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Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 1:56:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

FR, after continuing read thru

It's my understanding that all the world's major religions has some form of the 'golden rule', ahimsa, et al. . . . . Despite their much vaunted differences . . . . .


As to this polarization thing. I think of it as an innate human tendency to dichotomize, & I theorize that it is an artifact of our bilateral observational instrument (ie, our bicameral brains & etc) more than it is some fundament of the 'true nature of reality' (whatever that might be) . . . . . . .

& as such, this desire to centrifuge things one way or the other manifests all over the place. Given a coupla other of our propensities, to abstract (with virtually no limit) & to assign meaning, we have had a lot of edification construction about the 'deeper meaning' of this or that polarity, but, respectfully, I mostly scoff.

We do not see the world as it is. We see the world as we are.
- Talmud -



Well, there is the fundamental inescapable fact of duality - which is where it all starts - all modern philosophies are essentially dualist, even science - mind/body, matter/energy, flesh/spirit, being/nonbeing, etc. And by modern, I mean as opposed to animistic religion, which is Tantric by nature, i.e., identification with the natural world, which forms an earthier, less intellectual parallel strain, reflected in both the Great Chain of Being, and Pagan nature/fertility religions.

The differences largely lie in how this duality is conceptualized, which I divide into Tantric: thesis, antithesis and synthesis, symbiotic reconciliation, or Zoroastrian struggle - polarization, never the twain shall meet, Black and White.

Of course there are all shades in between, which tends to reinforce the Tantric approach: in classical gnosticism, flesh and spirit are indeed separate, but rather than Flesh being confined to the physical realm and spirit somewhere else as in Christian theology, Spirit animates the flesh, the divine spark - flesh is just a vehicle for this spark, and it's up to the individual to nurture this spark, thus Ahimsa.

In Catholicism, the priest mediates between flesh and spirit, Catholic priests are essentially shamans, ombudsmen for God - in Gnosticism, you are responsible for nurturing your own spark, for creating a direct connection between flesh and spirit, Protestant theology has more elements of classical Gnosticism, but still very hung up on the oppositional aspect of the thing.

The Tantric approach was mostly preserved in mystery cults and underground sects, and there are hints of of it in the synoptic gospels, when Jesus says for instance: "don not hide you light under a tub" - this is reference to the divine spark, a recurring theme in dualistic religions.

Fire was the symbol of the Zoroastrian godhead, Ahura Mazda - conceived of as pure energy, "time itself", thus signified by fire, which though you can feel and perceive it, is elusive, it can't be bottled or captured. Moses receives his revelation through a burning bush, the holy spirit signified as "tongues of flame" - Christianity borrowed heavily from Mithrism (Mithra is essentially linguistic analog for Ahura Mazda), who were associated with fire worship, although agian, fire is only symbolic of the godhead composed of pure energy.

Difficult to resist anthropomorphism however, Agni is the corresponding Vedic avatar, which among the Romans was associated with Hestia (female, hearth), and Hephaestus/Vulcan (male, forge), more practical deities, and ultimately in Christianity, the holy spirit, symbolically the go between between god, the father, and Christ, the son of man, so again, the thesis/antithesis/synthesis.

In Gilgamesh, Enkidu is animal and man, Gilgamesh, man and god, and together they create a synthesis in which man is between animal (flesh) and god (spirit), which is closer to the classical gnostic conception, as in Nietzsche:

"Man is a rope, tied between beast and overman - a rope over an abyss...

What is great in man is that he is a bridge and not an end: what can be loved in man is that he is an overture and a going under..."


We're getting into anthropology here, and back to animism: essentially that the animal represents a state of primal grace, god represents pure thought, abstraction, consciousness, which leads to moral ambiguity.

Animals do not suffer from conscience, Adam and Eve were not cast out of the garden for being naked, they were cast out for being aware of their nakedness, and ashamed of it - for doubt.

God fears that having gained self awareness, they will also discover eternal life and become his equals, and casts them out.

