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Termyn8or -> RE: RANT OF MY WEEKEND (9/27/2009 11:22:32 PM)
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You have had a nice rant. In it you expressed quite a bit of frustration with a good amount of jealousy. Sometimes people get pissed. At this stage of the game you must get along. Lorr is 100% right, ask for a loan. Just see if she is really made out of money, or owes three times what she's got, like lots of others. People love to brag and catching them at it is a great hobby.
Make some plans, plans to put some distance between you and the supposed source of your disdain. At least not walking distance, but some people move cross country. The world is wide open to you right now, and if you could see it you would see plenty of opportunity in damnear everything.
But mind you this, every MF comes in here or anywhere else whining about other people need to look within themselves for the root problem. Are they all liars ? I think not, it is truly their perception of the situation that skews their thinking. Honestly you could really be 100% right, but it is doubtful. Also, when you think you are 100% right is precisely when you need to reevaluate your position. People have a way of internally rationalizing damnear anything. This is human nature so don't even try to deny it. I am twice your age and I know better.
Now, let's just say you are 100% right here, just for fun. What then, are your options ? At yor age I would assume that you have very little if any established credit, but on the other hand you don't have a criminal or driving record three times as long as my arm. Many doors are open to you.
Now if you can see it this way, that is in a less negative and defeatist light, ideas can come, solutions. Things, actions that will positively affect your life. I am 49, a one trick pony who if he loses his job will wind up on the street. I drank up my license, and burned enough bridges that I would be pretty screwed. You have not done that. This is your greatest asset and if there is any sound advice I can give you, it would be to consider your actions and words carefully. Funny as it may sound since I have no idea of your gender, I just haven't checked, walk like a Man. Take it in stride. You have a bunch of deadbeats around you get out. No matter how rich they are, they can still be deadbeats. Surround yourself with positive influences, people who have plans for their future, or more precisely, have plans to build themselves a future. Don't let yourself get bogged down in this shit.
And don't let these people scare you away. What you got in the way of a negative tone in some responses was due to the way you put it in the beginning. Many people do not see this, but I have worn alot of hats, that of what you might call a horse trader to executive almost. In dealing with people you never ever admit to being in an inferior position, and you never admit when something is stressing you out. Admitting that stressout is telling people what buttons to push, just like admitting being broke when you want to borrow money. You never tell them how bad you need it. Never wear the inferior shoe, even if you are submissive in nature. I can think of a couple of submissives I've known who were absolute sharks when it comes to business.
Render unto Ceasar, render unto exwife/husband, render to whoever, just get what is your's and render it unto yourself. Comparisons do not work so well, as the proper people in society, that is those who deserve to be rewarded or at least recognized rarely are, while assholes inherit more money then the whole gang of us could spend in our entire lifetimes. Life is not fair, and it is not likely to change for the better anytime soon. Sorry.
Other than that, best of luck.
T
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