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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/20/2006 3:39:13 PM

Lordandmaster

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I'd say that ANYTHING LESS THAN total submission makes me lose interest.

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/21/2006 3:01:00 AM

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LaM, d'you think that one of those elephants in yout avatar could carry an 18 gallon keg of Fosters to you? Bloody good post man.

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/21/2006 5:41:32 AM

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In the past i have often questioned whether once a Dom receives Your submission fully does he then become bored. I have battled with the idea that once he has you totally and knows you will do anything to please him does that then make you boring because you are no longer a challenge. Do men need that challenge? The thrill of the chase? I then thought what was the point of giving everything to someone if that is the outcome.
Since meeting my Master i have realised that a genuine Dom never gets "bored" of submission. He sees it as the wonderful thing it is and nurtures it and develops it further. He enjoys and revels in the submission just as much as the submissive enjoys and revels in the Control He gives.
In the same way i have heard submissives saying they are "bored" with Control and ive sat there thinking WHAT???? HOW??? i truly cant understand that or grasp it because i could never be bored of Control.
I am sorry you have been hurt and wish you all the best of luck in finding someone that makes you feel complete.

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/21/2006 6:17:03 AM

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if he does , he isn't really a dominant in the sense that we speak of, he is just a guy out after some and thought you an easy lay

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/21/2006 8:22:30 AM

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I wouldn't trust'em. They'd probably drink it themselves.

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LaM, d'you think that one of those elephants in yout avatar could carry an 18 gallon keg of Fosters to you?

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/21/2006 8:51:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: collaredheart

In the past i have often questioned whether once a Dom receives Your submission fully does he then become bored. I have battled with the idea that once he has you totally and knows you will do anything to please him does that then make you boring because you are no longer a challenge. Do men need that challenge? The thrill of the chase? I then thought what was the point of giving everything to someone if that is the outcome.
Since meeting my Master i have realised that a genuine Dom never gets "bored" of submission. He sees it as the wonderful thing it is and nurtures it and develops it further. He enjoys and revels in the submission just as much as the submissive enjoys and revels in the Control He gives.
In the same way i have heard submissives saying they are "bored" with Control and ive sat there thinking WHAT???? HOW??? i truly cant understand that or grasp it because i could never be bored of Control.
I am sorry you have been hurt and wish you all the best of luck in finding someone that makes you feel complete.

i asked my Master this once, about being bored. He told me i was silly. He said now he can enjoy the fruits of his labor, and why in the hell would he be bored with that? He said the "challenge" was often a pain in the ass (!) but to see me now, my eyes filled with devotion when i look up at him, knowing i will do anything he requires of me (and this has been proven), only causes him to feel closer and wish to enjoy me further. And since i have come to this point, i do see a change in him. We both enjoy our relationship more as a result.

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/22/2006 9:08:25 AM

BrianSenior

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Me I seek an desire the total submission so no I wouldnt loose interest. I have heard of some that when they can longer teach, when there is not a feeling of neccassity to protect, then they have nothing left to give for the submission and leave the relationship. I was courting a slave, on line. A submissive I knew heard how well trained, and knowledgable the slave was and commented to Me- "what fun is it to have a girl who already knows what to do?" So it seems that the path can go both ways from the Top loosing interest to the submissive loosing interest. ~BK~

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/22/2006 9:20:11 AM

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I believe there are basically two types of men you see on line those that just want to experience kinky sex and when they get it out of their system get tired of it.

The second is of a dominant personality and kinky sex is just one of the ways they express their sexuality, this type will never tire of a womans submission.

They may tire of the woman but not the act of submission.

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RE: Does total submission make a master lose interest? - 3/22/2006 9:23:00 AM

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i would never "demand an apology" or anything else from a Dominant....who wants to deal with a foot-stomping pain in the ass? no Dominant i have ever known....i'm not sure what you consider giving Him "total submission" but there is a whole lot more involved than one lone sexual act

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