scarlethiney
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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW I would be in a pickle of a fix if atheism were a religion in anything but a legal sense, because I have faith in a number of things, but I don't really even debate the issue of "is there a God", because, to me, it is a completely pointless discussion. I don't "jump through hoops" to not believe. In general, I don't even discuss it. I certainly don't hang jewelry around my neck saying "Atheist", cover my walls with pictures of atheist 'saints' and 'prophets', or spend entire days listening to someone tell me why I should live my life a certain way to be a 'good atheist', then just do as I please as soon as I step out the door of that special chamber and out of sight of all of the other people with me in that chamber who might "judge" my worth as an atheist. My ethical foundation does not depend on some 'great being' disciplining me to -make- me behave or 'do the right thing', and yet, I manage to strive to be just, ethical, honest, and dedicated, just because one of the things I -do- believe in is that I am responsible for my own decisions about how I treat other people. attempting to invalidate our experience... that tends to incite hostility and a bit of defensiveness, in my experience. Dame Calla This is the first thing in this thread that makes sense................to me. Are not beliefs really about perspective? and more than that, the experiences that shaped that perspective? So yes, a group of people can agree that they believe in God, Buddha, tinkerbell, or none of those, but ask those same people to define this belief and you will get a host of different perspectives based on that persons experience. Our beliefs/ perspective are often re-defined the more we learn. With regard to jumping through hoops, you could say that any one who has a strong belief will undoubtedly staunchly support that belief and can be seen by those who do not follow that belief as "wacky". So would you then say that all CM forum posters jump through hoops to maintain the position that they are kinky and if you read the posts and responses to posts on here it seems to attract a lot of angry people? It does seem so, but it has nothing to do with Kink, it has everything to do with perspective and opinion.
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