In Zoroastrianism, Ahriman, the precursor of Satan, springs from the brow of Ahura Mazda in a moment of doubt - he represents physical reality which is inherently flawed from a purely conscious perspective: physical reality means death and decay, and you find in many religions, this urge to return to the primal state of innocence, a state in which doubt, and moral ambiguity, inherent in self awareness, is absent - thus ego submersion is a recurring aspect in practically all spiritual traditions, expressed in myriad ways.

However, the fate of man, is that having eaten from the fruit of the Tree of Life, there's no going back to the animal, while god remains tantalizingly out of reach.




DemonKia -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:06:43 PM)

But see, that very 'body versus spirit' dualism that shows up over & over again, whether within a structure of balancing extremes or battling ones, is (to me) an artifact of us, not something that's necessarily 'real' . . . . . . & thus all that's really displayed is the structure of the human mind far more than some way that the world actually is . . .. . . It becomes a projective tool more than a disclosive one . . ...

If you enjoy the classification process, great, but for me it doesn't really add much to note that something can be dichotomized & / or to spend much time allocating in one direction or the other, ultimately . . . . . . & this seems true of spiritual stuff even more so . . . . . .




OrionTheWolf -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:15:04 PM)

Yeah that is the new spin on things, but if you study a lot more, you may find out there is not as much foundatio for that argument as you may think. Not to mention, apparently God got pissed when he had a son, and tossed Lady Wisdom away.

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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

Wrong.  The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are ONE AND THE SAME.  The "Trinity".  Read the bible.





OrionTheWolf -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:16:49 PM)

Ahhh you are one of those 'twue' types, where instead of four different types of love, as described in greek, there is only one type of love, called 'twue' love. I don't think that words means what you think it does.


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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

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ORIGINAL: Viridana

Dying for everybody else's sins. Isn't that the ultimate act of service.... and submission? just askin.....


No. For those who TRULY LOVE their sub/slave, as ANY man loves a woman, or as ANY woman loves a man -- if given the choice to SAVE the one you love (which is why Christ is called THE SAVIOR) -- any Top/Dom/Domme or whatever who TRULY LOVED their sub/slave would do the same.  Those who disagree with this do not TRULY LOVE the person they're with.  Period.  No different from a parent giving their life for their child.  That's not submissive in the least.






OrionTheWolf -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:19:58 PM)

Yeah Gnostic, so if you are going to quote the Crow, you should know his origins, and those of his church (or at least what is claimed).

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ORIGINAL: TurboJugend

Not sure who spinned it, I only know he said it.
Wiccan and gnostic? I don't know about that. I thought gnostics were from before christ and wiccans somewhat later.
Not sure though...never saw them mentioned together..




Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:20:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

But see, that very 'body versus spirit' dualism that shows up over & over again, whether within a structure of balancing extremes or battling ones, is (to me) an artifact of us, not something that's necessarily 'real' . . . . . . & thus all that's really displayed is the structure of the human mind far more than some way that the world actually is . . .. . . It becomes a projective tool more than a disclosive one . . ...

If you enjoy the classification process, great, but for me it doesn't really add much to note that something can be dichotomized & / or to spend much time allocating in one direction or the other, ultimately . . . . . . & this seems true of spiritual stuff even more so . . . . . .
But it is real - an unreal - think of it terms of physics: a hydrogen atom is an electron orbiting a proton, one positive, one negative - they never meet, and never separate, locked in eternal embrace, the mass of Atomic hydrogen is a function of motion - it exists because it's moving, enormous energy preserved as momentum, locked into a polarity.

The underlying dualistic argument usually centers over perfection vs. imperfection, but perfection is by nature unchanging, stasis, which equals death - imperfection is change, motion, existence - physical reality is flawed because it is the result of imperfection, flaw, change.

The nature of reality itself, even in terms of particle physics, is inherently dualistic.




