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

I was talking to a Dom the other day and there was something off. He seemed more manipulating than dominant. For instance when I said I said I was nervous about meeting him, he said something like “I knew you would chicken out, I have a sixth sense about these things.” That seemed a little strange, especially because I was on my way out the door to meet him at the time. I told him I had not backed out of meeting him, all I said was that I was nervous. He said that if I really wanted to be a sub I wouldn’t be nervous. I then said that I have never gone to meet some one for the first time without being nervous. He then said alright and I should go to the meet. I backed out because I was pissed at this point and not in the right frame of mind. Witch he then took to mean I was chickening out after all.

Another time I was trying to talk to a Dom on YM. His posts were horribly difficult to read. There were typos in almost every word, no punctuation and poorly constructed sentences. I found myself only getting the gist of what he would say to me. Eventually I just gave up. All his posts were like “Od wnt metm e netx wEen?d”

Another Dom I spoke to, immediately started telling me (first conversation) how I was THE slave for him. He has been looking for a slave just like me for years and I should move up there so be his collard slave. He could send a plane ticket and I didn’t have to bring anything with me. He would keep me naked, shaved and plugged I would never leave the house, and he would (if I was good) loan me out to his friends. This is too much, talking about such things in hypothetical terms is hot but he really was pushing for me to make the move. First he offered then he ordered me to do it. When I said no he accused me of not being a “real slave.”

So these are a few Doms I haven’t met with because they were to out there. Does any one else have stories about creepy Doms –whether you met them or not-?



I sure we all have had experiences that did not work out as we had hoped, but why dwell on it? I am sure most people would rather explore positive experiences

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