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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 3:40:34 AM   
Elizabeth666


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Status: offline 		When He calls me a Whore or a slut, it's all part of the scene. The only time the word Cunt came up was when He was spanking me as punishment (i was smacking His ass when He would walk by, so He grabbed me, flipped me over and started spanking me) after each smack i had to say "Thank you Sir, i am a dirty cunt who deserves a spanking" and He didn't stop until i was able to say it without gasping in pain first.

Anyway, the names are only used in the bedroom, if He uses them out, it's usually because we are talking about a play session.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 4:19:16 AM   
elleX


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Status: offline 		cunt ; never from a stranger
it is only the privilege of man who is very intimate with me, and when we are just the 2 of us .

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 6:07:18 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		We had an argument about some stupid thing and He called me a dickhead and i called Him an ignorant cunt.... and then we burst out laughing

He doesn't call me (His) My cunt... i would get a disturbing picture in my head... just cunt will do

and elleX has got a bigger gravity problem than Aileen it seems...

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 6:55:54 AM   
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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 7:15:01 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?

<disappointed>

I thought this was going to be a thread about Noel Edmonds

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 8:37:37 AM   
Hierodule


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Status: offline 		I love the word cunt. Master hates it. He won't use it. And won't let me use it.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 8:40:30 AM   
Drifa


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ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


My lady cherishes me and we treat one another with mutual respect and courtesy in public. At home, in general, I tend to answer "yes ma'am" and assume a much more obviously submissive role. In the bedroom, she can call me anything she wants - being talked to dirty is a big turn on. So, I'm a queen in public, a lady in the living room, and a slut in bed! Aside from the bedroom, if we are out in public but have a bit of privacy, my Lady may lean over and whisper in my ear something about "Just wait until I get you home, you cunt" or whatever as a promise and touch of foreplay. She never fails to get a shiver of delight and anticipation out of me doing that.

I do have a friend for whom the word "cunt" is a trigger. It would essentially be on her blacklist no matter what the situation. I think this is entirely fair and reasonable. Each individual is different, and each relationship dynamic is different. What *I* enjoy can be psychologically damaging to someone else. This is why it is so incredibly important to talk about expectations and limits early and often.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 2:39:24 PM   
krazykatelyn


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Status: offline 		If one is willing to end an entire relationship immediately just because they were called a name then I'd assume it wasn't a solid relationship to begin with

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 3:21:44 PM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


As an adult you would think that you have the educational ability to us a more appropriate word

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 4:23:41 PM   
whiteslavebitch


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ORIGINAL: Acer49


quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


As an adult you would think that you have the educational ability to us a more appropriate word


Well, generally it has nothing to do with education. Many Doms are highly educated and still enjoy the humiliation factor of using these terms.

For me I consider it situationally appropriate for MasterK to call me whatever he likes. Out of scene, he always treats me with respect. In scene, as I've said before I love it when he uses "derogatory" terms.

What words would you consider "more" appropriate to the situation?

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 4:31:11 PM   
mnottertail


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ORIGINAL: Acer49


quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


As an adult you would think that you have the educational ability to us a more appropriate word



my little possessor of a mons veneris, and other moving parts, seems like it doesn't have the urgency that cunt does, I am afraid....

maybe it is just me.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 5:02:16 PM   
Aileen1968


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Acer49


quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


As an adult you would think that you have the educational ability to us a more appropriate word


Ahhhh. It appears as if you have SUTB syndrome. A shame.
He's pretty damn smart and calls me his cunt. I take it as a compliment.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 5:40:46 PM   
afterforever


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Status: offline 		I like what TfB said. I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who used such terms in a derogatory manner, so whenever xhe did use them, it would be all part of the kink and fine and dandy with me. Even in the heat of an argument I would be seriously less than impressed by anyone who sank to genuine name-calling.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 6:02:17 PM   
lucylucy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ncbabe

I'm his. He can call me what he likes, when he likes.


What she said.

Also . . . I happen to love the word cunt. I am educated and could come up with a lot of other words for cunt, so it’s not a matter of lack of education or limited vocabulary. I just love the earthy, guttural sound of it. Like “fuck.” I’m sorry, but “copulate” just doesn’t do it for me. Sure, fuck and copulate have the same denotations, but the connotations make all the difference.


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RE: Cunt? - 11/3/2009 8:29:58 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		Grins and calls out.."Ya sille little cunt" now that has never been a problem as usually I am either smiling or out right laughing or wiggling my eyebrows....snickers or...I've got my flogger in one hand and the rope in the other..LOLOL

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RE: Cunt? - 11/4/2009 2:31:26 AM   
HisBestGirl


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Status: offline 		Agree with littlewonder- love the word cunt. More people should embrace it.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/4/2009 2:45:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		i don't like it....i also don't make a big deal about it. (sticks and stones and all that)

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RE: Cunt? - 11/6/2009 4:18:04 AM   
AnnaOfAramis


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To me the word itself is not an issue, but the context is. It's one thing to be called it in terms of "my cunt" or as some people who like humiliation have said, they use it in their dynamic as a tool. It's another thing when it's out of control verbal abuse. Would it make me end a relationship on one instance alone? No, people lose their tempers all the time and say things they don't mean. But if a pattern starts to emerge and I'm starting to feel bad about myself, it would start eroding the foundation of trust.

well wishes,
anna

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RE: Cunt? - 11/6/2009 11:10:48 AM   
afterforever


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Status: offline 		Trying to decide if I like the word itself now, without any positive or negative connotations.

Cunt. Cuuuuuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnt. CUNT! Cuntcuntcuntcunt.

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RE: Cunt? - 11/6/2009 4:28:20 PM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alphascendant

Are there any submissive females that would end a relationship if they were called a cunt, slut, whore, or any terminology demeaning to women regardless of the situation?


Hell yeah!!! I really really really really despise that word, though the others.... I dont know if I would be so hasty about but the one that named this thread... I wont use it, I wont type it, its a word my mother forbit and it rubbed off on me. So yeah if it was used and he didnt know Id tell him, cant get too mad if he didnt know it was a hot button, but if he continued to use it in play or in anger, it doesnt matter witch, I would leave because it shows total lack of respect.\

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