Musicmystery
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So, the question this thread asks is simply whether or not your life has led you to believe in some greater wisdom or providence that is fundamentally good and which, if trusted, will guide your steps toward what is best for you, and bring you stength and comfort in time of need -- without defining or interpreting it further. Hi Kirata, No--it fact, it has led in then opposite direction, away from that, if we're looking at a providence. While I'm fond of many beliefs, many of which I've held when younger, I regretfully can find them only wishful thinking, without solid basis, even with evident contradiction. I do, of course, nonetheless carry many of the values and thinking of the culture in which I've been raised. Wisdom is another matter, both a good guide and providing strength and comfort--without overthinking it. We are part of nature, part of a system. Living within the possibilities and cycles of that system (essentially, facing reality, but without the negative overtones that phrase can carry), seeking a healthy balance in all things and with all things (I am partial to philosophical Taoism), striving to live truly present, cognizant of the past and preparing for the future but being fully in the present moment, taking responsibility for my choices while not playing victim to outside forces, using downtimes to address problems, using up times to set aside for harder times--and working to progress while keeping it simple, letting go of the mental contortions that can cloud our experience in baffling and insidious ways. I can't grow fruit in February--but if I prune all the trees over the winter, I'll have a lot more fruit in the warmer seasons. Wisdom is also difficult--I, like most, have blind spots, and I work to gradually replace poor habits with healthier, more balanced, more effective and fruitful ones. Nor do I leave this practice to chance. I don't accept the mystical methods I used to see, but I do find a positive focus opens growth possibilities, and I daily begin with a conscious focus. I run or ski daily through the forest, an hour or two, partly for exercise, partly to clear my mind. I also meditate to return to a calm (or at least calmer) state of mind and relaxation. Incidentally, I also find regular sex, romantic touch, the contact of friends and acquaintances, not merely nice but essential. We are social creatures. I also hold with those who find regular mental stimulation both enjoyable and a need, including keeping the mind sharp as we age. For me, this absolutely includes the arts, especially music, but all the arts. Yes, this leaves a lot unexplained about life. But not everything has an explanation. I can, however, live as fully and as joyfully as I can, accepting the life that I have, and living it well.
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