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LookieNoNookie -> RE: RANT OF MY WEEKEND (9/29/2009 6:38:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: xoxkittenxox
I'm nineteen. I just found out that my sister is a total manipulative whore and that I have to live with her for the next week and a half, AND pay her $70 bucks for doing so, EVEN THOUGH, shes got... 4 times as much money as me AND she just recently abused me and justifies it as treating me like an "adult", although I felt like dirt and everyone I have told about this has said, yes, she treated you like dirt.
So, like... She had an affair with her boss and never legitimately worked for anything in her entire goddamn life. Hes admitted that all to me. Yet she keeps playing the innocent victim card, and that shes under all this stress, that shes poor, with a 1.1 mil house and shes got $22k in her pocket which her boss gave her as severance pay, when SHE quit.
Like, seriously, I've got 675 to my name and trying to save up for COLLEGE, when shes banking on $22k AND selling a 1.1 mil house, and moving into a cheap ass house, banking 100k or MORE.
How do I deal with this person? I'm going out of my mind, because SHE is talking SHIT about ME behind my back. TO MY FATHER, to all her friends, to her fiance.... Like... I'm never going to have a relationship with any of these people again. Her and her friends/fiance, don't give a shit. But still. I did NOTHING wrong. I've done all that I've needed to do, PLUS managed working 11 hours a day to save money and riding a bus 3 hours a day, while she sat at home and watched TV.
So. I told her I may have overreacted because of the migraine medication I am on. She accepted my apology and wants to heal our relationship. Like, seriously. She didn't apologize back. She accepted my apology. And the reason she wants to heal our relationship is so I can come back when she has her kid so she can "pump and dump" her breast milk and go out partying and drinking, while I babysit the kid and three dogs.
Of course, I'm not an idiot now and I have all this information which her boyfriend/dad probably do not know. SUSPECT, but do not know. Shes so twisted and shes a fucking liar (as her ex-lover puts it/my boss)
I'M 19 FUCKING YEARS OLD.
I just want to work. Take some money to Oregon. Go to Med School. Forget who these people are!
I feel my only family is my mother and that my boss is more of a family than my true family.
These people are fucked up and I'm the SANE one.
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Wow!!!!
Where the holy living fuck to start??????
You need a place to stay....and you're feeling ripped off because your sister (who clearly did something right as to owning a piece of real estate that will keep your hayud dry) wants to charge you some nominal amount (so as to keep your hayud dry).
And....she makes 4 times as much money as you do, fucked some guy she works with/for, has 22k in her pocket and owns a 1.1 million dollar home.
Righto....facts all clear?
Let's start with the basics....shall we?
If you stay in a home (the following will not necessarily apply if you stay in your 1977 Vega station wagon)....you owe (someone) the value of that proportionate share of real estate used.
Let's call that "rent", and you "The Renter".
You don't (as I'm understanding your post) own any real estate.
Your sister, however, does.
Let's call her "The Landlord".
(Let me know if I've lost you anywhere along the way).
You (that would be "renter") owe some financial value if you choose to stay there. Whether that value equates in absolute correlation to your desire to stay there (that {said price} she has apparently predetermined) which is (hopefully) in direct parallel to your desire to expend such funds....is entirely up to you.
That she (that would be "Landlord") deserves it for allowing you some functional apportionment of her real estate portfolio is without question....not even remotely up for debate.
She has a home worth over a million dollars, and has 22K in her pocket.
For the record, a 1.1 million dollar home, with 15% down (or 85% loan to value), exclusive of taxes, insurance and upkeep...which will easily add an additional $1,350.00 per month....will run just a smidge over $7,031.00 per month, which means, she has ( exclusive of taxes, insurance and upkeep...which will easily add, as suggested above....an additional $1,350.00 per month)....less than 3 months "oooops" factor built into her current budget....
And you're worried about your sorry fluffy ass because you haven't built enough of a solid base and/or future to do much more than bitch about her present, only to be certain, because of her current asset base....that you shouldn't suffer some imagined harm.
As to any apology....you owe her one.
Get a fucking job.
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