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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:03:05 AM

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sounds like an amazing experience. i'm happy for you. mine was pretty similar

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:04:09 AM

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It was. The flaw is that it isn't done often enough like that

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:07:16 AM

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i've only experienced it once and i'm a bit new to this and it was just i dunno how to describe it. it felt humbling to me almost and i want to experience it again =]

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:17:58 AM

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IMO, that sort of experience comes from total surrender. I stopped fighting self and accepted what was happening, allowed it to just take me over.
I hope you do get to experience it again

It is definately unforgettable...

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:20:40 AM

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i hope i am able to and i can't get this one out of my mind. i'm not sure how or when during the session but i let everything go and it felt very cleansing to me. by the time it was all over i was barely able to stand and crying hard and i'm not entirely sure how long it lasted

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:23:17 AM

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*nods* Totally lost in the experience. In a way I'm glad it doesn't happen every time, that would be overwhelming!

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/18/2009 9:24:58 AM

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i can understand that. it's not a good idea to overdo it i think. and i learned that i cry very loudly =P

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/19/2009 2:01:50 PM

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I have read and heard many accounts of the release after a whipping (or similar).
I really do admire the absolute unashamed and untamed reactions to such an experience.
I have never had the opportunity to try this but I have a feeling I may find the same release and think it would be so liberating.

I have noticed that many who have had this experience need a fair amount of aftercare straight after as they are left exposed (but not in a bad way). Lots of cuddling, stroking and comforting.
Has anyone here had the same??

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/19/2009 4:29:13 PM

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i wish i was caned to tears, but just can't cry ( my Owner wnts that too)

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/19/2009 4:38:37 PM

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My own experience has been that being whipped/spanked "to tears" has never happened to me solely on the basis of the physical pain alone.
I sob real tears running down my face, not from the solely physical sensation of pain, but from a combination of physical pain with emotional feelings.
Some Dominants who have tried to get me to cry simply from hitting me have not been able to get me to cry at all. I just grit my teeth and 'take it', trying to survive it. They hit harder and harder in their desperate attempt to bring me to tears. But it doesnt happen. I just 'shut down' and feel I am being mistreated, abused, a 'victim'. My survival-mode kicks in, and I dont cry as I am focused on 'getting through this'.
BUT, I have easily been brought to actual tears & sobbing when the moderate pain of being whipped/spanked was combined with the calm, verbal 'talking me through it' by a Dominant--when they get into my headspace by explaining truthfully how I deserve this. My remorse and guilt are such that I become sad, repentant, and end up crying. I cry when I realize that I have been 'bad', but I never can cry when I feel I am being falsely accused by a Dom or simply being beaten for their sadistic enjoyment. That never brings me to the emotional state where I need to cry.
So in my case I need BOTH physical pain AND emotional/psychological context for me to shed tears. I only share this in case any of you Dominants might want to try it on your subs, or any of you subs may be baffled why you never cry when being punished.

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RE: Whipped to tears - 9/19/2009 6:58:18 PM

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thank you

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