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Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:22:53 AM   
dapony16


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Status: offline 		I have thought about this for some time, and it occurs to me, I owe my brethren out here the following thoughts.  When a sub approaches you, and you reply, only to have them delete that response, unread; I would have liked to know, in advance, that ANY conversation with them would be a waste of my time. 

To that end, I submit to you that we should let each other know when we have such a time waster on here.  What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?

T
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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:24:55 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Are you somehow under the impression that only Dom/mes get their time wasted?

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:25:41 AM   
SirMIkeSD


Posts: 613
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From: San Diego, Ca
Status: offline 		You are new here LOL use the search function and see what you find on no reply to messages.

Mike

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:28:15 AM   
YoursMistress


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Status: offline 		hmm, so like a Dom to want to come in here and take charge.

yours


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:29:10 AM   
IrishMist


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What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?

It's hard to say anything when the laughter won't stop.





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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:32:18 AM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dapony16

I have thought about this for some time, and it occurs to me, I owe my brethren out here the following thoughts.  When a sub approaches you, and you reply, only to have them delete that response, unread; I would have liked to know, in advance, that ANY conversation with them would be a waste of my time. 

To that end, I submit to you that we should let each other know when we have such a time waster on here.  What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?

T



I say it's the internet.  Deal with it.


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:34:07 AM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: dapony16

I submit to you



That's really sweet but.......................

chia* (the pet)


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:34:10 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dapony16

I have thought about this for some time, and it occurs to me, I owe my brethren out here the following thoughts.  When a sub approaches you, and you reply, only to have them delete that response, unread; I would have liked to know, in advance, that ANY conversation with them would be a waste of my time. 

To that end, I submit to you that we should let each other know when we have such a time waster on here.  What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?

T



Hmmmmmmm, what say I...........




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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:36:16 AM   
CarrieO


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ORIGINAL: dapony16

When a sub approaches you, and you reply, only to have them delete that response, unread


Does this happen to you in RL or only online?  I believe you posted a similar complaint a couple months ago.  Maybe its time to turn off the computer?

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 7:39:59 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I can see if my cmails get read or not,  How can you tell if they've been deleted?

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 8:25:01 AM   
canofsoup


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Status: offline 		I read every message that gets through my filters.   Very few of the messages that make it through comes from an author who has taken the time to read and comprehend what I seek in a partner and in correspondence.    Those that pique my interest will receive a response.   Others get deleted.   Emily Post will probably shake her finger at me, but that is ok.



< Message edited by canofsoup -- 8/19/2009 8:26:58 AM >

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 8:45:28 AM   
peppermint


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To that end, I submit to you that we should let each other know when we have such a time waster on here. What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?


This link explains why Collarme allows no blacklists.  Perhaps you should read it and picture yourself as being unfairly placed upon a public blacklist.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 8:46:43 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dapony16

To that end, I submit to you that we should let each other know when we have such a time waster on here.  What say you my fellow Doms and Dommes?

T




It would just waste too fucking much of my time.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:42:45 PM   
dapony16


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Status: offline 		Fair point.  Thank you.

T

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:43:57 PM   
dapony16


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Status: offline 		Pitiful, just plain pitiful.

T

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:44:59 PM   
dapony16


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Status: offline 		carrieo,

Opinions vary, and you are entitled to yours.  Thanks.

T

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:45:59 PM   
dapony16


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Status: offline 		thank you peppermint. 

T

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:50:26 PM   
VampiresLair


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Status: offline 		Honestly, I think calling someone a time waster because they didnt return your response is jumping the gun a bit. They messaged you, but perhaps there is a reason that they cannot reply afterwards. A Dom who isnt fond of them talking to others? A new rules, or punishment in place for a misstep? If this is happening OFTEN then Id look closer at the only common denominator... you. IF it happens just once in a while, then maybe you are overreacting. After all, just how much time are you wasting on a single return email? 2 minutes? 5? It isnt like they are stringing you along for a month or more just to drop you closed. Its one message.

DV


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:51:25 PM   
cornflakegirl


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Status: offline 		I thought this was going to be a thread about fun games and silly things online to waste my time so I don't actually clean my house or get around to doing any work or anything.

*sad*

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:52:41 PM   
Aylee


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Status: offline 		Damnit!  I thought that this would be about those mind-boggler things.  What a waste of time this was!

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