TurboJugend -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 2:22:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Yeah Gnostic, so if you are going to quote the Crow, you should know his origins, and those of his church (or at least what is claimed).

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ORIGINAL: TurboJugend

Not sure who spinned it, I only know he said it.
Wiccan and gnostic? I don't know about that. I thought gnostics were from before christ and wiccans somewhat later.
Not sure though...never saw them mentioned together..



I know gnostics.....not the gnostic wicca relation.


Crowly wrote a gnostic mass...but that were his views more then a pure gnostic view.
People tend to write in a way that suits them ;)




porcelaine -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 3:34:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Amaros

Yeah, I guess Crowley had his own spin on it, no doubt - the line paraphrased above is more Wiccan, and reflects a more classical gnostic line of thought.


gerald gardner was heavily influenced by the teachings of crowley, western hermeticism, and the rosicrucians to name a few. accessing the gardnerian teachings and those shared on the alexandrian line which are much more ceremonial oriented show a clear definition of the respect he afforded to crowley. it is particularly easy to pinpoint if you have experience with thelema or golden dawn practices.

porcelaine




Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 3:48:04 PM)

I'll check it out, I just recently started focusing a little more on the Victorian era.




DemonKia -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 4:15:41 PM)

Problem is, it's a neutron, a proton, & an electron, & there goes the dualism. After all, dualism first requires the splitting into two polarities . . ... & it falls apart even more when we get into the magical world of the quanta, or if we move from the neat tidy hydrogen atom . . . . . . What do plutonium atoms have to say about inherent dualism?

While I'm willing to concede that dualism is a shape that can be found in the universe, to say that it has some special meaning is like saying that spheres have special meaning or that normal distribution curves have special meaning . . . . &, as far as I'm concerned, they don't unless we assign it with our fancy meaning attribution devices, the ones we keep between our ears . . . . .

& as long as attributing meaning enhances our knowledge base & or understanding, great. The problem, for me, is that much of that dichotomizing has not added much, especially when the categorization has been of the good-evil, right-wrong variety . . . . . Rather, the improper attribution of meaning can obscure vision . . . . . .

Take your physics example. I'd see that as an example of you looking to see dualistic qualities in something that isn't necessarily intrinsically dualistic. & potentially that desire to see what you wanna see can impede the view of what is . . . . . & that kind of projecting of framing device has tripped up human understanding over & over again . . . . . .

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ORIGINAL: Amaros

But it is real - an unreal - think of it terms of physics: a hydrogen atom is an electron orbiting a proton, one positive, one negative - they never meet, and never separate, locked in eternal embrace, the mass of Atomic hydrogen is a function of motion - it exists because it's moving, enormous energy preserved as momentum, locked into a polarity.

The underlying dualistic argument usually centers over perfection vs. imperfection, but perfection is by nature unchanging, stasis, which equals death - imperfection is change, motion, existence - physical reality is flawed because it is the result of imperfection, flaw, change.

The nature of reality itself, even in terms of particle physics, is inherently dualistic.





subtlebutterfly -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 4:22:11 PM)

FR..kind of off-topic ...but are there many reverends that indulge in bdsm?




Surrenderwithin -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 4:25:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

FR..kind of off-topic ...but are there many reverends that indulge in bdsm?


I know a few people, including myself, who are ordained. I know of a small handful of others. Some of us engage because of our religious beliefs, some in spite of our religion.
Maggi




OrionTheWolf -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 4:40:30 PM)

Excellent, you do know something about him. Crowley was involved in the Wiccan movement for a while, so some of his personal views from Gnosticism carried into his Wicca stuff, and some of that got mixed into some Wiccan teachings.

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ORIGINAL: TurboJugend

I know gnostics.....not the gnostic wicca relation.


