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RE: Call him Master? - 7/29/2011 7:29:33 PM

wickedoldwolf

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I have always thoughgt it very bad manners for any sub to call a Dom or Domme Master or Mistress unless given permission to do so. And to call one that when sub is not Dom or Dommes property is very bad manners. I can't recall the times on some chat site or another where some would be sub thinks they have the right to call me "Master". It tends to irritate me to no end. I don't really care for the term anyway. But to have a sub not my own to address me as such irritates me more.

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RE: Call him Master? - 7/30/2011 10:00:32 AM

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This post is 2 years old!

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 7/30/2011 10:10:26 AM >

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RE: Call him Master? - 8/4/2011 8:20:52 AM

nephandi

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Greetings

The question of titles can get a bit complex, in some lifestyles like for example among Goreans Master and Mistress is the title every slave call every Master, while for others Master is a title that have to be earned or a word akin to vanillas calling one another my love or darling which should not be shared with others then the partner.

I am a free woman now but when i was a Gorean slave it would off course not have bothered me and it did not bother me when others called my Master for well Master, first off all that was a normal thing, second of all he was never my Master, i did not own him, it was the other way around, he owned me, I had no right to get upset if someone else called him anything, it was his job to determine what he wanted or did not wanted to be called. When I was a BDSM sub would I mind if somone else called my Dom Master, no not really as I am not hung up on that word, however I understand why some might.

I would assume your friend was used to every Dominant being called Master and that she just meant to respect him.

I wish you well

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RE: Call him Master? - 8/4/2011 7:00:07 PM

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Folks, any thread over three months can be linked to a new one, but not brought back to life.

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