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Apology too much

12% (7)

Sex antics too much

5% (3)

Neither, I like reading everything personal

20% (11)

Doesnt' matter, I skip the drama.

58% (32)

Sex, never TMI

3% (2)

Total Votes : 55

(last vote on : 10/17/2009 10:03:22 PM)
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VirginPotty -> Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:20:11 PM)
When is it TMI? When a slave posts an apology and has to air their personal business or when one posts about their playtime (including sex) w/much detail? I've noticed that folks get alot more bent out of shape (no pun intended) when an apology is posted then when the sexual antics are posted.

AngelGeena -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:25:03 PM)
Personally, I can do without the extreme details of what someone does in their private life. There is one poster in particular that irks me because every time he gets the chance, he details how much he gets off on his Mistress fisting his bunghole. I didn't want to read it the first time, let alone every other time I find myself on a topic where he has yet again posted this same thing. The apology, I can at least understand the rationale behind that one. Two cents is all.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:26:23 PM)
Well, I skip the drama if I don't know the parties involved... then I have to defend my friends. Otherwise... hey, use all the bad taste you want to!

Aylee -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:30:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VirginPotty When is it TMI? When a slave posts an apology and has to air their personal business or when one posts about their playtime (including sex) w/much detail? I've noticed that folks get alot more bent out of shape (no pun intended) when an apology is posted then when the sexual antics are posted. I dislike it all. Seriously. . . a public forum is much like BEING in public, if it is not something that you are going to discuss in the grocery store line, do not discuss it here.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:30:50 PM)
I personally am really relaxed about what I consider TMI and can quite confidently say I really do not believe in the concept of TMI in most cases.

angelikaJ -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:36:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelGeena There is one poster in particular that irks me because every time he gets the chance, he details how much he gets off on his Mistress fisting his bunghole. I didn't want to read it the first time, let alone every other time I find myself on a topic where he has yet again posted this same thing. You can opt to hide his posts. I am not one who likes the drama, but people post things here for a variety of reasons. I don't have to agree with those reasons to accept the validity of their need. Most of the time, I will cmail my thoughts along with requests for additional clarification and/or offers for support. The main reason why I do this is I don't want to distract from the main thread.

LaTigresse -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:37:24 PM)
I prefer to keep personal stuff, just that, personal. I lose a tremendous amount of respect for people that drag hurtful personal stuff out for all the world to see. Especially when it appears to be a poor attempt to make themselves seem more important, justify their behaviour or belittle the other person when it is usually THEM that was the fool. (although the sadistic bitch in me enjoys watching them make a fool of themself.......especially if it is a chest thumping wanna be male dominant [:D]) But it makes me sad for the person that they hurt. The sexual stuff, it's crass and tasteless but........that's more my issue than any thing else. I can ignore it.

thishereboi -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:39:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee quote: ORIGINAL: VirginPotty When is it TMI? When a slave posts an apology and has to air their personal business or when one posts about their playtime (including sex) w/much detail? I've noticed that folks get alot more bent out of shape (no pun intended) when an apology is posted then when the sexual antics are posted. I dislike it all. Seriously. . . a public forum is much like BEING in public, if it is not something that you are going to discuss in the grocery store line, do not discuss it here. You would be amazed at some of the things I have heard discussed in line at stores. It makes me wonder if they are doing it for shock value or they really don't care what the people around them know about their lives.

Sunnyfey -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:42:09 PM)
I skip the personal drama, vendettas, etc.....90% of the time. I wont ever involve myself in it though. I ignore the drama so much I missed it one time when someone was being impeccably rude to me, by sending me a CM saying "Aw you and so and so are perfect for each other". I did NOT catch the sarcasm and sent a very nice reply. I also informed the other person mentioned in the email of what the sender said. Then I found out what was going on.....shakes head people are really childish sometimes.

thishereboi -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:43:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse I prefer to keep personal stuff, just that, personal. I lose a tremendous amount of respect for people that drag hurtful personal stuff out for all the world to see. Especially when it appears to be a poor attempt to make themselves seem more important, justify their behaviour or belittle the other person when it is usually THEM that was the fool. (although the sadistic bitch in me enjoys watching them make a fool of themself.......especially if it is a chest thumping wanna be male dominant [:D]) But it makes me sad for the person that they hurt. The sexual stuff, it's crass and tasteless but........that's more my issue than any thing else. I can ignore it. I am that way too. I think it has a lot to do with my mother. She was big not telling personal stuff to anyone outside the immediate family. I don't have a problem with others sharing, except for the examples you mentioned. If they are too annoying, I just skip by their posts. Cuts down on the time I spend here so I have more time for homework.