Crowly wrote a gnostic mass...but that were his views more then a pure gnostic view.
People tend to write in a way that suits them ;)




Amaros -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 6:08:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

Problem is, it's a neutron, a proton, & an electron, & there goes the dualism. After all, dualism first requires the splitting into two polarities . . ... & it falls apart even more when we get into the magical world of the quanta, or if we move from the neat tidy hydrogen atom . . . . . . What do plutonium atoms have to say about inherent dualism?

Well, you may have noticed that when talking about duality, it often ends up being Three things: beast-man-god, Father-Son-Holy Ghost, the point being, you never have one thing, you always have Two things, and if you have Two things, they tend to generate more things - there's another fairly obvious metaphorical Trinity implicit in that, so I suppose you could say that duality begins with sexual reproduction, where 1+1=3 or to use your example, bilateralism.

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

While I'm willing to concede that dualism is a shape that can be found in the universe, to say that it has some special meaning is like saying that spheres have special meaning or that normal distribution curves have special meaning . . . . &, as far as I'm concerned, they don't unless we assign it with our fancy meaning attribution devices, the ones we keep between our ears . . . . .

What are we talking about here? Religion I think, and that's pretty much a huge fractal mass of attributions, I'm looking at patterns of attributions and associations here, taxonomy is critical to understanding it - if somebody starts up with me on the subject I like to know where they're coming from - is it Augustine? Calvinist pre-dispensationalism? If I know where they're coming from, I know where they're going, and that happens to be a very practical application in the current political climate.

Whether or not duality has as much significance in terms of the patterns and properties of physical reality as say Phi, is an academic question, more taxonomy, Phi is also the basis for both a certain amount of spiritual attribution as well as certain amount of practical application, but when it comes to Christianity in particular, it always boils down to some flavor of duality, it's a dualistic religion that we are discussing.

You want to get into Vedic religion, Samsara, cycles, etc., that's probably more your area of expertise: the concepts that Christianity are concerned with are inherently dualistic and it has political implications that affect me.

In Christian BDSM particularly, the operant concepts involve male vs. female, noetic vs. anoetic, guilt vs. innocence, good vs. evil, etc., etc. - it's an entire hierarchy of dualities, and I think it's a healthy sign that young Christians are wrestling with these things directly, instead of the traditional slinging of shit from a safe distance.

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

& as long as attributing meaning enhances our knowledge base & or understanding, great. The problem, for me, is that much of that dichotomizing has not added much, especially when the categorization has been of the good-evil, right-wrong variety . . . . . Rather, the improper attribution of meaning can obscure vision . . . . . .

Take your physics example. I'd see that as an example of you looking to see dualistic qualities in something that isn't necessarily intrinsically dualistic. & potentially that desire to see what you wanna see can impede the view of what is . . . . . & that kind of projecting of framing device has tripped up human understanding over & over again . . . . . .


A valid point if we're talking about things in general, where my take would lean a bit more heavily towards evolutionary science than mysticism, but in this case, the subject happens to be mysticism.

This is metaphysics in a sense, who are we, why are we here, who left the door open stuff - no?

Evolutionarily, it's simple: we're here to fuck and eat, and the entire vast complex of abstract human knowledge is just there to facilitate that.

It sounds a bit cynical, don't you think? If it's a Christian thread, then the concept of values has got to come up - what I've described is the classical gnostic concept of values, which you understand as Ahimsa: when you harm others, you diminish yourself, you extinguish your own divine spark, when you make the world a better place, that spark grows.

Trust me, you don't want me to put it into evolutionary terms, it would be really dull.

But yes, Right vs. Wrong, Good vs. Evil, is very much a part of Christianity, inseparable really - as I read Genesis, all Adam and Eve got from eating the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge that they were able to distinguish good and evil, not that they knew good from evil instinctively, instantly or axiomatically - i.e., a capacity to learn, to distinguish one from the other to gather and preserve knowledge to that end, science, philosophy.

Augustine proved more influential than Pelageus, and that fact altered the entire course of human history up to this point - that interests me, the choice between one abstraction and the other, who made that decision, and why.

