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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/26/2006 7:31:49 AM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

Those who are in their 60's and in the lifestyle do not waste their time being on -line.

[snip]

I am onl;y going by my own experience and this is my opinion.



What, in your opinion then, am I?

Admittedly, online isn't the best way to meet play partners, but some of us old farts have all the play partners we need and the online venue is appreciated for other qualities

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 12:08:55 PM   
MissDeb


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Status: offline 		My dear one, I am 71 and still an active Dom; My wife is now 72 and She has shown no signs of quitting. It is just that at this age, often the greatest pleasure comes from sharing what we have learned and seeing those young to the lifestyle grow in wisdom ... Master Tau...

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 1:16:18 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Fantastic to hear from you and thank you for sharing! i bet you both have so much insight to offer. i look forward to reading future posts from you :)

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 2:38:22 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

My dear one, I am 71 and still an active Dom; My wife is now 72 and She has shown no signs of quitting.


That's wonderful, i wish you many more years.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 4:16:07 PM   
Veryleggyredhead


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Status: offline 		I am 48 and enjoying life in a way I didn't at 20 and 30, just keeps getting better and I fully expect it to continue to, smiles......

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

It seems the majority, if not all, of posters on BDSM, D/s, M/s discussion boards, chat rooms, etc., are in the 20-something to 50-something range.

What happens when we age? Naturally artheritis may make kneeling difficult...our aging bodies may prevent us from doing much of what we do now...but...is anyone over 60 out there? Are they just not online because of the generation gap and technology? Does the Dominance/submission fizzle out?

Ahh the things i speculate when alone at night...


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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 4:34:18 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		i am 52 and did not find D/s until i was 50; i could care less; i was late for everything else, why not this?

candystripper

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 5:08:56 PM   
Submotive


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Status: offline 		Yup - i'm 58, feeling great - actually younger than i have in years.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 5:24:50 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HoosierScorpio

Those who are in their 60's and in the lifestyle do not waste their time being on -line.
I know one Female Dommies who does not do chat like this generation does because they see no need for it. She has been in it and living it long before there was such a thing as an internet to hook up with. She does use it to talk with those who she is already been talking with them as a way keeping in touch with them. The only way to meet some one who is older and in the lifestyle is by attending local munches and events such as beat me in Saint Louis. I am onl;y going by my own experience and this is my opinion.




~ Looks about and pinches myself to see if I'm real. Looks at Johm Warren and grins ~ I guess that all those of us 60 and over, are just figments of this dude's immagination or are we his worst nightmare????

Hey HoosierScorpio, what makesyou think that us Old farts can't be in the lifestyle and on line at the same time.. I spend several hours on line dailt counselling as well as here annnnnnnnnnddddd dude the internet is where I keep in touch with mt peers in the Gorean Lifestyle and my Lakota family..............

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RE: Age and this way of life - 2/27/2006 8:16:38 PM   
MissHarlet


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From: El Paso , TX US
Status: offline 		Im 58 and have no intention of leaveing this lifestyle anytime soon. Like many others have stated here, ageing and physical changes mean changes in positions and how I do things.
I have visions of being in a motorized wheel chair and going round and round in it with flogger in hand in order to flog the sub that tied themself up cause I couldnt reach the eyebolts <EG>

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RE: Age and this way of life - 3/29/2006 7:06:23 AM   
Heinz


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Status: offline 		I am 58 and active for 25 years, so W/we all are getting older.
I found ut that in the "real" BDSM scene age does not matter.!!!

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RE: Age and this way of life - 3/29/2006 7:24:44 AM   
wild35


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Status: offline 		I m only 38 in  Jacksonville,NC.But I would like ot find a Mistress to take and train me the proper way.I really think this would be good for all to learn from experienced ones.wild35126738 on yahoo

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RE: Age and this way of life - 3/29/2006 7:53:00 AM   
fullofgrace


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From: fl, usa
Status: offline 		i am 18, He is 53, and i was really His "introduction" to D/s, so to speak - it was my interest and slight background in it that led us to explore it together. and actually i'm the one with more arthritis and musculoskeletal problems, and i'm the youngest! hehehehe. He is pretty patient with me when my body isn't cooperating, and when His medical problems act up, i'm more concerned with getting Him to go to the doctor than having Him beat me any harder...so far, my physical issues have probably affected our "kink" more than His. i really don't see aging affecting us too much...i worry about what i'll do when He's gone, but we talk about that. i can't imagine Him not going strong in 10 or 15 years, but if He isn't, well, i'll still be His submissive...the physical aspect of our relationship really isn't the most important part to me (though it IS wonderful).

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RE: Age and this way of life - 3/29/2006 8:37:19 AM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		All I have found is that at my age(check the profile), no one wants an older submissive. But, if I were Dominant, I wouldn't have any problems finding my own sub. I am active in my community here. In fact, I am a manager and DM in the club and a DM in another group. I have been told I am too Dominant, intimidating and it's because I'm a DM. I get a few emails from DOms in other areas but I can't relocate. To me, age has hurt me in those ways. As for age period, I am better than I ever was and will only get better.

Iron Bear, I just love you and all you have to say. You are pure enjoyment..

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Age and this way of life - 3/29/2006 8:44:03 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Hang in there, my Master's slave prior to me is one year up on you.  :)  The reason they are apart has nothing to do with her age.   i can understand where there might be more challenges as we age, but i urge you to remain hopeful.   For many (i would hope for most), it is what a submissive has to offer from the inside, rather than physical beauty and a number.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 5:50:40 AM   
rivenmoon


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Status: offline 		yummmy mature men.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 5:53:16 AM   
rivenmoon


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

.......   i can understand where there might be more challenges as we age, but i urge you to remain hopeful.   For many (i would hope for most), it is what a submissive has to offer from the inside, rather than physical beauty and a number.



I second that opinion.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 6:07:36 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		I don't know...I get more emails from 30 something doms wanting an older woman than I do of doms my own age.  I haven't noticed that my age has hurt me at all.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 4:46:00 PM   
RickandTina


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Status: offline 		Well, we are 23 years apart in age. We met in the lifestyle several years ago when we were both in less than functional relationships, became friends then became closer friends. The progression to lovers and Master/submissive both happened pretty much simultaneously as a true, real world D/s relationship was what we both wanted and needed to complete our lives. I’m 54 going on 35, and she’s 31 going on,, well,, depends on the day but she’s as mature as I anyway. We go to the gym together, enjoy pretty much all of the same activities, and our "compatibility factor" is about 101%. The only "issue" I have is that she truly looks so much younger than her 31 years, you know, when the salesman in the boot department walks up, "C’mon Dad, get her a pair, they’re all the rage"...  Yup, did happen,,, (as did her spanking when we got home). But the fact is, we fit together so well, in so many ways, that we have chosen to cope with any issues age might throw at us and just enjoy our life together.

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 4:57:28 PM   
murmur


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Status: offline 		Well, i dont know about you...but young people who are feeling old are either
-the ones who happens to have what we call an *old soul*
-the ones who had a tough life or childhood
-the boring ones (hope you're not in those one!) with not imagination
-those who couldnt grow up with childrens their age, but middle-age people (i'm not pointing at anyone here!!! but all young ones i happened to get friendly with and who grew up with not childrens but growns-up tend to feel older in their young age.




Am i right? Am i wrong? bah...Just my opinion... 

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RE: Age and this way of life - 4/22/2006 5:10:21 PM   
MasterR001


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Status: offline 		Getting older might have slowed me down a bit, but has not changed intrest or participation in BDSM.

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