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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 4:56:52 PM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		I am gonna echo Tulip on this one.  My previous Master always referred to me as His Angelic Whore -swoon-.  Coming from him, it was as loving as hearing a couple call each other baby, honey, sweetie, etc.  So, in the proper context, no.  I wouldnt leave.  The words wouldnt bother me in a screaming match, either.  More than likely I would look at the person and say "Yea, you just realizing this NOW?" 

Words are just...words.  I let them roll off my back. 


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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 5:58:38 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I am all those things and more to him and for him.  I love when he points it out to me.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:01:05 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		I'd like to point out that your boob is ready to fall out of your corset....not that that's a bad thing or anything like that

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:09:54 PM   
kallisto


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Status: offline 		I like it in bedroom, the living room, the kitchen, the dining room, the bathroom, the basement, etc.     As long as it follows His ... and is not used in a derogatory or humiliating way.    I don't think there is any need to say things that will cause  embarrassment to others or to us if we are with others.   Not every one knows that calling me His slut, while he's grabbing my hair, shoving his ..... well .. you get the point, I'm sure. 

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 6:28:02 PM   
Aileen1968


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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 7:27:16 PM   
VeeTee


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Status: offline 		I think it is all part of the understanding....we talked so much before I became his sub. My hard limits were clear and it did not include the exclusion of words like cunt, whore, etc. He can use whatever words he wants with me...and I'll be damn happy about it

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 8:31:23 PM   
GildTheLily


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Status: offline 		I've become desensitized to this word for two reasons:
1) I've read Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Inga Muscio, where the word is used incessantly throughout as a reclamation for women.
2) My owner is British and it's as common as tea and crumpets to them.

As many have stated, it's the intent behind the word that matters.  If I knew he was using it to deliberately hurt me, it would because of the maliciousness behind his actions.  The word itself is just a shell.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/18/2009 8:56:41 PM   
KCalli


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Status: offline 		In the bedroom, not a problem, is not at all derogatory to me. In public, not a good thing, and has never happened, Not even close.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 7:15:04 AM   
bifunlady


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Status: offline 		Years back I got so use to being called a slut ( his term of endearment ) that I actually had this email addy longleggedslut@........

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 7:51:18 AM   
Eigenaar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


Yes, obviously, like there are submissive virgins telling me they would like to be or like being my whore and slut and use these terms for themselves which I do not understand when they are virgin and add they only want to have sex with their master. Like I do not understand why a lot of submissives have in their profile they are drawn to the dark and evil and want to be someone's filthy bitch and so on and even that they (want to) hate themselves. I also experienced slaves wanting to kill me for calling them bitch, which to me is just another word for slave.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 7:56:55 AM   
whiteslavebitch


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Status: offline 		In scene, MasterK can do or say pretty much anything, it just makes me swoon. If he were to talk to me like that out of scene, or in public, I would have serious issues with it.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 9:20:17 AM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


no i wouldn't but the words don't have a derogatory overtone to me and i generally find them arousing. of course the context is a consideration as well and whether they're utilized in a sexual manner or during a fit of anger would come into play. if it involved a situation where they were never uttered save in response to poor behavior or general displeasure i'd probably have an issue. but if it merely gets him off to say it while we engage i would be okay.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 1:06:58 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I'd like to point out that your boob is ready to fall out of your corset....not that that's a bad thing or anything like that


I have been tracking her pic in dozens of posts and the damn boob still hasn't fallen out.  It seems stuck. 


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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 1:09:10 PM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		Context, like timing, is everything.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 1:45:50 PM   
gentlemanprince


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Status: offline 		I love it when my Lady uses those names for me in the bedroom. They are terms of endearment.

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RE: Cunt? - 8/23/2009 2:52:15 PM   
Golden614


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Status: offline 		Like everyone else, I'd have to say there is a time and a place. However, I would also have to say that regardless of time and/or place, I would have to question someone that would leave a solid relationship specifically because of some name calling. Even during an argument (unless it is an on-going issue that had been discussed and still continues) I don't think someone slipping up in a moment of anger is grounds for telling them where to shove it. We're all human and will all always be guilty of mistakes. Master has never called me any names outside of the bedroom, but even if he did because he lost control for a second, I would still feel the same about him. That is not to say I wouldn't expect a sincere apology afterward...

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RE: Cunt? - 11/2/2009 7:16:46 PM   
midtnsub4use


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Status: offline 		heavens no.  call what you will

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RE: Cunt? - 11/2/2009 7:18:55 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Used lovingly, no problem with those terms.  Think it's hot to be called names in that fashion. 
Used as a degradation, no way. 
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RE: Cunt? - 11/2/2009 7:21:56 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		No matter the tone of the moment or the context, location, etc, I know the motivation behind any such term my partner would choose to use. He is not limited in what he may call me. It all means the same thing... HIS. One term that I have trouble with is "it". So I'm a work in progress......

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RE: Cunt? - 11/2/2009 7:45:47 PM   
sincityprincess


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

Not only would i not end a relationship over it....but i find it arousing. There's something really hot about being called something that should make me feel uneasy and humiliated, but knowing that the connotation really means "you belong to Me, and so even if I call you this demeaning and offensive word, it is a sign of my great care and decision in making you Mine". It's a direct reflection of the nature of a dynamic.

Cunt, whore, slut, whaetver He chooses really, it all means "His".


I agree with Ironitulstahp 100%. I would like it.

I knew a Dom who never ever called me by my real name, he called me bitch or slut and very often cunt. I reveled in being objectified and reminded of my purpose for him, and there was something intoxicating about the way he so casually used a word that has such a strong meaning attached to it and that innately makes you a little uncomfortable. The "uncomfortableness" of it is precisely what makes it so damn appealing. There are actually even far worse names that would get me even hotter if I had a Master who called me them...but again that is because I like to be used as and referred to things that are merely for sexual pleasure. If that was something that had been discussed and agreed to up front, I would be terribly offended if it were used, but not because of the meaning of the word, but because of the disrespect inferred by doing so.

However, there is one word that I absolutely abhor being called and that is "asshole". I don't know why but it seems so unbecoming for a girl to be an asshole. Silly, yes, but I don't find it sexy or enticing at all.

But as others have said, a word is just a word and it only has the power that you give it. There might be people who would be offended to be called an eggplant, if an eggplant to them was the most offensive thing they could think of.

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