Is it just random? Does it matter or is one as good as the other?
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ORIGINAL: Amaros

But it is real - an unreal - think of it terms of physics: a hydrogen atom is an electron orbiting a proton, one positive, one negative - they never meet, and never separate, locked in eternal embrace, the mass of Atomic hydrogen is a function of motion - it exists because it's moving, enormous energy preserved as momentum, locked into a polarity.

The underlying dualistic argument usually centers over perfection vs. imperfection, but perfection is by nature unchanging, stasis, which equals death - imperfection is change, motion, existence - physical reality is flawed because it is the result of imperfection, flaw, change.

The nature of reality itself, even in terms of particle physics, is inherently dualistic.






DemonKia -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/3/2009 9:47:43 PM)

I guess much of my response is that dualism over-simplifies uselessly as much as it dissects incisively . . . . . . Again, if it helps you, great. But for me, much of the modeling rendered by dichotomization is of limited utility, in part because of that tendency of over-simplify, & to start lumping stuff only loosely correlated, together, with implicitly stronger bonds . . . . .

It's akin to reductionism. A useful tool in it's place, but reductionism & dualism are both just tools, not some special characteristics of the universe. Or at least not anymore than any other tool / characteristic . . . . . There's so many shapes that fill the universe that I don't get the excessive focus on any one . . . . .

I'm not really attached to any particular 'school' of thought, nor am I especially formally educated in any of this. & I'm most likely to frame stuff, even mystical stuff, in the terms of reason & science. That's part of where the duality thing really becomes problematic, for me. Spirit versus material implies that science & religion can never mix, & that's certainly how adherents on both 'sides' of that 'gulf' seem to be motivated. But I don't buy into that actually being a construct of the true nature of reality. Could be. Might not be. The verdict is still several centuries out on that one . . . . . . That's my cold, scientific evaluation of the data.

Um, the metaphor I find useful for thinking about what we don't know is that there were radio waves when we lived in caves. Early hominids were blissfully unaware of radio waves, but radio waves existed despite our lack of knowledge. I know enough science, & epistomology, to have a hint that we're nowhere near the end of what learnings we have in store . .. . . There's a certain cultural meme about us being at the end of history, & there's some pop cultural beliefs floating in the vast subconscious cultural ether that 'we know everything science', but that is so far from so . .. . . Yee-haw . . .. .

Personally, I find the most excitement in contemplating that, in the future, that particular dichotomy -- spirit versus matter -- turns out to be an artificial distinction & that the reality could be something far beyond our current comprehension. Trying to wrap my head around that kinda thing is one of my favorite forms of mental exercise . . . . . .

Nothing personal, Amaros, it's just that the duality thing has been argued extensively, & it so leaves me limp most every time . .. . . It's so much more intriguing to contemplate the weirdly not-very-dichotomous results of the double-slit experiments, where the particles behave as both wave & matter . . . . .

Ah, there you go, a much better physical science example of something that can be described usefully as a duality: matter versus energy. Everything exists as one or the other, & neither can be destroyed. Only altered. Shifted from form to form. On the other hand, everything is both. Depends on how it's looked at as to which is salient.

I stick with the idea that dualism has use as a tool for observing with, but it's important not to reify the tool (any tool) . .....

& isn't 'religion' undue reification of a tool of human capacities (spiritual feelings)? (Ie, I'm inclined to see the current evidence as showing the sequence being: hominids who have spiritual feelings out-survive / -reproduce the less spiritual across populations over generations; spiritual feelings lead to cultural behaviors; add time & human propensities to reify, abstract, attach meaning, ritualize, & some other stuff, & voila, religion is born out of the rich soil of the agricultural age . . . . . .)

I guess another thing about this is that humans are so complicated. To my mind, they operate on hundreds, or thousands, of levels, with a twist of irrationality thrown in. Atoms & particles are 'easy' by comparison, simple, well-behaved, reassuringly linear. & so while reductionist & dualistic tools can be used to parse some of that complexity, they can fail to capture the full picture, too . .. . .

