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Cunt? - 8/17/2009 6:50:56 PM   
Alphascendant


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Status: offline 		Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?
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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 6:53:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		In the bedroom or out of it?  Very different situations.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 6:56:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

In the bedroom or out of it?  Very different situations.




quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

regardless of the situation?


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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 7:00:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Things only have meaning when they are put in relation to other things.

Situations matter.


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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 7:03:45 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Just called a (fill in colorful expletive here). Yes.

His ANYTHING. No! Just glad to be his.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 7:09:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


If I knew He loved & cared for me, no I would not.  I would know it's "all part of the game."  Although in my present relationship, Sir never uses derogatory terms in reference to me.  He only uses the first term in reference to a certain body part of mine.  As a matter of fact, He scarcely ever "swears" at all.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 7:12:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've turned those words into terms of endearment in reference to myself. If it's said out of love, lust or like, I'm perfectly ok with it. As with anything in BDSM, when done out of Anger and Rage, it's wrong.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 7:19:20 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Master calls me a cunt all the time. I have no problems with it.
I use it as a term for pussy. I just like the term better for it. I have no problem with others using the term either.

I do have a problem with complete strangers calling me a cunt though because:

a) I'm not in a relationship with them
b) It is a denigrating term otherwise

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 9:23:39 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		I like being called names in the bedroom but yes, I could possibly end a relationship over being called a derogatory term in a 'whatever' situation outside of that.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 9:36:45 PM   
MissCake


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Status: offline 		Cunts are lovely things.  Beautiful, flexible, life-giving, resilient...  How could it ever be an insult?

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 9:42:30 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		End it just for being called a demeaning name once? No.
However if he insisted on doing so despite seeing the fact that this made me distrust him, then certainly.

My problem with humiliation, degradation, being demeaned is that I can't believe he means both that and the good things he says. If he says I'm a whore, and then later on says no I'm not, then which is true? And why lie?

It doesn't work for me. It caused distance between us. As that wasn't what he was going for, he changed tactics to get what he wanted.

However I do remember a woman saying that for her slut was unacceptable ever. She made it clear in advance to possible partners. If they chose to call her that anyway, then she did end it.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/17/2009 9:43:35 PM   
SweetPoosy


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Status: offline 		I don't like the word "cunt", I reserve it for just about the highest level of insult towards male or female...but that's me. IMHO, Slut, whore, bitch, etc. should be reserved for a scene, and its use pre-negotiated. But if someone were to call me a cunt, slut, whore, etc out of the bedroom, (and it wasn't being used jokingly)  I would walk away and never look back.

Just my opinion, and my gut reaction.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:33:10 AM   
olena


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Things only have meaning when they are put in relation to other things.

Situations matter.



I like and identify with this answer. A man I love and respect is a man that I know loves and respects me. He can call me anything he wants at anytime even if we are arguing and it stings.

I love and care on the whole not on any specific action of something that does not change my thought about him loving and respecting me. Words in the end are quite meaningless and actions rule the day.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:39:05 AM   
Musicmystery


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Status: offline 		While I don't use it generally, I did have a slave visit who used it to refer to herself and her genitalia, without any negative connotative intent whatsoever. Nor was she seeking humiliation. In her mind, she was simply my cunt, there to serve, in the same sense I generally use "girl."

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:40:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I will use it in the bedroom occasionally.  But never outside.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:42:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, no I would not. Verbal humiliation is a big part of our relationship and I embrace it fully.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 7:15:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		he can call he what he wants in the bedroom...i have no problem with it.

*well...if he called me Fat...he would lose a nut*


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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 7:27:48 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		If it was used in a derogatory term, it would certainly lead to a heated discussion. If it was an ongoing issue, it could lead to the end of the relationship.

The deal with what you say is that you can apologize for it, but you can't ever make it go away. The fact will always be that you said something deliberatly hurtful/mean/insulting.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 7:43:23 AM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		I would not end a relationship over a name.  Depending on the intention behind the name calling, I might seriously rethink things.  But a name in and of itself is just that.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 7:52:23 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

he can call he what he wants in the bedroom...i have no problem with it.

*well...if he called me Fat...he would lose a nut*




Fat?  You?  You're the model for all the Nigerian women on cm that are 5'6" and 62 lbs.!


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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