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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 9:51:32 PM

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this is a real clusterfuck of requirements. i hope you're very well to do for the hoops you're presenting. i'd have to have one fat allowance for all of this. just kidding.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 9:55:53 PM

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I knew a guy who would hand a lady a box of blond hair dye when he asked her out. Seriously. Of course he looked like Clint Eastwood, many years younger and had long blond hair... damn fine. I didn't want to like him for that... but he was a stand up guy after that when my husband said something that made him think he was going to cheat on me. He said. You better not cheat on Lockit! I like her and I'll tell her if you do! Who couldn't like a guy that does that?

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 9:56:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

this is a real clusterfuck of requirements. i hope you're very well to do for the hoops you're presenting. i'd have to have one fat allowance for all of this. just kidding.

porcelaine

Kidding or not your bring up a good point. Sorry if you want me to get my hair done and nails perfect ALL THE TIME. Boy you better be cumming cash, because I could be a VERY expensive bitch if I chose to be. I'm talkin like, designer clothing and accessories, a collar from agent provocateur, Italian leather shoes, custom clothing....etc. I'll admit it, I'm not a label whore for the sheer fact neither I nor the man can afford shit like that. (I don't want to be high maintenance though, so I tend to not worry about that sort of thing 99.9% of the time).

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 10:01:25 PM

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PowerOverU = Bimtrain?

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 10:19:37 PM

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PowerOverU = Bimtrain?

IDK....maybe?

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 10:36:21 PM

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this is a real clusterfuck of requirements. i hope you're very well to do for the hoops you're presenting. i'd have to have one fat allowance for all of this. just kidding.

porcelaine

Kidding or not your bring up a good point. Sorry if you want me to get my hair done and nails perfect ALL THE TIME. Boy you better be cumming cash, because I could be a VERY expensive bitch if I chose to be. I'm talkin like, designer clothing and accessories, a collar from agent provocateur, Italian leather shoes, custom clothing....etc. I'll admit it, I'm not a label whore for the sheer fact neither I nor the man can afford shit like that. (I don't want to be high maintenance though, so I tend to not worry about that sort of thing 99.9% of the time).

*dies* i was trying to be nice. i really didn't want to go "there" but since you encouraged me. just give me some hermes and the pretty blue box with the white ribbon. i'm keeping the expenses down. i can economize.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 10:37:17 PM

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In post 158 PowerOverU responds to posts addressed to Bimtrain.

The profiles seem to describe the same man, pictures are of the same man.

Newest journal entry of PowerOverU is interesting in light of this thread.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 11:03:11 PM

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I gave one example a few posts above this. Another example was one girl who thought she looked better as a brunette and I want a blonde. Granted, that's one of the few things I'm not willing to compromise on but it seems weird that a person will hand over total control over everything in their life but says "oh, but you can't change my hair color."

Considering that women have chosen to die rather than get chemo and lose their hair, it doesn't seem that weird to me. There was a thread some time back about women and their hair. For whatever reason, a woman's hair has been made into a symbol of femaleness that is very hard for some to give up.

While you have a valid point, I wouldn't go so far as to compare a color change to going bald. And again this girl was basically saying "breast augmentation to a size of your choice? sure! lip implants? no problem! tattoos, piercings and permanent makeup of your choosing? sounds awesome! Go blonde? goodbye!"

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In post 158 PowerOverU responds to posts addressed to Bimtrain.

The profiles seem to describe the same man, pictures are of the same man.

Newest journal entry of PowerOverU is interesting in light of this thread.

Yes, I have two profiles. One for my search of a 24/7 TPE bimbo fuckdoll slave and another for my general BDSM journey. Obviously my TPE goals don't sit well with many and I didn't want that to hinder my personal exploration in other aspects of BDSM. I'm not trying to pull one over on anyone, lol. I mentioned my "other profile" in the original post. I didn't realize I could be signed into one name on CM and still be signed into the other on the forums. My apologies for any confusion.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 11:10:15 PM

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While you have a valid point, I wouldn't go so far as to compare a color change to going bald. And again this girl was basically saying "breast augmentation to a size of your choice? sure! lip implants? no problem! tattoos, piercings and permanent makeup of your choosing? sounds awesome! Go blonde? goodbye!"

It's honestly not about going far. Logic doesn't have a place in the emotional response and that is what this is about. If she agrees that she would good with X, Y, Z than she is more than happy to agree to them. But if she doesn't think she would look good with a different hair color, that is an emotional bridge.

Now, every woman is different but I can honestly say I would rather say... get a piercing or perhaps even a tattoo than dye my hair brown because I hate the way it looks. It's not logical in the slightest and I realize this.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 11:11:05 PM

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Hey no worries bro, your being totally honest about it. Thanks for clearing up the confusion.

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 11:23:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey

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this is a real clusterfuck of requirements. i hope you're very well to do for the hoops you're presenting. i'd have to have one fat allowance for all of this. just kidding.

porcelaine

Kidding or not your bring up a good point. Sorry if you want me to get my hair done and nails perfect ALL THE TIME. Boy you better be cumming cash, because I could be a VERY expensive bitch if I chose to be. I'm talkin like, designer clothing and accessories, a collar from agent provocateur, Italian leather shoes, custom clothing....etc. I'll admit it, I'm not a label whore for the sheer fact neither I nor the man can afford shit like that. (I don't want to be high maintenance though, so I tend to not worry about that sort of thing 99.9% of the time).

Again, many of you keep operating under the frame of mind that I'm approaching general slaves (for lack of a better term) and trying to transform them into the kind of slave I want. I'm approaching girls who's profile already pretty much fits what I want. The profiles I contact say things like "I want to be totally controlled. I want my owner to decide what I do, how I dress, who I fuck etc. He can modify me in any way he sees fit to suit his needs. I want to be totally controlled, no choices" (drastically paraphrasing here)

I have approached a few that don't necessarily say they want the things I do but they appear to be dedicated to being completely open, saying things like "no limits except for death. Do with me what ever you want. Use me as you see fit". But I don't expect them to be compatible. These ones are more shots in the dark.

And yes, I know many of these are fakes. But they can't ALL be fakes, right?

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/24/2009 11:31:34 PM

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No, there has to be at least one whos not a fake :)

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RE: Too Picky??? - 9/25/2009 6:31:11 AM

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In post 158 PowerOverU responds to posts addressed to Bimtrain.

The profiles seem to describe the same man, pictures are of the same man.

Newest journal entry of PowerOverU is interesting in light of this thread.

Yes, I have two profiles. One for my search of a 24/7 TPE bimbo fuckdoll slave and another for my general BDSM journey. Obviously my TPE goals don't sit well with many and I didn't want that to hinder my personal exploration in other aspects of BDSM. I'm not trying to pull one over on anyone, lol. I mentioned my "other profile" in the original post. I didn't realize I could be signed into one name on CM and still be signed into the other on the forums. My apologies for any confusion.

Yes, you had mentioned the other profile. I am just curious to understand if/how a girl who would be interested in you due to the PowerOverU profile would also accept the Bimtrain profile. But maybe that's the ultimate test of non-fakeness

. Or does it not work like that?

Which one is your primary account? And where does that leave your other account?

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And yes, I know many of these are fakes. But they can't ALL be fakes, right?

Let's hope not, for your sake. A glass that's 95% full, but still considered empty. I can't seem to wrap my mind around that.

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