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RE: Call him Master? - 10/4/2009 3:20:58 AM

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As long as what ever they called her wasn't disrespectfull, I really didn't care one way or another. You can call her Mistress all night, she is still going home with me.

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RE: Call him Master? - 10/4/2009 3:22:54 AM

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greetings to all,

I am personally not bothered if people address Master as "Master". If anything, it makes me even more proud to belong to him. A local Gorean friend would address him as "Master" quite frequently, until he informed her of his preference for titles. In the past, I have been trained as kajira myself so I wasn't bothered by it in the slightest. It is just part of the training that a girl goes through if she serves a Gorean man.

If we were in a BDSM setting and a woman did that? I'd take it like I did when our Gorean friend did it. My attitudes being moulded to his preferences are part and parcel of service to him.

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RE: Call him Master? - 10/4/2009 8:37:51 PM

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My personal opinion is ANY honorifics of ANY sort should be limited to ONLY the one that a sub/slave belongs to; irrespective of whether or not the person a sub/slave is addressing happens to be of the Toppy sort.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 5:51:58 PM

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mmmmmm i wouldn't even dare called a Dom i don't know Master or another slave's Master Master to me it is not right at all i would called them Sir out of respect for who they are but Master no that is resve for my Master or a person who earn that title from me , as if i would have a cow if another sub call my Master Master mmmm yes i would cause it is not her Master , Sir i wouldn't have a problem with at all but Master yes

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 7:09:40 PM

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This thread is 2 years old.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 8:28:08 PM

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Hmm. I've never encountered a situation like this. But oh, if that happened to me, I'd be livid. "Master" to me does not just mean he is my owner. "Master" is the title of my owner, my lover, my partner, my leader, and my dearest friend. And indeed, if someone were to call him "Master", I would speak up with my objection immediately--some of you might say that is wrong of me or that it is not my place to do so, but in my relationship with my Master, it is--not only am I not restricted in speaking my mind, but I am required to at all times. I also think that he would feel rather awkward, even affronted, being addressed as "Master" by another, so the sentiment is not just my own. That title is for me and me only to call him by--I can be a very jealous person at times, and I'm rather proud of being Master's one and only pet. So yes, I would be quite offended if someone else were to use that title to refer to him--if they absolutely must, "Sir" would be fine as a general term of respect. It's no different than (in a setting where he was just my boyfriend and nothing more) another girl referring to him as her boyfriend or lover. It would be untrue, disrespectful, and thus unacceptable.

So there's my incredibly strong opinion on the subject. I do apologize for helping to reanimate a 2-year-old thread, but it caught my eye and interested me to reply.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 9:16:21 PM

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<<did not look at the date

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 9:22:37 PM

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Other slaves and Masters, who use titles, call me Master Fire. In other words, they use both the title and name. My boy, on the other hand, uses simply Master or Ma'am.

Perhaps doing something like that might be a compromise?

that's so fucking sensible it ought to be illegal. it probably is in newfoundland.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 9:34:37 PM

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Did another Sub/slave who does not belong to you Master call him Master? If so did it bother you? Why or why not?

It's never happened, but if anybody was to call Hanners "Mistress" I think I'd piss myself laughing.

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Someone called my Sir by the nickname *only* I use for Him, once (only once in my presence). I had a COW, a full-grown one! I was the one that came up with the nickname when we were "vanilla boyfriend/girlfriend"

Everybody calls Hanners by the nickname I gave her, even lots of people on here. And I like it. Every time somebody calls her Hanners, it reminds me that I am the one with her.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 10:11:38 PM

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I prefer the title "Grand Poobah". Even got me one of those viking-looking water buffalo hats. Leather.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 10:32:18 PM

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I would be bothered by it most definitely. Until another slave had been brought into our relationship and trained I would not feel that anyone else had any place calling Him Master. Of course if He disagreed I would drop it but yes, it would bother me.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/26/2011 10:34:42 PM

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Lol! How did it get so much attention all of a sudden? So weird when that happens.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/27/2011 3:21:23 AM

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I won't accept being called "Sir" (or "Master") by any sub I don't own. That's a right reserved solely for *MY* girl.

For every other sub or slave, I acquaint them with my name and ask them to use that.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/27/2011 3:30:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

This thread is 2 years old.

NOOOOOOOOooooooo.....!

Stupid Fast Reply plus the one in a cajilliion times where I didn't check the date on the OP....!

Plus I hate editing out (there is no turning back the clock on mistakes in my world).

<mumble, grumble - conflicted arsehole with too many self rules - blah blah whine>

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/27/2011 3:27:37 PM

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I would not be happy with anyone else calling him Master, or Sir in a BDSM context (obviously customer service is different). For those who believe the sub has no say over what her Dominant is called by other submissives - that's fine, and that's why I will be referring to them as 'stupid bitch / stupid bitch's moron Owner' until they appreciate that people get to pick their own titles, regardless of what others may want to call them!

Paraphrasing from a great reply I read on fetlife the other day - BDSM is not a caste system where all submissives must show respect to all Dominants. We just inhabit the ordinary world where all people should show courtesy to each other. Referring to a dominant by a title you know is going to upset them / their submissive is not courteous, and shouldn't be presented as such. As other posters have said, ask how a person wishes to be referred to, and if you get it wrong, apologise and use the title they prefer.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/28/2011 12:30:52 AM

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i prefer to be called alex. i don't waste my time with meaningless titles so i see no reason to get upset over such a trivial matter

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/28/2011 1:55:32 AM

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i woul never all another master master is my master not anyone else. i use names we dont do public dungeons or munches but if we did go theere they would be sir and yes i would be botered by someone calling master master

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/28/2011 8:47:00 AM

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i prefer to be called alex. i don't waste my time with meaningless titles so i see no reason to get upset over such a trivial matter

This!

Well except that I really would prefer to be called Bob. Alex is my nephew's name and that would be just a little too creepy. Even for me.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/28/2011 8:54:03 AM

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Well we've had th word Master since the start of us dating and I know of others who call their play partners or boyfriends Master too. I really don't have a problem with it. My Master is My Master end of people can talk of their own masters and tell me what they did but I never have to think ok is she talking about my Master. If I was to freak out I'd think it as because I'm insecure about our relationship and I'm not I'll be getting a proposal next January! So I couldn't be happier!

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/28/2011 10:25:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

This thread is 2 years old.

You beat me to it. lol

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ORIGINAL: littleone35
Did another Sub/slave who does not belong to you Master call him Master? If so did it bother you? Why or why not?

I call my Dominant "Daddy," and if my sister sub called him Daddy it wouldn't bother me. If someone ELSE called him Daddy I don't think I'd really be pissed or have a cow over it, but it would bother me and I would wonder why she's calling him Daddy when he isn't her Daddy. I wouldn't call someone ELSE besides Daddy "Daddy" as it makes no sense to call someone that when you don't have that relationship with him. Now if she added his name to it and called Daddy "Daddy B****" that wouldn't bother me at all. That would be calling him A Daddy because he is one, but not HER Daddy because he's not.

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