AngelGeena -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:44:33 PM)
How do I hide someones posts?

angelikaJ -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:47:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelGeena How do I hide someones posts? On the left, where their avatar is, beneath that there are 3 buttons L to R Hide, Profile and PM. You just click on hide.

thishereboi -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:48:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AngelGeena How do I hide someones posts? Look right below their pic on the left of the screen. There should be a button that says Hide. Click on that and you will never have to know if a certain poster has gotten lucky or not.

Aylee -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:49:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee quote: ORIGINAL: VirginPotty When is it TMI? When a slave posts an apology and has to air their personal business or when one posts about their playtime (including sex) w/much detail? I've noticed that folks get alot more bent out of shape (no pun intended) when an apology is posted then when the sexual antics are posted. I dislike it all. Seriously. . . a public forum is much like BEING in public, if it is not something that you are going to discuss in the grocery store line, do not discuss it here. You would be amazed at some of the things I have heard discussed in line at stores. It makes me wonder if they are doing it for shock value or they really don't care what the people around them know about their lives. No, I have heard it as well. I just find it tasteless. Quite some time ago I decided that I just must be a prude. I am okay with that.

porcelaine -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 1:59:26 PM)
i have never understood the public apology stuff and i'm going to be blunt. i don't see how it ever benefits the one who erred. perhaps the self identified victim feels there's some sense of vindication in airing their dirty laundry and adding a new spin on humiliation to their partner. this is where lifestylers are profoundly fucked up. i don't see vanilla couples doing this archaic crap. no one wears a sign tied around their neck professing their shame and mistakes. what is this some new age scarlet letter? but as ridiculous as i find the whole scene i wonder who would allow themselves to be treated this way. i wonder what the person is getting out of it, and if they've sunk to a point where they're unable to reconcile that screwing up doesn't imply you should be shat upon. in the end you are your own advocate and people are willing to do any and everything you'll allow them to get away with. i cannot say i would condone such behavior from my partner. if we couldn't settle disagreements in a discreet manner like most consenting adults, i would exercise my about face and leave him to ponder the next head trip he'll give. one thing is for certain, he won't be messing with these pretty tresses. porcelaine

LaTigresse -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 2:36:44 PM)
Now you know why I created the thread I did earlier today...

Daddysredhead -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 3:02:48 PM)
Fast Reply: Honestly, if I see a pot starting to get stirred up, I notice who is around it, who is in the kitchen with it, who is adding to the pot, and who is keeping the fire lit under the pot. Then, I make a mental note to skip over posts by those people until the shit-stirring is finished. I don't want to hear people's cross-fire with other posters on the boards, it's ridiculous and it's like being taken hostage, outside of a hot kidnapping scene. I hate it. I lose a tremendous amount of respect for people who do this stuff (the stupid playground behavior of little kids, "I hate you... I hate you more"... "I'm not going to be your friend anymore"... "Fine by me, you aren't my friend either"...) and other dumb internet-drama garbage. For phuk's sake, we are supposed to be adults. If the computer and internet acquaintances are causing that much of a problem in your world, step back from the monitor, and unplug the machine! I know about which I speak from experience. It's one thing to be a friend, and to lend support when the ones we care about are hurting. It's a completely different thing when the level of involvement turns obsessive and codependent, and starts making you do and say things you would have never dreamed of before. Just my two cents. As for sexual details... sometimes they are hot, and I like them. Drama, attention-seeking, poor me, I'm a victim of the world...? "Go phuk yourself" is where I'm at today. Signed, Red... who has decided to try the direct approach in communicating this evening

BKSir -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 3:07:25 PM)
Well put red! [:D]

DemonKia -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 3:13:01 PM)
FR, after read thru lol Yeah, I'm a wholistic voyeur & enjoy as many peeks into people's lives as I can get . . . . . So, put me in the there's-no-such-thing-as-TMI category . . . . . & while I'm also a little ADHD & can get bored with any given topic lickety-spit, intimate details of other people's lives tend to get my rapt attention . . . . & I specifically come here to hear stuff I'm rarely gonna hear in the grocery store line . . . . . . No offense to the gal who originally said that about the grocery store, but that strikes me as a rather bizarre expectation to bring to a place like this . . .. . Personally, I hang out with kinky people so I can talk about butt sex & bukakke & cock-&-ball-torture & foot worship & crack jokes about whips . . .. . Otherwise I'd go hang out with 'nillas . . . . .

Kalista07 -> RE: Personal Info posted (9/15/2009 3:13:06 PM)
uh....So Red....What is it You are really trying to tell me then? eh?? Kali Who frankly....Finds this entire thread in bad taste.

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