& there's something, for me, about how knowing can get in the way of seeing. If one is full of knowledge (& ya know I know this one, lol) it doesn't leave much room for new knowledge to get in. To some degree, it's the naive / child's mind that's a maximal sponge for information & novelty . . . . .




GotSteel -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/4/2009 12:05:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Amaros
Well, you may have noticed that when talking about duality, it often ends up being Three things: beast-man-god, Father-Son-Holy Ghost, the point being, you never have one thing,

If you mean that there was a father and a holy ghost which produced a son doesn't your other example defeat your hypotheses? Beast-man-god starts out with one god who produces a beast who produces a man, no? Anyway, this is off topic enough that you should probably start your own thread.

As for the Jesus dom/sub question, I'm going with submissive. On account of that famous part with the bondage furniture.

I haven't the faintest idea how christian d/s works but it seems to be the sort of thing these people are interested in: http://www.christiansandbdsm.com/chatmail.html




TurboJugend -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/4/2009 1:12:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Excellent, you do know something about him.


Lol why do you think I wouldn't know about him? ( Not that I know all)


Crowley propably took parts of every religion he read about. Egyptian religion....even eastern yoga and old midievil books. ( even those kids songs for when they go to bed had his interest).
But does borrowing parts from every religion..and mix them..mean there is a really a link between them? Or is there soemthing new?


btw his books suck to read....especially when non english...lol




Hierodule -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/4/2009 1:40:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TurboJugend



btw his books suck to read....especially when non english...lol



just curious,have you read his novels (Diary of a Drug Fiend, Moon Child)or his play(The World's Tragedy)? I agree his "non-fiction"( if you can call it that) is tedious. But I was really surprised at how readable his fiction is.

Not trying to thread hijack so I'll contribute to the topic. The bible has no problem with power exchange. In fact, it requires it, as long as the Dom is male and the couple is married. But both partners have to be a sub to Jesus..

"You wives must submit to your husbands' leadership in the same way you submit to the Lord. For a husband is in charge of his wife in the same way Christ is in charge of His body the church. (He gave His very life to take care of it and be its Savior!) So you wives must willingly obey your husbands in everything, just as the church obeys Christ." Ephesians 5:22-24, TLB. A wife must not separate from her husband. (1 Corinthians 7:10) For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.Ephesians 5:23 . Ephesians 5:21, NIV. "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ."




TurboJugend -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/4/2009 1:50:29 AM)

I will give his fiction a try then. Thank you for the advise.

For those interested in such books and writings; http://www.sacred-texts.com/index.htm 
Book4 of Crowley and his mixture of believes ; http://www.sacred-texts.com/oto/aba/aba1.htm  He compares Buddha, Mohammed and Christ.


more on topic;

perhaps this is interesting for the OP

http://www.christiansandbdsm.com/qanda.html

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How do the thoughts of a Christian dominant differ from those of a secular dominant?
I feel that the difference between a Christian dominant and a secular dominant revolve around who they focus on in the relationship.  While I don't believe that all secular dominants are this way, I do feel that many put their own needs and desires far above those of their submissives.  Christian dominants should put the welfare of their submissives before their own needs.  As for me, my thoughts are for my submissive first and for my own pleasure and gratification second. My greatest gratification comes from seeing her grow and prosper.



How do the thoughts of a Christian submissive differ from those of a secular  submissive?

Unlike her secular sister, a Christian submissive may not be a natural submissive.  She may choose to become a submissive wife as she is called to do in the scriptures.  She seeks to honor God and her Husband in all she does.  The Christian submissive seeks after God’s heart and relies on prayer for strength and wisdom in her submissive walk. 




Hierodule -> RE: Christian Dominants (10/4/2009 1:57:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel


As for the Jesus dom/sub question, I'm going with submissive. On account of that famous part with the bondage furniture.



LOL but does he do house work?




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